http://thenewmanpodcast.com Advice for Men on Relationships, Dating, Sex, Career, Money, Power, Purpose, Inner Game & Fitness Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:05:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 Introducing "The New Man: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp." The New Man Podcast is a 30 minute, interview-style show that provides an entertaining and often humorous way to get real world, practical advice on every area of a man's life — relationships, sex, dating, career, money, power, purpose, inner game and fitness. The New Man Podcast covers all of the bases being missed by popular men’s magazines and media. The show dives into the topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. The New Man is where forward thinking men turn when they look at life and begin to wonder, "Now what?" In a nutshell, The New Man Podcast is personal development for guys who think self development is for pussies. The New Man is for guys who want to attract the right woman without playing "Pickup Artist" games or seduction tricks. We explore how to have an exciting sex life while learning how to navigate the sticky world of relationships. The New Man helps men break out of their confining job and get paid to do what they love. A common theme in all shows is to help guys quit settling for less, find their purpose and live a passionate, meaningful life. How is this done? By getting a handle on fear and stop letting emotions get in the way. The New Man helps guys develop the best physical and mental practices to live a life with brains, heart, guts and balls. A sample of guests who have appeared on The New Man: Ken Wilber, Dan Millman, Marcus Buckingham, Steve Pavlina, Shawn Phillips, Bill Harris, AJ Jacobs, Vernon Reid, Joel Harper, Sean Stephenson and Derek Sivers. Tripp Lanier yes Tripp Lanier TNMPodcast@gmail.com TNMPodcast@gmail.com (Tripp Lanier) The New Man Podcast, Tripp Lanier & Lanier Creative Services, Inc. Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp Integral, PUA, Purpose, Meditation, Advice, Men, Spirituality, Career, Sex, Money, Development, Fitness http://thenewmanpodcast.com/images/TNMP-Icon.jpg http://thenewmanpodcast.com http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/03/david-morelli/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/03/david-morelli/#comments Tue, 09 Mar 2010 08:00:17 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1342 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/03/david-morelli/feed/ 5 Anger,Fear,Finances,Fitness,Meditation,Money,Sex Do you ever wonder why you struggle with things that seem so easy for other guys? - Is there a way to clear your body of crappy feelings? - And why does “ramping up” to attack your challenges actually make you weaker? Do you ever wonder why you struggle with things that seem so easy for other guys? Is there a way to clear your body of crappy feelings? And why does “ramping up” to attack your challenges actually make you weaker? This week we’re in for a Jedi lesson with “Everything is Energy” (http://everythingisenergy.com) host, David Morelli. Listen as he lays out the tools to help you move through any road block. In this episode: * Powerful practices you can use today to clear crappy feelings and find your true power * Tools to get out of any jam or stuck place * How to tap into “The Force”, your unique male power * How 90% of your life is unconscious — and it’s running your life * Why willpower and striving make you weak * Where real male power comes from * More about David Morelli and “Everything is Energy” (http://everythingisenergy.com) About David Morelli (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/David_Headshot.jpg)David Morelli is a transformational healer, teacher and intuitive. If there were a Ph.D. for the ability to see, read and heal energy, David would have one. An expert in personal transformation, he shares wisdom and laughter with thousands. About Everything is Energy Everything is Energy is everything you have been searching for to live a life of fulfillment, ease and FUN! Your hosts, Kristin and David Morelli, are dedicated to shining the light of truth into your life as they teach you to change your energy and change your life. They will show you how to tap into the renewable sources of energy for your heart, mind, body and soul with love and laughter. Guests on the show are experts and share profound insights that you can use to transform every area of your life - from wealth to your health, food to your mood, metaphysics to quantum physics, all expanding on one truth...EVERYTHING...IS...ENERGY!! (Artwork is "Oversoul" by Alex Grey) (http://www.alexgrey.com/) Tripp Lanier yes 33:14 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/orgasm/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/orgasm/#comments Thu, 25 Feb 2010 17:00:43 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1253 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/orgasm/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-091/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-091/#comments Tue, 23 Feb 2010 08:00:00 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1166 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-091/feed/ 7 Fear,Integrity,Men's Circles,Men's Group 101,Men's Groups,Mission,Passion,Purpose Are you able to say what it is you really want in life? - Can you own what you want without needing to defend or justify it to others? - And how does just going with the flow mean you won’t be helped? - This is part 2 of our talk with Alex Linsley. Are you able to say what it is you really want in life? Can you own what you want without needing to defend or justify it to others? And how does just going with the flow mean you won’t be helped? This is part 2 of our talk with Alex Linsley. Listen in as we discuss how you can grow a pair AND inspire those around you to lend a hand. Alex Linsley is the founder of Man Collective in Oxford, England. In this episode he continues his story of being thrust into the limelight to explain his position on men’s personal development. He also has some amazing lessons to share. In this episode: * Getting clear on what you want in life * What motivates you? * Do you believe you need to justify or defend what you want? * Owning your desire is not dictatorial * What keeps us from owning what we want * What inspires people to lend a hand * Avoiding criticism * Taking your seat beyond the mediocre Click here to learn more about Man Collective. (http://www.mancollective.co.uk) About Alex Linsley (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg)Alex Linsley is an Economics & Management student at Oxford University. He realised how little he enjoyed his mundane existence four years ago and learnt from phenomenal teachers. Alex set up Man Collective (www.mancollective.co.uk), a men’s group in Oxford, in October 2009 to international media reaction. This has inspired him to reach out to men’s work across the UK. He is now involved in a variety of projects to support men and women who want inspiring, joyous lives through truly connected and exciting relationships. Tripp Lanier yes 21:44 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/do-this-mens-retreat-in-costa-rica/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/do-this-mens-retreat-in-costa-rica/#comments Tue, 23 Feb 2010 01:16:01 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1249 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/do-this-mens-retreat-in-costa-rica/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-090/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-090/#comments Tue, 16 Feb 2010 08:00:23 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1171 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-090/feed/ 2 Fear,Integrity,Men's Circles,Men's Group 101,Men's Groups,Mission,Passion,Purpose Are you afraid of what your friends may say if they caught you listening to The New Man? - What would it be like to suddenly and unexpectedly become the national spokesman for men’s personal development? - And how did one guy manage to seemingly unit... Are you afraid of what your friends may say if they caught you listening to The New Man? What would it be like to suddenly and unexpectedly become the national spokesman for men’s personal development? And how did one guy manage to seemingly unite the feminists and the chauvinists? This week we talk with a New Man listener who set out to quietly start a men’s group and then found himself bombarded by the British national press. We’re talking with Alex Linsley of Man Collective in Oxford. Listen to this amazing story about how, in an effort to remain “under the radar”, Alex ended up in the national press explaining to the country why he wanted to be in a men’s group. In this episode: * What a men’s group can do for you * Most guys are tolerating a lot of surface-level BS * Authentic Man Program * David Deida * Why some guys are “in the closet” about personal development * Top Gear * Uniting the chauvinists and the feminists * Loaded Magazine * What Alex learned from being in the gunsight of the press Click here to learn more about Man Collective (http://www.mancollective.co.uk) About Alex Linsley (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/linsley.jpg)Alex Linsley is an Economics & Management student at Oxford University. He realised how little he enjoyed his mundane existence four years ago and learnt from phenomenal teachers. Alex set up Man Collective (www.mancollective.co.uk), a men’s group in Oxford, in October 2009 to international media reaction. This has inspired him to reach out to men’s work across the UK. He is now involved in a variety of projects to support men and women who want inspiring, joyous lives through truly connected and exciting relationships. Tripp Lanier yes 23:20 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/how-to-subscribe-to-the-new-man-in-itunes/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/how-to-subscribe-to-the-new-man-in-itunes/#comments Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:25:31 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1205 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/how-to-subscribe-to-the-new-man-in-itunes/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/how-to-get-the-new-man-out-of-the-closet/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/how-to-get-the-new-man-out-of-the-closet/#comments Thu, 04 Feb 2010 20:26:14 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1184 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/how-to-get-the-new-man-out-of-the-closet/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/does-having-the-hots-for-other-women-mean-you-dont-love-your-wife/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/does-having-the-hots-for-other-women-mean-you-dont-love-your-wife/#comments Thu, 04 Feb 2010 00:00:18 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1181 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/does-having-the-hots-for-other-women-mean-you-dont-love-your-wife/feed/ 2 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-089-chris-jones-land-your-dream-job/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-089-chris-jones-land-your-dream-job/#comments Tue, 02 Feb 2010 08:00:20 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1160 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/02/tnm-089-chris-jones-land-your-dream-job/feed/ 5 Career,Fear,Fun,Passion,Pleasure,Success Have you ever wondered how you could screw up George Clooney’s couch? - Is Arizona a great place to live in your car? - And what wisdom can you glean from a self-proclaimed liar slash pot-smoker slash homeless writer? Have you ever wondered how you could screw up George Clooney’s couch? Is Arizona a great place to live in your car? And what wisdom can you glean from a self-proclaimed liar slash pot-smoker slash homeless writer? This week we’re talking with Esquire Magazine’s Chris Jones about George Clooney, Tiger Woods, Astronauts, John McCain, runaway NFL star Ricky Williams, the band Rush, your bed, your shoes and why you shouldn’t THINK about things too much. The tables are turned and the interviewer becomes the interviewee in this fun and surprisingly valuable discussion. In this episode: * George Clooney, a couch and a missing gall bladder * The homeless writer (and girlfriend!) in Arizona * Landing a dream job at Esquire Magazine * Dissing Tiger Woods long before it was cool * How Astronauts are actually humans * Iraq and Sgt. Joe Montgomery * Behind the curtain with John McCain * The search for Ricky Williams in Australia * Carlos Delgado, your bed and your shoes * Is Rush a great band or the greatest band? About Chris Jones (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/59868_jones_chris-e1264632287290.jpg)CHRIS JONES is a writer-at-large for Esquire and a contributing editor for ESPN: The Magazine. He began his career as a boxing writer for the National Post in Toronto, where he won the Edward Goff Penny Award, given to Canada’s outstanding young journalist. In 2005, he won the National Magazine Award for Feature Writing for “Home,” a story about three astronauts who were on the International Space Station when the shuttle Columbia exploded. In April, he won his second National Magazine Award for “The Things That Carried Him,” a story that documented the return of the body of Sgt. Joe Montgomery from Iraq to Scottsburg, Indiana. His work has also appeared in the Best American Magazine Writing, Best American Sports Writing, and Best American Political Writing anthologies. He lives in Ottawa, Canada, with his wife and two young sons. Tripp Lanier yes 37:25 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/mens-group-101-updated-now-easier-than-ever-to-join-a-mens-group/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/mens-group-101-updated-now-easier-than-ever-to-join-a-mens-group/#comments Thu, 21 Jan 2010 17:33:26 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1149 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/mens-group-101-updated-now-easier-than-ever-to-join-a-mens-group/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm088/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm088/#comments Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:00:04 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1130 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm088/feed/ 8 Fitness,Fun,Habits,Integrity,Meditation,Mission,Yoga Are you one of those guys who tries to make a change but find yourself right back where you started a few weeks later? - Is it possible to arrange your life so that making a positive change is more automatic than struggle? Are you one of those guys who tries to make a change but find yourself right back where you started a few weeks later? Is it possible to arrange your life so that making a positive change is more automatic than struggle? And why are there little bees or flies painted inside the urinal? This week we’ll explore how you can create positive habits that stick and why hope alone is the raw material of losers. We’re talking with Michael Brooks and Josh Summers — authors of “The Buddha’s Playbook.” In this episode: * Breaking Bad Habits * Making Good Habits Stick * Why New Year’s resolutions are like Vegas marriages * Hope is for losers (according to Fernando Flores) * What those little bees in the urinal have to do with your success * How to set up your practice to ensure your success * Choice Architecture * Why losing is more painful than gaining is joyful * Why perfectionism doesn’t work * “Muscle Confusion” and your life Purchase The Buddha’s Playbook at SatiSolutions.com About Josh Summers (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/079_JoshSummers_9-19-2007-150x150.jpg)Josh's interest in individual growth and collective transformation stems from his professional background in meditation, yoga and Asian Medicine. He holds a Masters in Oriental Medicine from the New England School of Acupuncture and a BA from Columbia University. Josh co-founded Sati Solutions and co-wrote The Buddha's Playbook: Strategies for Enlightened Living. He lectures at universities on mindfulness meditation and its applied benefits. About Michael Brooks (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/MBrooks21-150x150.jpg)With a background in non-profit leadership, PR strategy and political activism, Michael co-founded Sati Solutions and is the co-author of The Buddha's Playbook. His interest in meditation has merged with his professional pursuits to develop  meditative skill-set applications for durable social, economic and institutional change. Michael also majored in International Relations at Bates College and has toured as a standup comedian. Tripp Lanier yes 33:07 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/how-to-change-your-girl/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/how-to-change-your-girl/#comments Tue, 12 Jan 2010 00:04:32 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1117 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/how-to-change-your-girl/feed/ 6 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/bobby-bowden-was-my-first-interview/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/bobby-bowden-was-my-first-interview/#comments Thu, 07 Jan 2010 17:00:40 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1108 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/bobby-bowden-was-my-first-interview/feed/ 8 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm-087-sarah-ingier-how-to-use-the-force-luke/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm-087-sarah-ingier-how-to-use-the-force-luke/#comments Tue, 05 Jan 2010 09:00:35 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1093 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2010/01/tnm-087-sarah-ingier-how-to-use-the-force-luke/feed/ 0 Fear,Finances,Fitness,Inner Game,Meditation,Mission,Passion,Purpose,Success Do you feel perpetually stuck trying to fix, change or heal yourself? - Should you wrestle with your problems or just witness them? - And would you believe that you — yes you — can learn how to tap into another dimension where you're already whole, Do you feel perpetually stuck trying to fix, change or heal yourself? Should you wrestle with your problems or just witness them? And would you believe that you — yes you — can learn how to tap into another dimension where you're already whole, complete and perfect? Are you f’in kidding me? Well, get ready to use the force, young jedi because this week we’re talking with a clairvoyant healer who claims to see other dimensions while helping folks dump their draining life patterns. Is this just new age hocus pocus or could it help YOU live your best life? In this episode: * How can presence help you find your balls? * What can you do to drop these draining patterns and live your purpose? * What is a clairvoyant? * How can a clairvoyant help you? * Can anybody see these other dimensions? * Can you learn to see into the future? * Is life really like an Alex Grey painting or Tool album cover? * Why is it unhelpful to try to fix, change or heal? * How can your workout help you do soooo much more? About Sarah Ingier, Clairvoyant and Energy Healer (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/SarahPortrait.jpg)A pioneer here to help humanity step into a more Soulful existence, Sarah is a highly impactful teacher and healer. She is a guide into the unknown parts of ourselves. Sarah’s progressive views on life, spirituality, and healing make her work extremely transformative. Sarah has a beautiful blend of youthful innocence and piercing wisdom. Her highly developed clairvoyant and healing abilities help her to serve a wide range of people. From the most diligent spiritual seeker to the corporate executive, Sarah is a translator of information and a channel for healing. Sarah travels around the world giving workshops and retreats, helping people to connect to more of who they are. When she is not traveling she has a private practice in Austin Texas, where she offers Clairvoyant readings and healings. Sarah founded Presence Inc., a spiritually based business dedicated to help individuals, the planet, and culture step into a new era of greater alignment, greater peace, and greater healing. She is a core faculty member for the Kaiser institute, an organization committed to expanding consciousness within organizations and healthcare systems. Click here to visit SarahIngier.com. (http://sarahingier.com) Tripp Lanier yes 31:10 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/coaching-with-tripp-lanier/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/coaching-with-tripp-lanier/#comments Thu, 31 Dec 2009 23:33:17 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1054 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/coaching-with-tripp-lanier/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/tnm-086-dan-millman-how-to-live-the-way-of-the-peaceful-warrior/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/tnm-086-dan-millman-how-to-live-the-way-of-the-peaceful-warrior/#comments Tue, 22 Dec 2009 09:00:48 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1044 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/tnm-086-dan-millman-how-to-live-the-way-of-the-peaceful-warrior/feed/ 0 Anger,Fitness,Inner Game,Spirituality Are you more afraid of rocking the boat or looking like a wimp? - Do you see your current life as a diversion or as the training ground for being your best? - And how can you walk the razor’s edge between being a passive wimp and the aggressive tough... Are you more afraid of rocking the boat or looking like a wimp? Do you see your current life as a diversion or as the training ground for being your best? And how can you walk the razor’s edge between being a passive wimp and the aggressive tough guy? This week, legendary author and peaceful warrior Dan Millman is on The New Man to help you confront your fears, quit settling for less and live THIS life in the moment. In this episode: * What is a peaceful warrior and why should you care? * How to live your life as a peaceful warrior * Is spirituality just some idealistic, high level, pie-in-the-sky cream dream or does it reside where “the rubber meets the road?” * How to tell the difference between objective and subjective fears * What to do if you’re on the fence or have a difficult choice to make * How to find a teacher * How to tell if you’re on the “right path” or not * How to handle confrontations * How important is the body in walking the path? * Can Dan Millman take Deepak Chopra in a cage match? * The single practice to help you get the most out of this life About Dan Millman, Author and Teacher (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/dan-237x300.jpg)Dan Millman is a former world champion athlete, university coach, martial arts instructor, and college professor. After an intensive, twenty-year spiritual quest, Dan's teaching found its form as the Peaceful Warrior's Way, expressed fully in his books and lectures. His work continues to evolve over time, to meet the needs of a changing world. Dan's thirteen books, including Way of the Peaceful Warrior, have inspired and informed millions of readers in 29 languages worldwide. The feature film, "Peaceful Warrior," starring Nick Nolte, was adapted from Dan's first book, based upon incidents from his life. Much of Dan's time is devoted to writing and speaking. His keynotes, seminars, and workshops span the generations to influence men and women from all walks of life, including leaders in the fields of health, psychology, education, business, politics, sports, entertainment, and the arts. Dan and his wife Joy live in northern California. They have three grown daughters and two grandsons so far. Visit PeacefulWarrior.com Tripp Lanier yes 32:32 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/tnm-085-brad-yates-tapping-on-your-face-can-set-you-free-are-you-f%e2%80%99in-kidding-me/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/tnm-085-brad-yates-tapping-on-your-face-can-set-you-free-are-you-f%e2%80%99in-kidding-me/#comments Tue, 08 Dec 2009 09:00:20 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=1010 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/12/tnm-085-brad-yates-tapping-on-your-face-can-set-you-free-are-you-f%e2%80%99in-kidding-me/feed/ 2 Fun,Inner Game,Therapy How are your unconscious beliefs holding you back? - Do you think that healing an emotional wound needs to take a lot of time or energy? - And how can tapping on your face possibly help you gain financial abundanc - This is the first in a series of sho... How are your unconscious beliefs holding you back? Do you think that healing an emotional wound needs to take a lot of time or energy? And how can tapping on your face possibly help you gain financial abundanc This is the first in a series of shows I’m calling “Are you freakin kidding me?”. In this episode, we explore the strange facial tapping of the emotional freedom technique or EFT. Is this a crock of new age crap or could EFT help you be a better ma In this episode: * Why should you care about EFT? * How can tapping on your face can help you make bank? * What the hell is EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique? * How are your emotions connected to that stiff back or upset stomach? * How are your limiting beliefs and self-destructive patterns actually helping you? About Brad Yates (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/image827.jpg)Brad likes to think of himself as an Evolution Catalyst. He feels blessed to be known internationally for his creative and often humorous use of Emotional Freedom Techniques® (EFT). He was trained and certified at the respected Hypnosis Motivation Institute in Tarzana, CA, where he served on staff. Combining this background with training in energy psychology and various schools of thought in the area of personal growth and achievement, he coaches groups and individuals in achieving greater success, health and happiness in their lives. Brad has had the privilege and pleasure of working with a diverse group of clients, from CEO's to professional and NCAA athletes, from chiropractors and psychiatrists to corporate and federal attorneys, from award-winning actors to residents at a program for homeless men and women in Santa Monica. For several years he taught a weekly class using EFT and guided imagery at Sacramento Drug Court. He has also been a presenter at a number of events, including several International Energy Psychology Conferences and the Walk On Water (WOW) Fest in Los Angeles. He has presented at Jack Canfield's Breakthrough to Success event, and has done teleseminars with “The Secret” stars Bob Doyle and Dr. Joe Vitale. He is also the co-author of the best-seller "Freedom at Your Fingertips," a featured expert in the film “Try It On Everything” (along with Jack Canfield, Bob Proctor, Dr. Norman Shealy and Dr. Bruce Lipton), and has been heard internationally on a number of internet radio talk show For more information visit BradYates.net. (http://bradyates.net) Tripp Lanier yes 27:00 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/start-lead-a-mens-group/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/start-lead-a-mens-group/#comments Mon, 30 Nov 2009 18:25:46 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=886 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/start-lead-a-mens-group/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/the-3-biggest-mistakes-all-guys-make/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/the-3-biggest-mistakes-all-guys-make/#comments Mon, 30 Nov 2009 18:04:57 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=877 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/the-3-biggest-mistakes-all-guys-make/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/tnm-084-what-if-your-life-was-an-experiment/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/tnm-084-what-if-your-life-was-an-experiment/#comments Tue, 24 Nov 2009 14:00:04 +0000 admin http://thenewmanpodcast.com/?p=473 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/tnm-084-what-if-your-life-was-an-experiment/feed/ 4 Career,Fun,Meditation What can YOU learn from a guy who lived the bible to its word for a year and THEN pretended to be hot girl online? - What if you never held back — you always SAID exactly what you were thinking? - And why should you — a grown man — considering ta... What can YOU learn from a guy who lived the bible to its word for a year and THEN pretended to be hot girl online? What if you never held back — you always SAID exactly what you were thinking? And why should you — a grown man — considering taking a seat when you take a piss? This week, author and human guinea pig AJ Jacobs is here to share what he’s learned from living life as an experiment. AJ Jacobs is the Editor at Large for Esquire Magazine and the author of several best selling books including, “The Guinea Pig Diaries,” “The Year of Living Biblically” and “The Know-It-All.” In this episode: * What is it like to be a hot chick? * What if you said EVERYTHING that crossed your mind to others? * What is it like to be totally whipped? * Should you piss sitting down? * How does your behavior change your thoughts? * What does George Washington have to do with your penis? * What’s one, simple practice that’ll make a huge improvement in your life? About AJ Jacobs (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/jacobs-aj.jpg)Jacobs is the editor at large at Esquire magazine and author of two New York Times bestsellers. In 2004, Simon & Schuster published THE KNOW-IT-ALL. It subsequently spent eight weeks on the New York Times paperback bestseller list. It was praised by Time magazine, Newsweek,Vanity Fair, USA Today, Janet Maslin in the New York Times and AJ’s uncle Henry on Amazon.com. In 2007, THE YEAR OF LIVING BIBLICALLY was released. It has spent TK weeks on the NYT bestseller list, and was praised byPublishers Weekly, Kirkus Reviews, The New York Times Book Review, the Los Angeles Times, USA Today and others. It appeared on the cover of the evangelical magazine Relevant, but was also featured in Penthouse. (Jacobs is proud to be a uniter, not a divider). In September of 2009, his new book --- THE GUINEA PIG DIARIES: My Life as an Experiment --- will be published by Simon & Schuster. The book contains some previously published experiments (including “My Outsourced Life,” Jacobs’ quest to delegate every task in his life to India). But more than half will be new -- including life-changing quests featuring George Washington’s rules of life, marital harmony, marital disharmony, multitasking and nudity (not in that order). In addition to his books, Jacobs written for The New York Times,Entertainment Weekly, New York magazine and Dental Economicsmagazine, one of the top five magazines about the financial side of toothcare. He has appeared on "Oprah", "The Today Show", "Good Morning America" and "Late Night with Conan O’Brien" (though Conan did decline Jacobs’ offer to bring the remnants of his shaved beard in a plastic bag). He is a periodic commentator on NPR’s Weekend Edition Saturday, where he discusses important facts, such as the fact that opossums have 13 nipples. The Year of Living Biblically is currently being developed by Paramount Pictures, and My Outsourced Life is being developed at Universal Pictures. He's now working on a book called THE HEALTHIEST HUMAN BEING IN THE WORLD. It continues Jacobs’ experiential journalism series as he tries to perfect his physical condition while simultaneously dissecting the meaning of the word “healthiest.” Jacobs grew up in New York City. His father is a lawyer who holds the world record for the most footnotes in a law review article (4,824). His wife works for a highbrow scavenger hunt called Watson Adventures. He lives in New York with his family. He wonders if he fooled anyone with this third-person thing, or if everyone knows that he wrote this bio himself. Tripp Lanier yes 27:21 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/become-a-new-man-patron/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/become-a-new-man-patron/#comments Thu, 19 Nov 2009 06:31:28 +0000 admin http://localhost:8888/newman/?p=9 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/become-a-new-man-patron/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/join-the-new-man-life/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/join-the-new-man-life/#comments Thu, 19 Nov 2009 06:24:30 +0000 admin http://localhost:8888/newman/?p=5 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/join-the-new-man-life/feed/ 0 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/tnm-083-what-is-a-mens-group-and-why-should-you-care/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/tnm-083-what-is-a-mens-group-and-why-should-you-care/#comments Tue, 10 Nov 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/54590-what-men-s-group-why-should http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/11/tnm-083-what-is-a-mens-group-and-why-should-you-care/feed/ 1 Men's Groups Check out the free video available at Men's Group 101. Are you one of those guys who -- deep down -- is wondering, “What in the hell am I doing with my life?" - When you get in the weeds, do you tend to isolate like a wounded animal? Check out the free video available at Men's Group 101. (http://www.mensgroup101.com/thenewman) Are you one of those guys who -- deep down -- is wondering, “What in the hell am I doing with my life?" When you get in the weeds, do you tend to isolate like a wounded animal? And how likely are you to really follow through on all of those goals? This week Revolutionary Man, Jayson Gaddis and I dive into a solution for any guy who has ever felt stuck, isolated and unable to follow through. We’re talking about men’s groups. Check out the free video available at Men's Group 101. (http://www.mensgroup101.com/thenewman) In this episode: * What is a men’s group? * What is it not? * Why should you care? * How would you know if a men’s group could benefit you? * How are most guys screwing up? * How are some guys like walking tea kettles? * What does this have to do with a fear of failure? * How do truly successful guys utilize the power of others? * What’s available at Men's Group 101 (http://www.mensgroup101.com/thenewman) (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/JG.png) About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. He’s a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20’s and 30’s (and often men in their 40’s) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible.He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk youth in a variety of settings. He’s an adventurer at heart and has climbed some of the country’s tallest peaks and used to spend over 200 days per year sleeping on the earth, working in the Wilderness. Tripp Lanier yes 27:07 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-082-siona-van-dijk-how-to-use-an-online-dating-site/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-082-siona-van-dijk-how-to-use-an-online-dating-site/#comments Tue, 27 Oct 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/53877-siona-van-dijk-how-use-online-dating http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-082-siona-van-dijk-how-to-use-an-online-dating-site/feed/ 0 Dating,Women - Are you one of the millions of men who are looking to find that special someone? Are you quietly using or considering an online dating website? - And if so, how is your online dating profile already screwing up your chance to meet Mrs Right? Are you one of the millions of men who are looking to find that special someone? Are you quietly using or considering an online dating website? And if so, how is your online dating profile already screwing up your chance to meet Mrs Right? This week, Siona Van Dijk from the online dating site, Gaia Soulmates (http://soulmates.gaia.com/) is here to help you avoid looking like a tool while making the most of your online dating efforts. So many men (and women) are screwing up their chances for finding a partner just by falling into a few potholes in their profile. In this show, Siona Van Dijk walks us through some of these online dating danger zones and helps you get the most of your online dating experience. Click here to learn more about Gaia Soulmates. (http://soulmates.gaia.com/) In this episode: * How do you get the most out an online dating site? * Is there a stigma around online dating? * How are dating sites different from Facebook and other community sites? * How are guys screwing up their profiles? * How is your profile perceived by your potential partner? * How long should you plan to be on an online dating site? * How can you create a unique and authentic profile? * How to move the online interaction into a face to face date? * How many dates should you go on? * What’s more important -- shared values or shared interests? * Where online can you find women with depth and consciousness? * Visit Gaia Soulmates here (http://soulmates.gaia.com/) (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/siona.png)About Siona Van Dijk, Co-founder & Director of Gaia Soulmates Siona van Dijk is the Director of Gaia Community, an online network of nearly 300,000 visionaries, artists, and spiritual seekers committed to living lives of purpose and contributing to a positive future, and the co-founder of Gaia Soulmates, a dating site for singles seeking meaningful and mutually-supportive relationships. A graduate of the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, Siona's background also includes training in community building, facilitation, and bereavement counseling. She lives in Boulder, Colorado. Click here to learn more about Gaia Soulmates. Tripp Lanier yes 25:58 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-081-derek-sivers-capitalism-with-heart-and-the-tao-of-business/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-081-derek-sivers-capitalism-with-heart-and-the-tao-of-business/#comments Tue, 13 Oct 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/52720-derek-sivers-capitalism-heart-tao http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/10/tnm-081-derek-sivers-capitalism-with-heart-and-the-tao-of-business/feed/ 0 Career,Passion,Purpose Are you one of those guys who seems to get paralyzed in the process of starting something new? - Do you think you need a bunch of training or preparation before you can take action? - And what is the one single practice that will change how you experie... Are you one of those guys who seems to get paralyzed in the process of starting something new? Do you think you need a bunch of training or preparation before you can take action? And what is the one single practice that will change how you experience everything in your life? This week, we’ve got Derek Sivers on the show to talk about The Tao of Business and how any situation in your life can become a positive one. In this day and age of corrupt capitalists, CDBaby founder Derek Sivers shows us how you can build a multimillion dollar company just by focusing on helping others. In this episode, Derek reveals the Tao of Business and how just trying to make money usually delivers the opposite. In this show: * What is the Tao of Business and how can it help you even if you don’t own a business? * Do you need an MBA or a bunch of training to run a business? * How can learning too much be harmful? * How does personal development influence how you earn a living? * What is the practice Derek uses to turn *everything* into a positive experience? * If you’re prone to take things seriously, how can you learn to be more playful and creative with your life? * What’s the simplest way to build a solid business in a very short period of time? * How did the Segway inventor screw up royally and what can you learn from this? * Visit Derek Sivers online (http://sivers.org) (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/g-derek-sivers-2449-SM.jpg)About Derek Sivers, Founder and Former Owner of CDBaby Derek Sivers is best known as the founder of CD Baby. A professional musician (and circus clown) since 1987, Derek started CD Baby by accident in 1998 when he was selling his own CD on his website, and friends asked if he could sell theirs, too. CD Baby was the largest seller of independent music on the web, with over $100M in sales for over 150,000 musician clients. After he won the 2003 World Technology Award, Esquire Magazine's annual “Best and Brightest“ cover story said, “Derek Sivers is changing the way music is bought and sold... one of the last music-business folk heroes.” In 2008, Derek sold CD Baby to focus on his new ventures to benefit musicians, including his new company MuckWork where teams of efficient assistants help musicians do their “uncreative dirty work”. His current projects and writings are all at Sivers.org (http://Sivers.org). Tripp Lanier yes 28:27 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/09/tnm-080-reuvain-bacal-how-to-handle-a-breakup-or-loss/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/09/tnm-080-reuvain-bacal-how-to-handle-a-breakup-or-loss/#comments Tue, 29 Sep 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/51827-reuvain-bacal-how-handle-breakup http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/09/tnm-080-reuvain-bacal-how-to-handle-a-breakup-or-loss/feed/ 1 Breakup,Loss,Women How do you handle a breakup or the loss of something big in your life? - Do you “man up” and act like nothing’s wrong, go numb or collapse into a pitiful pity party? - And how can you keep this loss from festering and infecting your future relati... How do you handle a breakup or the loss of something big in your life? Do you “man up” and act like nothing’s wrong, go numb or collapse into a pitiful pity party? And how can you keep this loss from festering and infecting your future relationships? This week we’re talking about breakups and loss. Listen in as Reuvain Bacal and I lay out some options to help you get through the tough times and come out a stronger man.This is an extra special episode. We’ve had tons of requests to dive into this topic so we spent the extra time delivering even more helpful information that you can use today. In this episode: * Why do men have a tendency to isolate when they struggle? * Should a guy just “get back on the horse” or “spend some time alone”? * How can a bad breakup infect future interactions with women? * Why do we idealize our partner after they’re gone? * How does stress from the breakup or loss ravage your body? * Why is acting like a tough guy actually a sign of weakness? * How to avoid collapsing into your own self pity? * How do you work with intense emotions and confusion? * What can you do to help the recovery process move along quicker? * When is it okay to get back into dating? * How can breakups be a catalyst for getting your life on track? * When is it time to get professional help? About Reuvain Bacal, Psycotherapist and Relationship Coach (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/g-reuvain-bacal-2410-SM.jpg)Reuvain Bacal, MA is a psychotherapist specializing in men’s issues and couples counseling, and is a leader in the local men’s community. He has started and led men’s groups for over a decade, and has taught Group Dynamics and Leadership at Naropa University. He is a course leader for The Red Pill Weekend. Reuvain is passionate about helping men connect to their heart, balls, and authenticity. He lives in Boulder, Colorado with his wife and daughter. Visit ReuvainBacal.com (http://ReuvainBacal.com/) Tripp Lanier yes 47:39 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/09/tnm-079-brian-johnson-how-to-wire-your-brain-for-success-and-positivity-part-2/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/09/tnm-079-brian-johnson-how-to-wire-your-brain-for-success-and-positivity-part-2/#comments Tue, 15 Sep 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/51224-brian-johnson-how-wire-brain-success http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/09/tnm-079-brian-johnson-how-to-wire-your-brain-for-success-and-positivity-part-2/feed/ 0 Inner Game,Positive Psychology,Success What is the difference between pleasure and enjoyment? - What habit is the quickest ticket to a depressing life? - And how can you become an optimist without being full of shit? - This is part two of our talk on positive psychology with Philosophers No... What is the difference between pleasure and enjoyment? What habit is the quickest ticket to a depressing life? And how can you become an optimist without being full of shit? This is part two of our talk on positive psychology with Philosophers Notes creator, Brian Johnson. Join us as we lay out the fundamentals to having a fulfilling life. Visit Philosphers Notes here. In this episode: * What drains you? * What depletes you? * What’s the difference between pleasure and enjoyment? * Bill Harris, “Thresholds of the Mind” & Holosync * What are the fundamentals to living a satisfying life? * Why is a gratitude journal huge? * Quit your bitching! * Are you proactive or do you play the victim? * What is the quickest ticket to depression? * What is a practical optimist? * How does a pessimist view the world? * How to be more optimistic? * Philosphers Notes (http://philosophersnotes.com/thenewman) About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/g-brian-johnson-2373-SM.jpg)From Brian's Facebook Profile: I've always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe. After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss. Figured I’d get a Master’s when I’d distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from Tokyo to LA, I had one of those “Aha!/hallelujah!!” moments when I opened the SkyMall to an ad for a company that summarized business books for “busy executives.” I decided someone should do summaries of self-development books for the “busy self-actualizer” and that that someone should be me. ☺ Enter: PhilosophersNotes. (Imagine CliffsNotes. Only shorter. And cooler. And a *lot* more inspiring. ☺) I'm currently on sabbatical in Bali working my way through two suitcases of books while I re-wire my consciousness, create the first 100 PhilosophersNotes and teach a Philosophy class at the local yoga studio. Pinch me. I hart my job. Visit Philosphers Notes here. Tripp Lanier yes 29:05 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-078-brian-johnson-how-to-wire-your-brain-for-success-and-positivity-pt-1/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-078-brian-johnson-how-to-wire-your-brain-for-success-and-positivity-pt-1/#comments Tue, 01 Sep 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/51223-brian-johnson-how-wire-brain-success http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-078-brian-johnson-how-to-wire-your-brain-for-success-and-positivity-pt-1/feed/ 0 Inner Game,Positive Psychology,Success What is the real reason you work so hard to have security, friends, sex, status and, hell, anything? - Do you have a job, a career OR a calling? - And what are the simple steps you can follow to ensure that you have a life full of satisfaction and fulf... What is the real reason you work so hard to have security, friends, sex, status and, hell, anything? Do you have a job, a career OR a calling? And what are the simple steps you can follow to ensure that you have a life full of satisfaction and fulfillment? Sound like a cream-dream? Well, philosopher and entreprenuerial badass, Brian Johnson is back on The New Man to talk about what the emerging field of Positive Psychology can do for you. Visit Philosophers Notes In this episode: * What is Positive Psychology? * Why does it matter to you? * Martin Seligman, “Authentic Happiness” * Abraham Maslow * Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, “Flow” * What is the science of happiness, true well-being and flourishing? * What are your unique strengths? * Find your signature strengths at http://www.authentichappiness.com * How do you find out what you love? * Do you have a job, a career or a calling? * Marci Shimoff, “Happy for No Reason” * Maslow, “What one CAN be, one MUST be.” * How do you create flow in your life? Visit Philosophers Notes About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/g-brian-johnson-2373-SM.jpg)From Brian's Facebook Profile: I've always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe. After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss. Figured I’d get a Master’s when I’d distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from Tokyo to LA, I had one of those “Aha!/hallelujah!!” moments when I opened the SkyMall to an ad for a company that summarized business books for “busy executives.” I decided someone should do summaries of self-development books for the “busy self-actualizer” and that that someone should be me. ☺ Enter: PhilosophersNotes. (Imagine CliffsNotes. Only shorter. And cooler. And a *lot* more inspiring. ☺) I'm currently on sabbatical in Bali working my way through two suitcases of books while I re-wire my consciousness, create the first 100 PhilosophersNotes and teach a Philosophy class at the local yoga studio. Pinch me. I hart my job. Visit Philosophers Notes Tripp Lanier yes 27:24 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-077-kendra-cunov-what-is-polyamory-and-how-do-open-relationships-work/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-077-kendra-cunov-what-is-polyamory-and-how-do-open-relationships-work/#comments Tue, 25 Aug 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/50752-kendra-cunov-what-polyamory-how-do-open http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-077-kendra-cunov-what-is-polyamory-and-how-do-open-relationships-work/feed/ 0 Dating,open relationships,polyamory,Relationships Is polyamory just a fancy word for sleeping around when you’re in a committed relationship? - Do all open relationships end in a self absorbed, sex-crazed disaster? - And what can you learn from the mother of a newborn who stayed home last night whil... Is polyamory just a fancy word for sleeping around when you’re in a committed relationship? Do all open relationships end in a self absorbed, sex-crazed disaster? And what can you learn from the mother of a newborn who stayed home last night while her husband was on a date? This week, Kendra Cunov is on The New Man to discuss her experience with polyamory and open relationships.Kendra is the mother of a newborn and also the wife in an open marriage. In this episode she talks about her extensive experience with polyamory and open relationships. You will not want to miss this interview. In this episode: * What is Polyamory? * Open relationships * Open marriage and pregnancy * How to be parents and be in an open marriage * Not just for about the sex * Does wanting an open relationship mean something is wrong with your current relationship? * The number 1 pitfall of open relationships * What about jealousy? * Is having an open relationship a lot of work? * Why do open relationships fail? * What needs to be in place before a couple would try an open relationship? (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-kendra-cunov-2359-SM.jpg)About Kendra Cunov -- Coach, Seminar Leader and Co-founder of Authentic SF Kendra Cunov is a co-founder of AuthenticSF, a personal development company committed to fostering authentic, flourishing relationship in the world.  As a coach & seminar leader, she is a unique blend -- Years of practice (and upbringing) in a Buddhist monastery with cutting edge community-building and relationship dynamics, inspiring a profoundly clear and open approach to working with people. Tripp Lanier yes 32:09 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-076-joel-harper-no-more-excuses-do-you-deserve-to-be-in-amazing-shape/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-076-joel-harper-no-more-excuses-do-you-deserve-to-be-in-amazing-shape/#comments Tue, 18 Aug 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/50729-joel-harper-no-more-excuses-do-deserve http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-076-joel-harper-no-more-excuses-do-you-deserve-to-be-in-amazing-shape/feed/ 0 Fitness,Inner Game What’s your excuse for not being in shape? - Is it not enough time or money to go to the gym? - How is staying fit like brushing your teeth? - And what can you do when your partner and you are just not on the same page when it comes to fitness? What’s your excuse for not being in shape? Is it not enough time or money to go to the gym? How is staying fit like brushing your teeth? And what can you do when your partner and you are just not on the same page when it comes to fitness? This week, big time and big city personal trainer, Joel Harper is on the show to tell you everything you need to know to get off your ass and stay in shape. In this show: * Joel’s Workouts: No equipment necessary, short amount of time * The 4 Key Factors to Effective Workouts * Stretching -- when/how to get most benefits * Why is it easier for certain guys to stay in shape than others? * Why do you workout? To look better or to be stronger? * What about the guy that doesn’t have time to workout? * What to do if you’re feeling pain? * What happens if you and your partner are out of sync when it comes to fitness? * Do you deserve to be in amazing shape? In a great relationship? In a great job? * So much conflicting information on fitness and nutrition: What are the facts? * What’s one thing you can do to feel more fit and strong today? * Where to find Joel’s workouts online for free Check out FitPack DVD here About Joel Harper, Celebrity Certified Personal Trainer (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-joel-harper-2343-SM.jpg)Joel Harper is a long-time certified personal trainer in New York City. He trains everyone from celebrities to Olympic Medalists and his training philosophies have been captured in the New York Times best-selling books YOU: THE OWNER'S MANUAL, YOU: ON A DIET, YOU: STAYING YOUNG and YOU: BEING BEAUTIFUL with Dr. Mehmet Oz. Joel's workouts have been featured in multiple publications and TV programs, from Esquire to Oprah Magazine, all because his simple yet effective, no machines, no barbells exercises get results.In this episode, Joel delivers a ton of information that will eliminate any excuses you may have created. Time, money, equipment -- it doesn’t matter. He also lays out some fundamentals for working out, how to deal with your partner when you’re not on the same fitness page and confronting any possibility that you may not believe you deserve to be in great shape. Tripp Lanier yes 31:47 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-075-bryan-bayer-sexual-hang-ups-and-how-to-overcome-them/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-075-bryan-bayer-sexual-hang-ups-and-how-to-overcome-them/#comments Tue, 11 Aug 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/50378-bryan-bayer-sexual-hang-ups-how-overcome http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-075-bryan-bayer-sexual-hang-ups-and-how-to-overcome-them/feed/ 0 Sex Are you one of those guys who gets all squirmy when the topic of sex comes up? - What are your beliefs around sex? Is it dirty and bad? Or fun and nourishing? - And how does your relationship TO sex affect EVERYTHING in your life -- especially your int... Are you one of those guys who gets all squirmy when the topic of sex comes up? What are your beliefs around sex? Is it dirty and bad? Or fun and nourishing? And how does your relationship TO sex affect EVERYTHING in your life -- especially your interactions with women? This week Bryan Bayer is here to talk about how all of us have hang ups with fornication and what you can do to today to have a better sex life. Click here for more information on the Authentic Sexual Power DVD Set In this episode: * What are the blocks that come up for guys around sex? * All of us have some hang ups or hooks around sex * Not owning desire has us making small talk, talking bullshit * Your relationship to sex is communicated LOUDLY outside of the bedroom * Women can feel where you’re hung up on sex * How can some guys “get away with” talking explicit about sex with women? * If you’re not comfortable with yourself as a primal, sexual being it will show up in many areas of your life * It affects guys in relationships too * Are you bringing your raw masculine attraction to the bedroom? * Guys can be in touch with their raw masculine but at the same time objectifying their partner * Guys can be in a connected space with their partner but lacking a true passionate ground * Sex with heart, raw/primal energy is an ideal * Macho Jerk is all about the cock, raw/primal energy but no heart * New Age Wimp is all about the heart connection but lacks his primal/raw energy * Growing up with guilt/shame around sex * Physical blocks * Protecting your balls * Pay attention to where you hold tension in your body * Breathing fully can impact sexual polarity * Emotional blocks * Belief structures * “Sex is...” fill in the blank * Find your unconscious beliefs around sex * Interpersonal blocks -- Relationship blocks * Sex is suffering because relationship is suffering * Punishing our partner or vice versa * Not feeling safe with our partner or vice versa * Resonance vs polarity * David Deida -- masculine and feminine * Polarity and intensity come from not doing everything together * The importance of the Man-cave * Quality of time vs quantity of time with your partner * Emotional hang ups * Fear of sex * Performance anxiety * Notice where you hold tension, how full is your breathing * Take a look at your belief structures around sex * Notice where you’re holding back emotions * If you’re holding back in your relationship, start being more straight forward * If you feel that the relationship is losing its zing, be willing to spend less time together in service of creating more passion and polarity * Authentic Sexual Power -- DVDs and CDs * Very explicit and informative Practices Click here for more information on the Authentic Sexual Power DVD Set About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-bryan-bayer-SM.jpg)Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSF™ and the Authentic Man Program™, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship.  Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a background in the Destination Method, certified by Robert McDonald, one of the early pioneers and leaders in the science of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). He has written dozens of articles on man/woman dynamics and personal development, and in addition to his coaching practice, Bryan is a course leader for the Arete Center for Excellence, the Authentic Man Program, and supervises the production of other courses. Tripp Lanier yes 31:54 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-074-pt-2-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-074-pt-2-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/#comments Tue, 04 Aug 2009 02:04:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/49758-pt-2-how-navigate-woman-s-emotional http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/08/tnm-074-pt-2-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/feed/ 1 Dating,Fighting,Relationships,Sex,Women When you’re woman freaks out, do you buckle or try to make it all go away? - Do you prefer a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot? - And does your woman really support you or does it seem like she’s just another obstacle getting in the way of ... When you’re woman freaks out, do you buckle or try to make it all go away? Do you prefer a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot? And does your woman really support you or does it seem like she’s just another obstacle getting in the way of the life you want to have? Alyson Schwabe and Christiane Pelmas are back for part 2 of our talk on how to navigate a woman’s emotional mine field. This is part 2 of our in depth talk on how to approach tough topics with your woman. In this one, we learn a BIG lesson around how to deal with a woman’s “emotional storm”, how saying “yes, dear” is killing her respect for you and other tips for avoiding those big traps men often fall into. Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend. In this episode: * Don’t be afraid of your woman’s storm * How to go through something hard and come out okay * Why am I in this relationship? * Life with a woman is about storm * Storming is about being passionate * Do you want a passionate woman or a stepford wife robot? * Storming is to test a man, to see if he’s trustable * The storm does not mean something is wrong * Do not buckle to the storm * If you buckle, she will take over your role in the relationship or look for some way to fill it * It’s not about winning a fight or dominating the scenario * She’s entitled to her response and it has virtually nothing to do with you * Don’t take on her feelingsAnd don’t defensively posture * Stay curious * We want to know that in our relationships, we can say anything * Most common belief: I’m the only one that has to deal with this * Don’t try to do it alone * Get help with big problem areas -- find a therapist, coach or counselor * Trust that your relationship can stand the test and actually grow * Look at your partner as a team member, not as your opponent Click here for information regarding The Red Pill Weekend. About Alyson Schwabe, Psychotherapist - MA, CGT, LPC (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-alyson-schwabe-2284-SM.jpg)Alyson Schwabe has been in the mental health and human services field since 1996. She received her BA and MA in psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor with the state of Colorado. Alyson has 8 years of specialization training in Gestalt therapy, and is known nationally for her approach in teaching people to relate authentically and live with intention. Alyson’s theory and application are rooted in gestalt, developmental, energetic, and somatic psychologies, while her central philosophies are aligned with integral theory, human potential, and consciousness development. She offers real-world skills and actively helps you work out unfinished issues in the moment.  Alyson will help you make conscious, empowered choices so you are in charge of your life and how you live it.  Alyson is most often found training the trainer, and is the support behind those that influence the masses. She provides on-location private intensives, facilitates workshops in the art of authentic contact, and teaches her approach at Naropa University’s graduate school of psychology. To reach her, you can call her directly at 303.960.7917 or TherapistAlyson (at) mac (dot) com. About Christiane Pelmas, LCSW (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-christiane-pelmas-2286-SM.jpg)Christiane Pelmas, LCSW specializes in the re-wilding of the human soul and the cultivation of authentic expression through sexuality and intimacy. She maintains a private practice in Boulder CO where she works with couples and individuals in a variety of settings, teaches classes and facilitates groups. She can most easily be reached via email at cpelmas@comcast.net (mailto:cpelmas@comcast.net) or by phone at 303-449-8590. Tripp Lanier yes 26:05 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/#comments Tue, 28 Jul 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/49757-pt-1-how-navigate-woman-s-emotional http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-073-pt-1-how-to-navigate-a-womans-emotional-minefield/feed/ 1 Dating,Fighting,Relationships,Sex,Women Are you scared to bring up certain topics because you don’t want to cause a shitstorm with your girl? - Do you resent your partner for saying what you can and can not do? - And how is it possible that by avoiding conflict, Are you scared to bring up certain topics because you don’t want to cause a shitstorm with your girl? Do you resent your partner for saying what you can and can not do? And how is it possible that by avoiding conflict, you’re actually killing... Tripp Lanier yes 27:36 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-072-clay-collins-how-to-follow-your-purpose-and-pay-the-bills/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-072-clay-collins-how-to-follow-your-purpose-and-pay-the-bills/#comments Tue, 21 Jul 2009 03:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/49642-clay-collins-how-follow-purpose-pay http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-072-clay-collins-how-to-follow-your-purpose-and-pay-the-bills/feed/ 0 Career,Mission,Passion,Purpose Do you feel stuck in a job but don’t think you could possibly survive as a your own boss? - Are you thinking, “If I follow my passion the money will just come!” - And is it really possible to connect your life purpose to the way you earn a living? Do you feel stuck in a job but don’t think you could possibly survive as a your own boss? Are you thinking, “If I follow my passion the money will just come!” And is it really possible to connect your life purpose to the way you earn a living? This week, Clay Collins is on the show to talk about how YOU can live your mission AND pay the bills. So many guys make the sickening choice between following what they truly love and sticking with a job just to pay the bills. It’s a tragic “either/or” scenario. Clay Collins has made it his mission to teach men how to build their own business online so that they can care for their families and live a life in alignment with their deeper purpose. Clay brings up a strong point that in our today’s culture where men lack a valid initiation into manhood, owning your own business will serve that purpose. We’ll also talk about the myth of “If I follow my passion the money will just come”, the danger of Job-ification and what you can do today to bring your life into alignment without having to live on the street. Check out Clay Collins and Project Mojave here. In this episode: * The Mission of Project MojaveFinanceYourFreedom.com * Quit your job, escape cubicle hell * Living into your full potential * Hoping a job will provide a sense of meaning/purpose * Hoping more education will provide meaning/purpose * There is no job that will “do it all” for you * Feeling like a f**k up * Stumbling in the workforce * Feeding your family while following your purpose * Guys are hesitant to take financial risks when they have a family * Do you follow your vision or do you feed your family? * Internet Marketing and Inner Game * What is a Freedom Business? * Helping people earn a living on the internet within three months * To free up time for personal growth, family, etc. * Freedom Business is a stepping stone to your Mission Business * Designed to work quickly and without much startup money * Information Products * We want a guarantee of success * We want the nuts and bolts of what to do * Testing your business idea * The Myth of: Do what you love and the money will follow * Being driven by opportunity * The need for a purpose in what you do * Being driven by what you love * How your Freedom Business serves your Mission * What is Job-ification? * How to keep from hating what you do * Lack of itinitation rites for men in our culture and becoming a man through business * Running a business will make you grow up * Mission Mindmap, Statement and Journal * Working on yourself is working on your business * “What is my purpose in life?” * “What do I need to do today so I can fall asleep tonight in peace knowing I have given everything?” Check out Clay Collins and Project Mojave here. About Clay Collins, Creator of Project Mojave (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/g-clay-collins-2278-SM.jpg)From Clay's website: I am a fulltime internet marketer from Minneapolis who does business in three niches. I aim to live my life in a way that is fundamentally oriented towards maximum contribution and making the world a better place. I strive to live in a manner that renders this statement true: everything I do is oriented towards helping people generously feed their families while following their deepest purposes. I have a vision for a world where every person can be their own boss and secure – at the very minimum – an $80K+ income while working from home. I have a vision for a world where people do not have to choose between being their own masters and feeding their families. And I pursue this vision because I believe entrepreneurship is one of the most powerful enablers of self-improvement. Check out Clay Collins and Project Mojave here. Tripp Lanier yes 28:36 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-071-guy-sengstock-pt-2-are-you-trying-to-get-something-from-the-world/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-071-guy-sengstock-pt-2-are-you-trying-to-get-something-from-the-world/#comments Tue, 14 Jul 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/48678-guy-sengstock-pt-2-trying-get-something http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-071-guy-sengstock-pt-2-are-you-trying-to-get-something-from-the-world/feed/ 0 Mission,Passion,Purpose Are you spending your day trying to GET money, ass or attention? - Do you accumulate things in order to feel better about yourself? - And how could you earn a living by helping others transform their lives for the better? - This week, Are you spending your day trying to GET money, ass or attention? Do you accumulate things in order to feel better about yourself? And how could you earn a living by helping others transform their lives for the better? This week, Guy Sengstock is back for part 2 of our talk on finding your purpose and mission in life. We’re back with Guy Sengstock in our exploration of how to find your purpose or mission in life. In this episode, Guy shares his own personal story of revealing his passion and gifts. We also make some powerful distinctions around how men use the world as a place to GET SOMETHING -- money, sex, attention, validation, etc. The flip side is seeing the world as a place to EXPRESS SOMETHING -- namely your talents and abilities to provide value or positively impact others. Guy also walks us through a preview of his year long transformational coaching program. This is a great offering to consider if you’re looking to make some major changes in your life AND develop some skills to earn a living by helping others. Click here for more information on Guy’s year long transformational coaching training. Or contact Guy Sengstock at (415) 290-8385 or guy@aretecenter.com. In this episode: * How Guy found his purpose by following his heart * Going to art school in San Francisco * How Circling came to be * Being gifted at something * Feeling more alive giving the gift * Following where he felt most alive * Following his deepest desire * The difficulty of speaking your purpose/mission * How you make your money, the people you hang out with * The importance of having other men in your life * The need for feedback from others * Humans are the only creatures who can lie to ourselves * The Narcissus Myth * Falling in love with the reflection * Agonizing over a yearning for the reflection * You already are what you’ve been searching for * You’ve found your purpose when it’s not outside of you “to get” * A BMW or Confidence * We want things because of the experience we think they will provide * What is an expression of your confidence? * Are you trying to get something from the world? * Or are you trying to express something in the world? * Look at what you’re currently doing in life * Why am I really doing this? * Start to be brutally honest with yourself * What does that get you? * Did you choose this? * If no, what would you choose? * Coaching, therapy, men’s groups * David Deida * Your death bed * Guy’s year long coaching program * How to be fully yourself * Creating transformational moments * Year long transformational crucible About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/g-guy-sengstock-SM.jpg)Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life! Click here for more information on Guy’s year long transformational coaching training. Or contact Guy Sengstock at (415) 290-8385 or guy@aretecenter.com. Tripp Lanier yes 23:49 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-070-guy-sengstock-how-do-you-find-your-purpose-or-mission/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-070-guy-sengstock-how-do-you-find-your-purpose-or-mission/#comments Tue, 07 Jul 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/48677-guy-sengstock-how-do-find-purpose http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/07/tnm-070-guy-sengstock-how-do-you-find-your-purpose-or-mission/feed/ 0 Mission,Passion,Purpose Is your job a place to just make money or is it something you deeply love? - Do you ever find yourself at work wondering, “What in the hell am I doing?” - And -- be honest -- why are you living the life you’re living? Is your job a place to just make money or is it something you deeply love? Do you ever find yourself at work wondering, “What in the hell am I doing?” And -- be honest -- why are you living the life you’re living? Is it a reflection of what you deeply desire or has it just happened? This week Guy Sengstock returns to The New Man Podcast to talk about how to find your purpose in life. Guy Sengstock (coach, Arete Creator and Co-Owner of Authentic SF) joins us to talk about how to find your purpose or mission in life. Guy’s purpose (and career) is basically to help others find their purpose; so who better to have in the hot seat? We discuss how men get caught up in the WHAT of their lives -- the emails, the to do list, the accomplishments. And yet we have a deeper connection to WHY we do them. This leaves us feeling drained and burdened instead of alive and energized. Join us as we fumble f--k our way through an exploration of this critical process in a man’s life. Click here for more information on Guy’s year long transformational coaching training. Or contact Guy Sengstock at (415) 290-8385 or guy@aretecenter.com In this episode: * The Circling Process * Purpose * Finding your mission * Helping others find their purpose * Trying to find your purpose kinda screws it up * The danger of not listening to yourself * Living under the ultimate male-illusion * “If you work hard enough one day it’ll be over” * David Deida * Striving to feel release, bliss * Finding the answer means finding freedom * Men are lost in the content of our lives * To Do Lists, Jobs, Details, the Grindstone * Getting lost in emails * How do you feel after your work? * Purpose equals context * Purpose is why you’re doing what you’re do * Purpose is not the accomplishment * Year Long Coaching Program * When work becomes a burden * The difference between work and living your purpose * Why are you doing what you do? * What do you really want? * What is my desire? * Separating your voice from the voices of others * Parents, Friends, Society * Having the balls to ask these questions * You always have a “why” for the things in life * Is it your “why”? * Your current life supports you to stay where you are * Feeling drained or burdened indicates you’re not living your purpose * Start to get honest with yourself * Be willing to admit that you don’t know what is driving you * What gives your actions meaning? * Start with what is your purpose right now? * Are you living someone else’s life? * Doing what your told? * Defying what your told? * Everything I do is something I’ve consciously do from the heart * Discovering your prison cell is elating * You’re not locked in your prison cell * The beginning of choice * You can only make choices for things that you’re aware of * There’s more possible * Continuously waking up * Not a utopia * Is your “why” a chosen why? About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/g-guy-sengstock-SM.jpg)Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life! Click here for more information on Guy’s year long transformational coaching training. Or contact Guy Sengstock at (415) 290-8385 or guy@aretecenter.com Tripp Lanier yes 29:00 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-069-king-mott-how-can-a-gay-man-help-your-monogamous-sex-life/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-069-king-mott-how-can-a-gay-man-help-your-monogamous-sex-life/#comments Tue, 30 Jun 2009 02:03:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/48656-king-mott-how-gay-man-help-monogamous http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-069-king-mott-how-can-a-gay-man-help-your-monogamous-sex-life/feed/ 0 Gay,Relationships,Sex Are you one of those guys who confuses homosexuality with pedophilia? - How are gay men similar to straight men? - And what can you learn from a gay man about improving the sex in your monogamous relationship? Are you one of those guys who confuses homosexuality with pedophilia? How are gay men similar to straight men? And what can you learn from a gay man about improving the sex in your monogamous relationship? This week King Mott joins us on The New Man. He’s an Associate Professor of Political Science and Gender Studies at Seton Hall University and recently went head to head with the Roman Church over their scapegoating of homosexuals in the pedophilia cases that plagued the institution. King also discusses what it’s like to be a gay man in America, how gays (generally) see the world much differently than straight men, what it’s like to be a gay man doing men’s work and how gay men are way ahead in the realm of having sexually satisfying monogamous relationships. In this episode: * Roman Catholic Church * Pedophilia * Homosexuality * Equating pedophiles and homosexuals * Homosexuality within the Roman Church * Bigotry * The New York Times Standing up to the Roman Church * Prejudice against homosexual, lesbian community * Perpetuating Homophobia * Pedophilia has nothing to do with sexual orientation * Seton Hall and it’s administration * The importance of controversial ideas * Roman church aiding pedophiles * Scapegoating gay men * The straight while male establishment * Ideas are changing towards LGBT * Homophobia is another form of misogyny * White straight men are not at fault * Living in a patriarchal societyFear of anything different * The importance of personal experience * Irony of sex in American cultureMixed messages in our culture with regards to sex * Sex is private * Trying to legislate sexual morality * Being a “fag” in the locker roomYounger generations are more tolerant * Most of us know someone who is gayMost gay men are not safe in parts of this country * How are gay and straight men similar? * Essentialism * Gay people see the world differently * Gay ghettos -- Chelsea, the Castro -- crime rates are low * The danger of stereotyping * Straight alpha males * How gays interact - power differentials * Gays and women being outside of the power differential * Gays and men’s work * The Mankind Project * Straight men and same sex experiences * Shame * Being in one’s power * Seeking truth in a safe way * Father issues * Waiting to see if it’s safe to come out of the closet * Gays as social chameleons * Trust is built and earned * What gay men and straight men can teach each other * Straight men and the struggle with monogamy * Gay men and emotional monogamy vs sexual monogamy * You don’t have to expect “everything” out of just one person * What happens after prince charming meets his princess? * The trap of “finding the one” * Marriages that are emotionally and sexually dead * Talk with your wife that you’re feeling stuck in the marriage * She may be feeling stuck, too * Divorces, satisfying marriages * CLAG -- Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies About King Mott, Associate Professor of Political Science and Gender Studies at Seton Hall University (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/g-king-mott-2230-SM.jpg)King Mott is an Associate Professor of Political Science and Gender Studies at Seton Hall University. He also has over 15 years of experience with The Mankind Project, and has been outspoken against the Roman Church with regards to the deliberately wrongful association of pedophilia with homosexuality. Tripp Lanier yes 25:12 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-068-brent-kessel-its-not-about-the-money/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-068-brent-kessel-its-not-about-the-money/#comments Tue, 23 Jun 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/48446-brent-kessel-s-about http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-068-brent-kessel-its-not-about-the-money/feed/ 0 Finances,Inner Game,Money Brent Kessel joins us to discuss the inner demons and voices we ALL carry with regards to money. - First off, money is not the root of all evil -- it’s our grasping and clinging for it. From this place, Kessel helps us figure out what our unconscious... Brent Kessel joins us to discuss the inner demons and voices we ALL carry with regards to money. First off, money is not the root of all evil -- it’s our grasping and clinging for it. From this place, Kessel helps us figure out what our unconsciou... Tripp Lanier yes 29:00 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-067-sean-stephenson-get-off-your-but-and-live-large/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-067-sean-stephenson-get-off-your-but-and-live-large/#comments Tue, 16 Jun 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/48387-sean-stephenson-get-off-live http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-067-sean-stephenson-get-off-your-but-and-live-large/feed/ 0 Inner Game Sean Stephenson is here to show us how to cut the crap and move forward. - Sean avoided a death sentence at birth, multitudes of surgeries and physical setbacks to live an amazing life as a therapist, author and speaker -- impacting people around the w... Sean Stephenson is here to show us how to cut the crap and move forward. Sean avoided a death sentence at birth, multitudes of surgeries and physical setbacks to live an amazing life as a therapist, author and speaker -- impacting people around the world. In one particular story, Sean tells us how his mother asked him if he was going to use his situation as a gift or a burden. Heavy stuff for a fourth grade kid. Sean is here to remind us how to lose the excuses and victim-mentality that keep us playing small. The only thing holding you back is yourself. Listen on if you want to grow. In this episode: * Interpreting the challenges in life * Reality Show on A&E “Three Foot Giant” * Your “victim story” is the biggest thing holding you back * Fairness is an illusion * Your responsibility to live is a vicTOR vs a vicTIM * Your mentality creates your reality * Living your dreams makes some people nervous * Is this going to be a gift or a burden in your life? * Nobody has it easy * Maintain and upgrade your beliefs * How your community keeps you where you are * Surround yourself with solid people * The “Sean-tourage”You are like your friends * Character traits of those around you * How do we choose our friends? * If something is meant to be, you can take it slow * Tolerating crappy relationships * Book -- “Get Off Your But” * Fears * Insecurities * Excuses * Go for long term pleasure which is fulfilling * Finding your purpose is sexy * What do I need to do today to be living my purpose? * Where are you most happy & fulfilled? * We are more scared of success than failure * Being challenged about how much you want it * Rule with a velvet hammer * How challenging yourself physically strengthens you mentally * What was the worst day of your life? * Learn from others’ experiences * The boundary of your problem * Face your fear * When you do things that are courageous you gain confidence * InnerGameMagazine.com About Sean Stephenson, Board Certified Therapist, Author, Speaker (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/g-sean-stephenson-2208-SM.jpg)Expected to die at birth, Sean Stephenson has faced an army of reasons to give up and countless opportunities to embrace pity. He suffered more than 200 bone fractures by age 18, reached a height of only 3 feet, and is permanently confined to a wheelchair. However, this man took a STAND for a quality of life that has inspired millions of people around the world, including Tony Robbins and President Clinton. Sean Stephenson… * Has worked on Capitol Hill as Legislative Affairs Support Staff for Congressman William O. Lipinski AND in the White House as a Presidential Liaison for the Office of Cabinet Affairs. * Started his own professional speaking company to travel the country and motivated individuals in schools, companies, hospitals, prisons, and federal agencies. * Shared the speaking platform with Tony Robbins, Henry Winkler, and Mark Victor Hansen. * Filmed a fitness video called, No Excuses! with Miss Fitness Universe and her husband, a former Mr. Olympia competitor. * Testified in front of the United States Senate on two occasions. * Was appointed to serve on the Board of Directors for National Association for Self-Esteem. * Graduated from DePaul University with High Honors, right across the street from the very hospital where he was expected to die birth. * Has appeared in dozens of media outlets including: Oprah, CNN, The Discovery Health Channel, WGN, and CBS News, and in The New York Times. * Received Board Certification in Clinical Psychotherapy from the Association of Integrative Psychology, is a Certified Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic * Programming, and currently receiving his Doctorate from American Pacific University. Sean operates a private practice out of the Oakbrook Terrace Tower in Chicago, IL. Over the past decade, Tripp Lanier yes 25:35 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-066-tripp-lanier-pt-2-you-cant-it-up-and-you-cant-get-it-right/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-066-tripp-lanier-pt-2-you-cant-it-up-and-you-cant-get-it-right/#comments Tue, 09 Jun 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/47948-tripp-lanier-pt-2-t-up-t-get http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-066-tripp-lanier-pt-2-you-cant-it-up-and-you-cant-get-it-right/feed/ 0 Inner Game,Meditation,MKP We rejoin the discussion with Tripp Lanier as he shares a powerful story about an exchange with Zen Master Jun Po Roshi. - Ray Brejcha and Tripp talk about the dangers of becoming a “wound worshipper”, how your wariness makes others wary of you and... We rejoin the discussion with Tripp Lanier as he shares a powerful story about an exchange with Zen Master Jun Po Roshi. Ray Brejcha and Tripp talk about the dangers of becoming a “wound worshipper”, how your wariness makes others wary of you and how your secrets ultimately own you. Also, listen as the benefits of getting real with your fears and the transformation of sharing them with others is revealed. In this episode: * The gift of being smacked with a stick * A valuable lesson from Jun Po * Living a paradox * “You can’t fuck it up and you can’t get it right” * Working so hard to get it right and not screw it up * Play full out and have fun with the screw ups * Sacred Laughter * Learning to recognize when you feel less whole * What gets in the way of your potential * Shadow work mixed with meditation * Waiting to open up until you trust someone * Wariness begets wariness * Trying to protect yourself actually pushes people away * Being less approachable, intimidating * Pushing away people that actually want to help * Becoming a retreat, seminar or workshop junkie * How to melt shame * Terminal uniqueness Making things less significant without being dismissive * Don’t be a wound worshipper * Your secrets kill you -- get them “out there”It’s not that bad when you put it out there * Having your friends help you see what is driving you * What are you scared of? * What are you defending yourself against? * Notice what you’re avoiding. Can you be playful with that? * Tell someone what you’re scared of * Being more trustworthy * The energy drain of “keeping it all together” * Where the juice, depth and meaning in life is for you Tripp Lanier yes 20:58 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-065-tripp-lanier-the-dangers-of-not-enough/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-065-tripp-lanier-the-dangers-of-not-enough/#comments Tue, 02 Jun 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/47947-tripp-lanier-dangers http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/06/tnm-065-tripp-lanier-the-dangers-of-not-enough/feed/ 0 Inner Game,Meditation,MKP In this episode, the tables are turned and New Man host, Tripp Lanier is the one being interviewed. He recently stepped into a deeper level of practice, and guest interviewer Ray Brejcha prods and pokes to find out what is going on. In this episode, the tables are turned and New Man host, Tripp Lanier is the one being interviewed. He recently stepped into a deeper level of practice, and guest interviewer Ray Brejcha prods and pokes to find out what is going on. Tripp talks about his recent experiences, including The Mankind Project’s New Warrior Training Adventure as well as a 7-day Hollow Bones Zen Meditation retreat. The discussion touches on life transitions, stepping into the unknown, and honoring your potential as a man. It also focuses on the deeper issues that lead to living a satisfied life when so much of our inner wiring is saying “not enough”. In this episode: * Why Tripp hosts the show * Life Transition * Letting go of identities * Living with a boat anchor tied to the leg * Five years of darkness * Honoring your potential * Stepping into uncertainty * How to trust uncertainty * Walking out on to an icy lake * Feeling challenged by life and loving it * Following the feeling of being alive * Mankind Project New Warrior Training * Hollow Bones Zen Retreat * Resistance to mythopoetic men’s work * Iron John by Robert Bly * Jun Po Roshi * Goenka Vipassana * Part of me may die * Noticing where you’re guarded * Being less open * Being defensive * Boundaries vs Resistance or a Wall * Not being able to receive compliments or gratitude“Don’t beat your own drum”Missing out on receiving love and appreciation * Hitting the wall * Fear of never being satisfied * Not enough -- No matter what I do it won’t be enough * Not able to celebrate success * Wanting to feel more secure in the face of the unknown * Meditation -- the part of you that can’t be taken away or destroyed * Cultivating a sense within that is secure * Will I still be ok? Confronting the hard realities of life and still being ok * The TaoSamadhiSoul exfoliation -- peeling off layers * Getting cooked * Sitting in resistance Tripp Lanier yes 21:48 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-064-vernon-reid-open-your-mind-to-what-matters/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-064-vernon-reid-open-your-mind-to-what-matters/#comments Tue, 26 May 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/47224-vernon-reid-open-mind-what http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-064-vernon-reid-open-your-mind-to-what-matters/feed/ 0 Death,Music/Art,Passion Not many guitarists come close to having Vernon Reid’s resume: - Grammy Winner Platinum Selling Artist Complete badass virtuoso in jazz, funk, r&b, metal, punk, etc. Shared the stage and studio with Carlos Santana, The Rolling Stones, Not many guitarists come close to having Vernon Reid’s resume: * Grammy Winner * Platinum Selling Artist * Complete badass virtuoso in jazz, funk, r&b, metal, punk, etc. * Shared the stage and studio with Carlos Santana, The Rolling Stones, Public Enemy, etc. He’s a chameleon, but how does he escape categorization or the limiting beliefs that restrain so many people? Where does he find “the juice”? And how is playing with the Stones just as exciting as having his lost wallet returned? Listen to this lively discussion where Vernon discusses having an open mind, finding your own voice, using mortality as inspiration and finding the "wild" moments in your everyday life. In this episode: * Avoiding categorization -- being put into a box * Keeping the focus on what you love * Marching to the beat of your own drum * Anthrax vs Burt Bacharach * Music is about diving into the human experience * Unique expression of “their moment” * Learning how to listen to music * Listen without judging * James Brown * The Beatles * The Rolling Stones * Dave Clark 5 * Sly Stone * Jimi Hendrix * Carlos Santana * Frank Zappa * Music that black people listen to vs what white people listen to * Disclipline and practicing * At first playing was awful, frustrating * Little breakthroughs lead to big breakthroughs * Learning how to be with frustration * As a father seeing discipline in younger generations * Instant gratification vs hard work * Trying to remove risk from the equation of life * “Inside of your struggle is your sound” * Comfort and convenience can take away from your voice * Avoiding and distracting ourselves from mortality * Using mortality and frustration to live the moment * People want to avoid what sucks * Shortcuts mean no  individuality * Great people all struggled * Finding your voice without fixing it or perfecting it * Jeff Beck shows us how to be ourselves * The Edge from U2 * Henry Rollins hates U2 * Johnny Marr, The Smiths “How Soon is Now” * Walter Becker from Steely Dan * Having your own sound/voice is more important than technique * Realizing your own voice * Ronald Shannon Jackson Fusion -- Jazz and Rock * Carlos Santana, John McLaughlin & Robert Fripp (King Crimson) * The Decoding Society * The Who “I hope I die before I get old” * Older men still in “the young man’s” game of rock * The importance of living in the moment and projecting yourself into the future * Being fascinated with young people - prettiest, sexual peak * The only constant is change vs The more the things change, the more they stay the same * Science Fiction and his fascination with gear * Forbidden Planet & The Day the Earth Stood Still * Where’s my Jet Pack? * The future was supposed to be dope * I want my hovering skateboard * The sexual culture is buckwild * How does life measure up to your dreams? * Having his wallet returned just as big as playing with The Rolling Stones * Hearing his daughter read * The “little stuff” is massive * It’s about the wild moments * We’re bored with life * Giraffes * Elephants are bad motherfuckers * We overlook the familiar * The quotidian things mean a lot * Mortality makes us live more * Being inspired by the people in our lives * The overemphasis of being results oriented * The danger of losing “the journey” * All the girls you ever slept with are going to pass away * We’re only here for a little while * George Carlin * The planet is going to be fine * Really taste this moment in life * A last time for everything * Your last orgasm About Vernon Reid, Living Colour Guitarist (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/g-vernon-reid-2162-SM.jpg)Guitarist Vernon Reid is best known as the founder of the groundbreaking African-American rock group Living Colour. Tripp Lanier yes 22:50 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-063-sera-beak-bust-out-of-the-cultural-bs-and-follow-your-own-path/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-063-sera-beak-bust-out-of-the-cultural-bs-and-follow-your-own-path/#comments Tue, 19 May 2009 02:01:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/43755-sera-beak-bust-out-cultural-bs-follow http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-063-sera-beak-bust-out-of-the-cultural-bs-and-follow-your-own-path/feed/ 0 Inner Game,Passion,Purpose,Spirituality Spiritual Cowgirl and author Sera Beak joins us on the New Man Podcast to discuss what it means to be Red-volutionary. - She’s the author of “The Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Spark”. Spiritual Cowgirl and author Sera Beak joins us on the New Man Podcast to discuss what it means to be Red-volutionary. She’s the author of “The Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Spark”. In this episode we talk about how spirituality can be a bit stuffy or pretentious. Sera drives home the point that it’s about following your true passions and interests. Being “spiritual” isn’t about following some set of rules -- it’s about fiercely being yourself. And that takes guts If you’re NOT interested in the whole “spiritual” scene, this discussion may light you up. We talk about rebellion, sex, thigh high boots, great food and a few of the things the Bible warned us about. In this episode: * The Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Spark * The Spiritual Cowgirl * Unorthodox approach to spirituality * Being your self is the essence of being spiritual * Pretentious Spiritual Types * Sera Beak is Satan * Disturbing the Buddhists * Don’t be provocative just for the sake of being provocative * Provoke with compassion * Be your authentic self * Reclaiming spirituality from those who have made it boring * Brazilian bikini waxed prayers * Trying to fit into external expectations of what is spiritual * How to get real and present Inside out spirituality vs cookie-cutter spirituality * Living from a larger place is a turn on to others * Where do men base their value? If it’s from the inside it is sexy * Doesn’t have to be esoteric or woo-woo * Why is it so hard to answer the question, “who am I?” * Cultural expectations, rules and cues * Not necessary to read a ton of books or go to workshops * Stop following the crowd unconsciously * Standing out from the crowd * Social resistance doesn’t mean it’s wrong * Perseverance * How giving birth is painful but not wrong * Growing and learning to be yourself can be uncomfortable * Discern what pain means you’re going down the wrong road and what pain is part of the process of growingHow are we different from other cultures? * Becoming who we are is the natural human condition * Westerners are lucky * Privilege of being able to pursue spirituality in life * Make the most of the privilege * What is “red”? * REDvolutionary * Spiritual Super-heroines * Sex toys, good wine and gold body glitter * Fashion Humor * Green vs Red * Humping Trees vs Hugging Trees * Making love to all existence * Fist-f##ked by Mother Nature * Where to men fit in? * Masculine and Feminine doesn’t necessarily mean Male or Female * Being more passionate, playful and authentic * Fierce love knows no gender * Bringing the feminine back to spiritual practice * What is sexy? * The danger “spiritual” ways of being * The Devil Wears Crocs * Thigh High Boots * What the hell is “red” for me? * Sera’s Offerings About Sera Beak, Author, "Spiritual Cowgirl" (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/g-sera-beak-2125-SM.jpg)Sera Beak is a world-traveled Harvard-trained scholar of comparative religion and an intrepid “spiritual cowgirl.” Her first book, The Red Book: A Deliciously Unorthodox Approach to Igniting Your Divine Spark, is aimed at jaded, yet still spiritually curious young women, although the material speaks to all ages and genders. She calls the book a “firestarter.” Sera is called “a woman who is hands down the freshest, boldest breath of fresh air spirituality has heard, read or seen in decades” by Maureen Moss, author, motivational speaker, and radio host of worldpuja.org Tripp Lanier yes 25:41 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-062-sandor-gardos-take-a-stand-for-your-sexual-needs/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-062-sandor-gardos-take-a-stand-for-your-sexual-needs/#comments Tue, 12 May 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/42881-sandor-gardos-take-stand-sexual http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-062-sandor-gardos-take-a-stand-for-your-sexual-needs/feed/ 0 Relationships,Sex This is part 2 of our talk with Dr. Sandor Gardos. - In this episode he continues to lay out some simple distinctions and the practices you can do TODAY to quit settling for a crappy sex life without killing your marriage. - Visit MyPleasure. This is part 2 of our talk with Dr. Sandor Gardos. In this episode he continues to lay out some simple distinctions and the practices you can do TODAY to quit settling for a crappy sex life without killing your marriage. Visit MyPleasure.com In this episode: * Women’s arousal pattern is different than men’s * Why she doesn’t initiate sex * Get over the myth of reciprocity in sex * Women want to feel deeply desired by their partner * Not just deeply desiring to “get off” with her * Make the passion about her, not just about “getting off” * What if you no longer desire your partner? * Don’t be afraid to get outside help -- qualified sex therapist * Go to a sex therapist vs “regular” psychologist * AASECT.org * SSTARNET.org * Don’t overdo “closeness” * Avoiding conflict, being the peacemaker * Non-violent communication * Balancing domesticity with sexual passion * Don’t get neutered * Harmony can reduce passion * What are you doing to remove the spark from your relationship? * Where’s my desire in this moment? Own it. * Vulnerability means speaking what you wants * Vulnerability is taking risks * Take your woman “on a ride” * Do something where you don’t know how she’s going to respond * When and how to talk to her if this stuff isn’t working * Accept that you have different styles -- doesn’t mean you’re wrong * Remove the blame and shame * Why women have sex * What if she doesn’t care about sex? * Your sexual needs matter -- don’t cut it off * Keep it simple and stick to the basics (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/g-dr-sandor-gardos-2065-SM.jpg)Sandor Gardos, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist and sex therapist. He was formerly a fellow at the College of Physicians & Surgeons of Columbia University in New York and is currently a research scientist at the HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies. He is a member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists as well as the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality. He has written over a hundred articles, chapters, books, and other publications, and has served as the editor of Sexual Science. Gardos is also a regular guest on many nationally syndicated television and radio shows. Visit MyPleasure.com Tripp Lanier yes 25:33 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-061-sandor-gardos-get-your-sex-life-off-of-life-support/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-061-sandor-gardos-get-your-sex-life-off-of-life-support/#comments Tue, 05 May 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/42880-sandor-gardos-get-sex-life-off-life http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/05/tnm-061-sandor-gardos-get-your-sex-life-off-of-life-support/feed/ 0 Relationships,Sex What’s the deal with this myth that marriage is the death to your sex life? - Does it have to be this way? - Do you have to spend the rest of your days sneaking around with porn or affairs to get your sexual needs met? - In this episode, Dr. What’s the deal with this myth that marriage is the death to your sex life? Does it have to be this way? Do you have to spend the rest of your days sneaking around with porn or affairs to get your sexual needs met? In this episode, Dr. Sandor Gardos returns to The New Man to lay out some very simple things you can do to get the sexual juices flowing in your committed relationship. Visit MyPleasure.com In this episode: * Oprah’s Vah-J-J * Vibrator called “The Sure Thing” * The Aphrodite * Oprah makes it ok to use sex toys * It’s now mainstream to take an active role in making sex lives better * Myth: Sex life is over after marriage * Chris Rock * Married life = death of sex * Repressing sexual desire * Turning to porn * Having affairs * What can this guy do? * Not a myth that sex changes in marriage * Being passive won’t make it better * Probably not as bad as you think it is * Desire discrepancy * Most common thing sex therapists deal with in couples * Polarizing sex * Couples are closer to sexual desires than perception * Taking it personally that she doesn’t want to have sex * Perceived rejection * Coping mechanisms * Shutting off desire -- clamping it off * Not being alive as a man when cutting off sexual desire * Trying to “keep the peace” doesn’t serve the relationship * Resentment is almost irreversible * Avoiding anger actually builds resentment * What a guy can do to turn this around * Simple techniques * Change the dynamic * It’s not always that the guy wants all the sex * For half of couples, the woman wants more sex * Non-goal oriented sensuality * Keep her guessing * Sex is no longer about ejaculation * Neediness is not attractive * Build arousal and passion * Getting out of the sexual routine * Routine is the enemy of passion * Novelty is an aphrodisiac * Small changes can have a big impact (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/g-dr-sandor-gardos-2065-SM1.jpg)Sandor Gardos, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist and sex therapist. He was formerly a fellow at the College of Physicians & Surgeons of Columbia University in New York and is currently a research scientist at the HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies. He is a member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists as well as the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality. He has written over a hundred articles, chapters, books, and other publications, and has served as the editor of Sexual Science. Gardos is also a regular guest on many nationally syndicated television and radio shows. Visit MyPleasure.com Tripp Lanier yes 19:04 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-060-decker-cunov-bryan-bayer-amp-2-0-is-your-life-on-autopilot/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-060-decker-cunov-bryan-bayer-amp-2-0-is-your-life-on-autopilot/#comments Tue, 28 Apr 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/42866-decker-cunov-bryan-bayer-amp-2-0-life http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-060-decker-cunov-bryan-bayer-amp-2-0-is-your-life-on-autopilot/feed/ 0 AMP,Integrity Looking back, we can see how millions of small decisions made by thousands of people managed to put our economy in the toilet. It’s this disconnect or inability to see how our “small” actions impact not just ourselves but the rest as a whole. Looking back, we can see how millions of small decisions made by thousands of people managed to put our economy in the toilet. It’s this disconnect or inability to see how our “small” actions impact not just ourselves but the rest as a whole. So how are the little decisions you make daily -- places where you’re just rolling along on autopilot -- creating a doomsday scenario for you? Where are you asleep at the wheel? How would you know? The guys and gals at AMP (Authentic Man Program) are here to talk about a new program that is less focused on relating with women and all about getting your entire life on the right track. You won’t do it alone, but you just may have a blast. Click here to learn more about AMP. In this episode: * AMP -- No longer just focusing on relating with women * Focusing on living an inspiring life * Are you lit up by your life? * This leads to great success with women * It’s about living an amazing life as a whole * Shitty economy as a motivator for living with more integrity * Micro-breaks in integrity * Just going with the flow * Allowing things to just happen even if we’re not in alignment with them * Shows us how important integrity is individually and collectively * Little things add up and impact all of us * What is the impact of my actions on other people? * Being disconnected from the things that make a huge impact in our life * Being on autopilot in your life * Taking things for granted * Being disconnected from our decisions means it is easier to be out of integrity * Recognizing how our actions impact others * Seeing where in our lives we’re “going through the motions” * Helping people see where they’re sleepwalking * Challenging each other, having fun, lighting a fire under our ass * How do I know if I’m sleepwalking? * Do the things I do nourish me? * People around us can support us in our sleepwalking * Getting more explicit about why you do what you do * Getting clear about what you really care about * Enjoying yourself more as part of the process * Recognizing what is already amazing in your life * If I’m really happy in my life I don’t need to buy a bunch of stuff * Save money by being happier with what you already have * Being needy means being out of relationship to what really matters to you * Consumerism: Buying stuff to fill a hole in your life * Using people to feel better about yourself * Getting in touch with what is most important * Waking up out of your own sleepwalking * Relating with women as a metaphor for living your life * Who is AMP 2.0 for? * Back to basics: getting finances together, taking care of your body, improving your living situation * Clearing out emotional, mental, relational leaks that drain you of energy * Reclaiming energy instead of just trying to get by * No man left behind, price is not a barrier to participate * What are guys really challenged by, what do they want to learn? * 7 week online course * Kicking Tripp’s ass for fun Click here to learn more about AMP About Decker Cunov, Cofounder, Authentic World (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/g-decker-cunov-SM.jpg)Decker Cunov is the President and Founder of AuthenticWorld.  Known internationally for inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, his unique approach to transformation is identical to the way he has created profound intimacy in his own life and in his own communities. His experience ranges from co-founding a counseling center for homeless yosuth, to implementing intrinsic motivation theory to various military trainings, to residence in Buddhist monastaries over the years. If you're new to Decker's work, rest assured he has spent the past 13 years working successfully with everyone from soldiers to teenagers, from the clinically dysfunctional to doctors & lawyers, Tripp Lanier yes 16:27 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-059-yeah-dave-romanelli-the-power-of-pleasure/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-059-yeah-dave-romanelli-the-power-of-pleasure/#comments Tue, 21 Apr 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/40862-yeah-dave-romanelli-power http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-059-yeah-dave-romanelli-the-power-of-pleasure/feed/ 0 Fun,Music/Art,Pleasure,Yoga If money can’t buy happiness then where do we find it? The answer is in life’s simple pleasures. - It sounds like a cliche, but the truth is that we’ve trained ourselves to multitask and split our attention across many different arenas. The cost? If money can’t buy happiness then where do we find it? The answer is in life’s simple pleasures. It sounds like a cliche, but the truth is that we’ve trained ourselves to multitask and split our attention across many different arenas. The cost? We don’t take the time to truly experience and enjoy our day and it’s contents. We’re so focused on finding relief in the future that we’re forgetting about the moment we’re living in -- now. Our culture and its expanding arena of attention-grabbers like Facebook and Twitter make it more challenging to just have a glass of wine or a simple meal. For instance, we’re finding it increasingly necessary to eat AND read email AND watch TV. According to “Yeah Dave” Romanelli, a former PR agent for Shaquille O’Neill we can create a short checklist of things to focus on throughout the day -- Humor, Something Delicious and the Beauty all around us. This will ultimately have a big, positive impact. In this episode: * Jeff Spicoli and Fast Times at Ridgemont High * Technology Addiction * Continuous Partial Attention * Washington Post Experiment -- Joshua Bell, violinist in the subway * How meditation is hard * Getting kicked out of a meditation retreat * ADHD * Bad energy is worse than body odor * The Likability Factor * Laughter is the way to get the panties off of a girl * Jerry Garcia and the Grateful Dead * India * Creating spaciousness in your mind creates spaciousness in your life About Yeah Dave Romanelli, Yahoo Wellness Expert, Co-Founder at One Yoga, Author From Yeah Dave's Website: (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/g-yeah-dave-romanelli-2064-SM.jpg)At One Yoga consists of multiple state-of-the art yoga studios in Arizona. A pioneering effort in the national yoga scene, At One Yoga fuses Western culture's fashion, music and technology with Eastern culture's sacred rituals and ancient tradition. I drew from this experience when creating a unique approach to yoga that would bust through its stereotypes and enhance accessibility to everyone. A few months after we opened At One Yoga, I started teaching and looked no further than the Grateful Dead for inspiration. I grew up a huge fan of the Dead who would bring something different to each and every concert. When starting off as a yoga teacher, I intended to bring that same improvisational quality to my classes. Each and every one features a new message, fresh musical playlist, and a consistent flowing vinyasa yoga experience. I call my style Yeah Dave Yoga because in college, I had a tendency to ask questions my friends didn't know how to answer so they would just say, "Yeah Dave." Meanwhile, my great friend from college, Katrina Markoff, studied at the Le Cordon Bleu in Paris as well as with various chefs all over the world. She returned to the US and began experimenting with chocolate by mixing it with unique ingredients like wasabi, sea salt, bacon, and curry. She started a business, Vosges Haut-Chocolat, which has exploded to success. Katrina was named the 2007 Entrepreneur Magazine's Woman of the Year. In 2003, Katrina and I realized we were both in the business of fusion. She was fusing chocolate with tastes from every corner of the globe. I was fusing yoga with modern culture. For a lot of women, and some men, yoga and chocolate are two of their very favorite things. I now tour the world presenting the Yoga + Chocolate experience which demonstrates the enhanced power, beauty, and sensory awareness experienced in the present moment. I soon learned there was quite an appetite for this savory form of yoga. To quench this appetite, I teamed up with wine connoisseur Angela Gargano to create Yoga + Wine which teaches that a human being can model the aging process after one of the few things that ages well, a bottle of wine. To quote John Barrymore, "You don't age until your regrets outnumber your dreams." Tripp Lanier yes 24:59 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-058-ray-brejcha-building-attraction-with-women/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-058-ray-brejcha-building-attraction-with-women/#comments Tue, 14 Apr 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/40846-ray-brejcha-building-attraction http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-058-ray-brejcha-building-attraction-with-women/feed/ 0 AMP,Attraction,Dating,Relationships,Sex If a guy ever tells you he doesn’t get nervous when approaching a beautiful woman, he’s probably full of shit. Even the guys who teach this stuff get nervous. - Meet Ray Brejcha - coach, speaker and workshop facilitator. If a guy ever tells you he doesn’t get nervous when approaching a beautiful woman, he’s probably full of shit. Even the guys who teach this stuff get nervous. Meet Ray Brejcha - coach, speaker and workshop facilitator. He specializes in helping men create attraction and find deeper connections with women. In this episode, Ray will talk about what’s possible by attending the Red Pill Weekend. Click here to learn more about The Red Pill Weekend. In this episode: * Creating Attraction * Deeper Connections * Being the nerd * Being the guy who has it all but still feels empty * How to get beyond small talk * Concentrating on outer appearances to cover up insecurities * Using women to fill a void * Following a hunch instead of having it all figured out * The importance of feedback from men and women * The value of having solid men in your life * Killing attraction -- being needy, wishy washy or being fearful of rejection * Being clear with your desire * How core beliefs sabotage you -- "I don’t deserve this," "I’m not enough," etc. * How so many “successful” men have a difficult time with women * Settling for less vs going for what you want * How taking risks builds attraction * What to expect at The Red Pill Weekend About Ray Brejcha, Coach, Red Pill Weekend Co-Founder (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/g-ray-brejcha-2063-SM.jpg)Ray Brejcha – workshop leader, speaker, and international personal and relationship coach is passionately devoted to inspiring men and women in leading an authentic life. Ray’s approach to teaching and coaching is grounded in his commitment to yoga and health, and a deep understanding of masculine/feminine dynamics. He draws upon diverse experience working in Silicon Valley as a top sales executive producing in excess of $60M in business, with the Peak Potentials Organization as a skilled Success and Results coach, as a course facilitator for The Mankind Project, and as a competitor on the TV show “American Gladiator”. Ray has been educated and certified by some of the nation’s top training organizations for coaching, seminar facilitation, relationship, sales, leadership and presentation skills, and has coached 100’s of clients in ten different countries. He has facilitated popular monthly workshops in Boulder Colorado on authentic relationship. He brings a fresh, engaging, warm and witty style to his coaching and facilitation with the Authentic Man Program along with the powerful gift of presence. Ray is also the creator of the Red Pill Weekend in Colorado. He is committed to helping others create wildly fulfilling relationships that are fun, deep and meaningful. Click here to learn more about The Red Pill Weekend. Tripp Lanier yes 19:57 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-057-jeremy-geffen-part-2-sometimes-losing-it-all-is-just-what-the-doctor-ordered/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-057-jeremy-geffen-part-2-sometimes-losing-it-all-is-just-what-the-doctor-ordered/#comments Tue, 07 Apr 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/31435-jeremy-geffen-part-2-sometimes-losing http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/04/tnm-057-jeremy-geffen-part-2-sometimes-losing-it-all-is-just-what-the-doctor-ordered/feed/ 0 Rites of Passage,Spirituality,Vision Quest Dr. Jeremy Geffen returns to discuss his incredible vision quest in the mountains of Columbia. - Are you lacking any motivation or direction beyond paying the bills? - Do you have any idea what MATTERS to you? - How would you even find out what that is? Dr. Jeremy Geffen returns to discuss his incredible vision quest in the mountains of Columbia. Are you lacking any motivation or direction beyond paying the bills? Do you have any idea what MATTERS to you? How would you even find out what that is? Listen to Jeremy talk about how this arduous ritual smacked him in the face with reality -- beyond paying the bills and being someone special. You don’t have to wait to lose your job or your life in order to benefit from losing it all. About Jeremy Geffen, Author, The Journey Through Cancer (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/g-jeremy-geffen-md-1956-SM.jpg)Jeremy R. Geffen, MD, FACP is a board-certified medical oncologist, a pioneer in the field of integrative medicine and oncology, and the founder of Geffen Visions International, Inc. (GVI). A gifted and inspiring writer, speaker, physician, and seminar leader, he is the author of the highly-acclaimed book The Journey Through Cancer (Crown, 2000; Three Rivers, 2006) and audio program The Seven Levels of Healing (Nightingale-Conant, 2001). He has addressed a large number of groups and conferences, and has testified before the United States Congress as an expert witness on integrative medicine and oncology. From 2006 - 2008 he served as Director of Integrative Oncology for P4 Healthcare and www.Caring4Cancer.com. In addition to his academic medical education and training, Dr. Geffen has traveled extensively and has more than thirty years of experience exploring the great spiritual and healing traditions of the world, including Ayurveda, Tibetan Medicine, yoga, meditation, and other approaches to health and self-awareness. Described as an "oncologist of the future," Dr. Geffen founded the Geffen Cancer Center and Research Institute (GCCRI), in Vero Beach, Florida, in 1994, which he directed until 2003. GCCRI was one of the first cancer centers in the United States explicitly designed to provide a working model of truly holistic, comprehensive cancer care for the 21st century. The Center was well-known for its ground-breaking Seven Levels of Healing® program which integrates state-of-the-art conventional cancer treatments with a wide array of complementary therapies designed to promote healing and transformation at the deepest levels of the body, mind, heart, and spirit. Dr. Geffen practiced medical oncology and hematology for 11 years before closing the Center and leaving clinical practice in 2003 to work full-time with GVI. During his career as a practicing physician he provided guidance and care to thousands of patients and their loved ones. Dr. Geffen is a summa cum laude graduate of Columbia University, and received his MD degree with honors from New York University School of Medicine. He completed residency training in Internal Medicine at the University of California at San Diego Medical Center, and fellowship training in Hematology and Oncology at University of California at San Francisco Medical Center. He is the recipient of research grants from the National Cancer Institute and the Research Coordinating Committee of the University of California. In 1995 he was elected a Fellow of the American College of Physicians. Dr. Geffen's work is now focused on writing, speaking, and consulting with hospitals, medical centers, and professional organizations in developing leading-edge integrative and multidimensional programs for medicine and life. He also leads seminars and retreats throughout the United States and abroad, and offers personal consulting services for individuals and their families. Tripp Lanier yes 24:34 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-056-jeremy-geffen-vision-quest-discovering-what-really-matters/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-056-jeremy-geffen-vision-quest-discovering-what-really-matters/#comments Tue, 31 Mar 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/31434-jeremy-geffen-vision-quest-discovering http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-056-jeremy-geffen-vision-quest-discovering-what-really-matters/feed/ 0 Rites of Passage,Spirituality,Vision Quest Some would say that being a successful doctor or professional is a meaningful lifetime achievement. - “If I could be that, I’d be set!” - Well, what does it mean when one of the most successful oncologists in the world is struggling for life mean... Some would say that being a successful doctor or professional is a meaningful lifetime achievement. “If I could be that, I’d be set!” Well, what does it mean when one of the most successful oncologists in the world is struggling for life meaning and direction? What does HE do to get answers? Instead of buying another Porsche, this doctor went to the mountains of Columbia to take part in a sacred, age-old ritual -- the vision quest. After strenuous preparations, he was “planted” on top of a mountain alone for four days and nights without food, water or shelter. He withstood torrential downpours and extreme conditions but he did not leave his post. Why would a guy do this? Listen to Dr. Jeremy Geffen, author of "The Journey Through Cancer: Healing and Transforming the Whole Person" talk about this amazingly difficult journey. And ask yourself, “What would my life be like if I were willing to leave it all behind?” About Jeremy Geffen, Author, The Journey Through Cancer (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/g-jeremy-geffen-md-1956-SM.jpg)Jeremy R. Geffen, MD, FACP is a board-certified medical oncologist, a pioneer in the field of integrative medicine and oncology, and the founder of Geffen Visions International, Inc. (GVI). A gifted and inspiring writer, speaker, physician, and seminar leader, he is the author of the highly-acclaimed book The Journey Through Cancer (Crown, 2000; Three Rivers, 2006) and audio program The Seven Levels of Healing (Nightingale-Conant, 2001). He has addressed a large number of groups and conferences, and has testified before the United States Congress as an expert witness on integrative medicine and oncology. From 2006 - 2008 he served as Director of Integrative Oncology for P4 Healthcare and www.Caring4Cancer.com. In addition to his academic medical education and training, Dr. Geffen has traveled extensively and has more than thirty years of experience exploring the great spiritual and healing traditions of the world, including Ayurveda, Tibetan Medicine, yoga, meditation, and other approaches to health and self-awareness. Described as an "oncologist of the future," Dr. Geffen founded the Geffen Cancer Center and Research Institute (GCCRI), in Vero Beach, Florida, in 1994, which he directed until 2003. GCCRI was one of the first cancer centers in the United States explicitly designed to provide a working model of truly holistic, comprehensive cancer care for the 21st century. The Center was well-known for its ground-breaking Seven Levels of Healing® program which integrates state-of-the-art conventional cancer treatments with a wide array of complementary therapies designed to promote healing and transformation at the deepest levels of the body, mind, heart, and spirit. Dr. Geffen practiced medical oncology and hematology for 11 years before closing the Center and leaving clinical practice in 2003 to work full-time with GVI. During his career as a practicing physician he provided guidance and care to thousands of patients and their loved ones. Dr. Geffen is a summa cum laude graduate of Columbia University, and received his MD degree with honors from New York University School of Medicine. He completed residency training in Internal Medicine at the University of California at San Diego Medical Center, and fellowship training in Hematology and Oncology at University of California at San Francisco Medical Center. He is the recipient of research grants from the National Cancer Institute and the Research Coordinating Committee of the University of California. In 1995 he was elected a Fellow of the American College of Physicians. Dr. Geffen's work is now focused on writing, speaking, and consulting with hospitals, medical centers, and professional organizations in developing leading-edge integrative and multidimensional programs for medicine and life. He also leads seminars and retreats throughout the United States and abroad, Tripp Lanier yes 25:19 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-055-kute-blackson-pt-2-quit-the-blame-game-and-step-up/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-055-kute-blackson-pt-2-quit-the-blame-game-and-step-up/#comments Tue, 24 Mar 2009 02:02:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/31433-kute-blackson-pt-2-quit-blame-game-step http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-055-kute-blackson-pt-2-quit-the-blame-game-and-step-up/feed/ 0 Career,Fear,Inner Game Kute Blackson continues downloading his 6 Step Process for getting your life out of fear and into gear. - In this series he describes the pitfalls guys get into when life trips them up -- analysis paralysis, Kute Blackson continues downloading his 6 Step Process for getting your life out of fear and into gear. In this series he describes the pitfalls guys get into when life trips them up -- analysis paralysis, the blame game -- and how you can move through them and into positive action. It’s times like these that separate the men from the boys. What will you do? About Kute Blackson (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-kute-blackson-SM.jpg)Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of “The American Dream,” Kute amazingly won a green card in the “DV-1 Green Card Lottery” where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, “Our thoughts create our reality – thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.” Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he had no contacts, no college education, very little money, only two suitcases (one for clothes, one for books), and a burning desire to make his dreams real. Kute, is a living embodiment of someone who has overcome adversity, and thrived against all odds, which is what is his signature presentation “Leap and your Wings will appear!” is about. Kute immediately started his own business while living in a tiny apartment, sleeping on the floor. During this challenging period in his life, Kute found solace in some of the 750 plus books he read as inspiration and fuel to keep moving past the quitting point. Although he had to ride the bus along Wilshire Blvd, he was driven by his tenacity and passion, and his business began to soar. Utilizing multi-level marketing as a vehicle to get off the ground, he was soon able to move on to his actual field of interest: speaking and coaching. Known nationally as “The Transformation Coach,” Kute is a certified hypnotherapist and “NLP” practitioner, assisting individuals and corporations in creating authentic change. He is also a radio talk-show personality, having had his own radio show called “Beyond Boundaries” on KYPA in Los Angeles. As founder and president of “The Blackson Group,” Kute is a dynamic life coach, and inspirational speaker, having spoken to audiences internationally. For many years now, his unique message of empowerment, has inspired thousands, at companies such as: Century 21, TCG, Re Max, Prudential Financial Services, Washington Mutual, and many more. Kute is also featured regularly on KTLA channel 5, sharing innovative, and practical ideas about personal growth and success. Nelson Davis, president of Nelson Davis Television Productions says, “Kute Blackson is a favorite contributor to our television program, ‘Making It.’ He brings focus and intensity to inspirational thinking that our viewers respond to. I think that he has the special ability to communicate excellent ideas.” Kute is truly the speaker and coach for the “new generation!” With his company “The Blackson Group,” Kute is dedicated to the transformation of individuals, and corporations, from the “inside-out.” Kute has created what some consider the ultimate coaching system, and presentations for corporations, in the area of peak performance and personal evolution. “ My mission is to assist individuals and corporations, move ‘Beyond Boundaries,’ and live their deepest selves.” Kute resides in Los Angeles, CA, and lives life to the fullest. Tripp Lanier yes 23:07 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-054-kute-blackson-get-out-of-fear-and-into-gear/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-054-kute-blackson-get-out-of-fear-and-into-gear/#comments Tue, 17 Mar 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/31432-kute-blackson-get-out-fear-into http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-054-kute-blackson-get-out-of-fear-and-into-gear/feed/ 0 Career,Fear,Inner Game Life coach to the stars, Kute Blackson is back on The New Man, and he’s just in time. - Many listeners are dealing with a ton of fear these days -- finances, career and the world in general all seem to be going to hell in a hand basket. Life coach to the stars, Kute Blackson is back on The New Man, and he’s just in time. Many listeners are dealing with a ton of fear these days -- finances, career and the world in general all seem to be going to hell in a hand basket. But what can YOU do about it, right now? Kute walks us through a powerful 6 Step Process to cut the crap and make your life better -- regardless of the world outside. About Kute Blackson (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-kute-blackson-SM.jpg)Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of “The American Dream,” Kute amazingly won a green card in the “DV-1 Green Card Lottery” where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, “Our thoughts create our reality – thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.” Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he had no contacts, no college education, very little money, only two suitcases (one for clothes, one for books), and a burning desire to make his dreams real. Kute, is a living embodiment of someone who has overcome adversity, and thrived against all odds, which is what is his signature presentation “Leap and your Wings will appear!” is about. Kute immediately started his own business while living in a tiny apartment, sleeping on the floor. During this challenging period in his life, Kute found solace in some of the 750 plus books he read as inspiration and fuel to keep moving past the quitting point. Although he had to ride the bus along Wilshire Blvd, he was driven by his tenacity and passion, and his business began to soar. Utilizing multi-level marketing as a vehicle to get off the ground, he was soon able to move on to his actual field of interest: speaking and coaching. Known nationally as “The Transformation Coach,” Kute is a certified hypnotherapist and “NLP” practitioner, assisting individuals and corporations in creating authentic change. He is also a radio talk-show personality, having had his own radio show called “Beyond Boundaries” on KYPA in Los Angeles. As founder and president of “The Blackson Group,” Kute is a dynamic life coach, and inspirational speaker, having spoken to audiences internationally. For many years now, his unique message of empowerment, has inspired thousands, at companies such as: Century 21, TCG, Re Max, Prudential Financial Services, Washington Mutual, and many more. Kute is also featured regularly on KTLA channel 5, sharing innovative, and practical ideas about personal growth and success. Nelson Davis, president of Nelson Davis Television Productions says, “Kute Blackson is a favorite contributor to our television program, ‘Making It.’ He brings focus and intensity to inspirational thinking that our viewers respond to. I think that he has the special ability to communicate excellent ideas.” Kute is truly the speaker and coach for the “new generation!” With his company “The Blackson Group,” Kute is dedicated to the transformation of individuals, and corporations, from the “inside-out.” Kute has created what some consider the ultimate coaching system, and presentations for corporations, in the area of peak performance and personal evolution. “ My mission is to assist individuals and corporations, move ‘Beyond Boundaries,’ and live their deepest selves.” Kute resides in Los Angeles, CA, and lives life to the fullest. Tripp Lanier yes 23:03 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-053-stuart-davis-pt2-how-to-pull-your-head-out-of-your-ass/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-053-stuart-davis-pt2-how-to-pull-your-head-out-of-your-ass/#comments Tue, 10 Mar 2009 02:05:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/31282-stuart-davis-pt2-how-pull-head-out http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-053-stuart-davis-pt2-how-to-pull-your-head-out-of-your-ass/feed/ 0 Fear,Fun,Parenting,Relationships,Spirituality We’re back for Part 2 of our hilarious discussion with Stuart Davis -- rock star, buddhist monk and host of “Sex, God, Rock n Roll”. - In this episode we discuss: - A good woman will challenge and support you to be a better man in every area of... We’re back for Part 2 of our hilarious discussion with Stuart Davis -- rock star, buddhist monk and host of “Sex, God, Rock n Roll”. In this episode we discuss: * A good woman will challenge and support you to be a better man in every area of your life * Becoming a father can crush any grand ideas you have about who you think you are * There is no such thing as an “un-spiritual” moment * Stepping into “the fire” of life and confronting your deepest fears * The significance of being able to laugh at yourself * How surrendering doesn’t mean defeat * What happens when we resist our life * The amazing new pill, “Alco-hard” * The new TV show “Sex, God Rock n Roll” About Stuart Davis, Musician, Artist (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-stuart-davis-SM.jpg)With eleven full-length albums to his credit, Stuart Davis has carved out a unique wavelength in the musical spectrum. Taking the topics of God, sex, and life and death, and crafting them into inimitable pop songs with lyrical flair and unforgettable hooks, Stuart continues to be one of the great, undiscovered singer/songwriters around. In addition to his musical brilliance, Stuart is becoming something of a cultural force. With the support of devoted fans, in 1999 Stuart started his own record company, Dharma Pop Records (first called Post Apocalyptic Records), through which he has released four albums to date ("Bright Apocalypse", "Stuart Davis 2001", "The Late Stuart Davis", and the recent "Bell"). The same fan base has formed its own divinely mad community. These "Punk Monks" help promote Stuart's shows, run Stuart Davis websites, and generally spread the word of what has come to be known as Post Apocalyptic Punk Folk, or what we might simply call Integral Pop. The multifarious Davis is also a published author, having contributed to the book Radical Spirit (New World Library). And he's a fictional character too, appearing in Ken Wilber's novel Boomeritis (Shambhala). His series of video road journals are a regular part of the Integral Naked website, a multimedia doorway to the world of integral awareness. Armed with one camera, two guitars, and multiple personalities, Stuart introduces us to the bizarre and beautiful world of life as a nomadic mystic. If that weren't enough, Stuart is forming his own actual language, called "IS." (For a taste of IS, listen to Stu's album "Bell".) In the moments when Stuart is not criss-crossing the country on tour, he lives in Boulder, CO, with his wife, Marci, and their daughter, Ara Belle, freshly manifest from the bardo realm. Tripp Lanier yes 30:01 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-052-stuart-davis-spirituality-and-dick-jokes/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-052-stuart-davis-spirituality-and-dick-jokes/#comments Tue, 03 Mar 2009 02:05:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/31265-stuart-davis-spirituality-dick http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/03/tnm-052-stuart-davis-spirituality-and-dick-jokes/feed/ 0 Fear,Fun,Parenting,Relationships,Spirituality In part 1 of our talk with Stuart Davis -- rock star, buddhist monk and host of “Sex, God, Rock n Roll” -- we hear how a “spiritual” guy can also be unapologetically rude and crude. - Stuart shares some hilarious stories about how he would rath... In part 1 of our talk with Stuart Davis -- rock star, buddhist monk and host of “Sex, God, Rock n Roll” -- we hear how a “spiritual” guy can also be unapologetically rude and crude. Stuart shares some hilarious stories about how he would rather be dead than conform to any means of authority -- family, religion, school, day jobs and women’s clothes included. In this episode: * It’s easy to be a punk and point out society’s shortcomings -- it takes skill to offer something constructive * His relentless pursuit of freedom has landed him in jail and almost killed him * Drummers aren’t complete idiots (some of them at least) * How spirituality turned him into a self righteous asshole * How life can be enjoyable after the sparkle and “rush” has passed * What had him see the real meaning of his lifeBe sure to keep an eye out for Stu's latest TV show "Sex God Rock n Roll" on HDNET this summer. About Stuart Davis, Musician, Artist (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-stuart-davis-SM.jpg)With eleven full-length albums to his credit, Stuart Davis has carved out a unique wavelength in the musical spectrum. Taking the topics of God, sex, and life and death, and crafting them into inimitable pop songs with lyrical flair and unforgettable hooks, Stuart continues to be one of the great, undiscovered singer/songwriters around. In addition to his musical brilliance, Stuart is becoming something of a cultural force. With the support of devoted fans, in 1999 Stuart started his own record company, Dharma Pop Records (first called Post Apocalyptic Records), through which he has released four albums to date ("Bright Apocalypse", "Stuart Davis 2001", "The Late Stuart Davis", and the recent "Bell"). The same fan base has formed its own divinely mad community. These "Punk Monks" help promote Stuart's shows, run Stuart Davis websites, and generally spread the word of what has come to be known as Post Apocalyptic Punk Folk, or what we might simply call Integral Pop. The multifarious Davis is also a published author, having contributed to the book Radical Spirit (New World Library). And he's a fictional character too, appearing in Ken Wilber's novel Boomeritis (Shambhala). His series of video road journals are a regular part of the Integral Naked website, a multimedia doorway to the world of integral awareness. Armed with one camera, two guitars, and multiple personalities, Stuart introduces us to the bizarre and beautiful world of life as a nomadic mystic. If that weren't enough, Stuart is forming his own actual language, called "IS." (For a taste of IS, listen to Stu's album "Bell".) In the moments when Stuart is not criss-crossing the country on tour, he lives in Boulder, CO, with his wife, Marci, and their daughter, Ara Belle, freshly manifest from the bardo realm. Tripp Lanier yes 32:27 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/#comments Tue, 24 Feb 2009 02:05:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/30546-brian-johnson-pt2-do-balls-live-life http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-051-brian-johnson-pt2-do-you-have-the-balls-to-live-the-life-of-your-dreams/feed/ 0 Career,Fear,Inner Game,Mission,Passion,Purpose Do you feel a moral obligation to live your greatest possible life? - If you are like us you are tired, and you have bills to pay...but is that all there is in store for us? - Brian Johnson won't stand for anything less that the greatest life possible ... Do you feel a moral obligation to live your greatest possible life? If you are like us you are tired, and you have bills to pay...but is that all there is in store for us? Brian Johnson won't stand for anything less that the greatest life possible for himself, and he wants to help us get there too. In part two of our talk with Brian, we talk about his latest project, Philosophers Notes, and how to get inspired and make practical changes in our lives right now. Listen as Brain tells us how we can learn to step up our game and stop living our lives half-assed. Click here to check out Philosophers Notes. (http://www.philosophersnotes.com/) About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/g-brian-johnson-2373-SM.jpg)I've always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe. After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss. Figured I’d get a Master’s when I’d distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from Tokyo to LA, I had one of those “Aha!/hallelujah!!” moments when I opened the SkyMall to an ad for a company that summarized business books for “busy executives.” I decided someone should do summaries of self-development books for the “busy self-actualizer” and that that someone should be me. ☺ Enter: PhilosophersNotes. (Imagine CliffsNotes. Only shorter. And cooler. And a *lot* more inspiring. ☺) I'm currently on sabbatical in Bali working my way through two suitcases of books while I re-wire my consciousness, create the first 100 PhilosophersNotes and teach a Philosophy class at the local yoga studio. Pinch me. I heart my job. Click here to check out Philosophers Notes. Tripp Lanier yes 22:16 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/#comments Tue, 17 Feb 2009 04:24:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/29477-brian-johnson-what-would-do-if-weren-t http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-050-brian-johnson-what-would-you-do-if-you-werent-afraid/feed/ 1 Career,Fear,Inner Game,Mission,Passion,Purpose Have you ever thrown up on your way to work, and not from too much fun the night before? - If you had all the money and all the time in the world what would you do? - Brain Johnson has found his answer, but things didn't always come together so clearly... Have you ever thrown up on your way to work, and not from too much fun the night before? If you had all the money and all the time in the world what would you do? Brain Johnson has found his answer, but things didn't always come together so clearly for him. Over the years he has quit a promising job with a fortune 500, dropped out of law school, left a 5 year relationship, and walked away from a couple of businesses. From these experiences he has learned a bit about the art of living, now he is sharing what he loves to do with the world. Listen as Brian talks to us about how he went form literally puking in his car on the way to work, to living his dreams from an open-air office in Bali. Click here to check out Philosophers Notes. About Brian Johnson, Philosopher, Entrepreneur, Creator of Philosopher Notes (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/g-brian-johnson-2373-SM.jpg)I've always been passionate about understanding what makes great people great and applying the truths they embodied to make my little dent in the universe. After selling my last business (Zaadz) and traveling for a bit, I decided to give myself a Ph.D. in Optimal Living with a Specialization in Greatness and Bliss. Figured I’d get a Master’s when I’d distilled 100 of my favorite books into concise, fun, inspiring summaries. Then, on a flight from Tokyo to LA, I had one of those “Aha!/hallelujah!!” moments when I opened the SkyMall to an ad for a company that summarized business books for “busy executives.” I decided someone should do summaries of self-development books for the “busy self-actualizer” and that that someone should be me. ☺ Enter: PhilosophersNotes. (Imagine CliffsNotes. Only shorter. And cooler. And a *lot* more inspiring. ☺) I'm currently on sabbatical in Bali working my way through two suitcases of books while I re-wire my consciousness, create the first 100 PhilosophersNotes and teach a Philosophy class at the local yoga studio. Pinch me. I heart my job. Click here to check out Philosophers Notes. Tripp Lanier yes 31:39 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-049-steve-pavlina-what-to-do-if-youve-lost-your-job-or-your-job-is-in-danger/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-049-steve-pavlina-what-to-do-if-youve-lost-your-job-or-your-job-is-in-danger/#comments Tue, 10 Feb 2009 04:09:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/28667-steve-pavlina-what-do-if-ve-lost-job-job http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-049-steve-pavlina-what-to-do-if-youve-lost-your-job-or-your-job-is-in-danger/feed/ 0 Career,Fear,Inner Game Times may be a bit lean right now but the truth is, this is a great opportunity. - Before you write us off as crazy, listen to what Steve Pavlina has to say about job loss, bankruptcy, and any of life's major challenges. Times may be a bit lean right now but the truth is, this is a great opportunity. Before you write us off as crazy, listen to what Steve Pavlina has to say about job loss, bankruptcy, and any of life's major challenges. Personal development expert and massively popular blogger and author, Steve breaks it down for us in 3 easy steps: * Step 1: If you are not dead, this challenge will make you stronger. * Step 2: This is your opportunity to think about what you really want in life. * Step 3: Ask yourself what kind of goals inspire you right now. If you move towards your inspiration fully, learn from your passion, and share it with the world, you can't fail according to Steve. Listen as Steve puts it all in perspective and gives us some real advice on how to live our dreams. About Steve Pavlina, Personal Development for Smart People (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/pavlina.png)Steve Pavlina is widely recognized as one of the most successful personal development bloggers on the Internet, attracting more than two million monthly readers to his website, StevePavlina.com. He has written more than 700 articles and recorded many audio programs on a broad range of self-help topics, including productivity, relationships, and spirituality. Steve has been quoted as an expert by the New York Times, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, the Los Angeles Daily News, Self Magazine, and The Guardian. Steve's passionate pursuit of personal growth began while sitting in a jail cell. Arrested for felony grand theft at age 19 and expelled from school, the full weight of responsibility for his life came crashing down upon him. In an attempt to overcome his out-of-control kleptomania addiction, he decided the best course of action was to go to work on himself. Since then Steve has become one of the most intensely growth-oriented individuals you'll ever know. After making an extensive study of time management techniques, he earned college degrees in computer science and mathematics in only three semesters. In later years he founded a successful software company, developed award-winning computer games, ran the Los Angeles Marathon, trained in martial arts, and adopted a raw vegan diet. By giving away his best ideas for free, Steve created one of the most popular personal development websites in the world without spending a dime on marketing or promotion. Some of his articles have been translated into more than a dozen different languages, benefitting readers from 150 countries. Steve has a reputation for conducting unusual growth experiments, the most famous being his polyphasic sleep trial, during which he slept only two hours per day for five and a half months, publicly documenting his results each step of the way. Steve currently lives in Las Vegas (Summerlin area) and enjoys an open (polyamorous) marriage with psychic medium Erin Pavlina. Steve's purpose in life is: to live consciously and courageously; to enjoy, increase, and share peace, energy, passion, and abundance; to resonate with love and compassion; to awaken the great spirits within others; and to fully embrace this present moment. Tripp Lanier yes 23:44 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-048-steve-pavlina-playing-it-safe-is-like-living-in-a-locked-box/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-048-steve-pavlina-playing-it-safe-is-like-living-in-a-locked-box/#comments Tue, 03 Feb 2009 04:56:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/27402-steve-pavlina-playing-safe-like-living http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/02/tnm-048-steve-pavlina-playing-it-safe-is-like-living-in-a-locked-box/feed/ 0 Career,Fear,Inner Game Are you playing it safe, but feeling trapped in the life you have created for yourself? - How do you know when it's time to move on from a job, a relationship, or even the town you live in? - Steve Pavlina has some unique and profound suggestions to he... Are you playing it safe, but feeling trapped in the life you have created for yourself? How do you know when it's time to move on from a job, a relationship, or even the town you live in? Steve Pavlina has some unique and profound suggestions to help us out with that. Tripp and Steve agree that often times the best strategy to victory in life's battles is to "burn the boats behind us!" In this episode: * What he means by "burning the ships behind us, but not the food and supplies" * How a brief trip to jail re-framed his life and set him on the path to create the "best personal development website" * Why the "safe" that protects us, can quickly become the "safe" that imprisons us. * How his strategy for setting goals is different, and more effective than other mainstream approaches. * What Steven Covey means by his insistence that we go for "win-win" or "no deal." * Where courage comes from, why it is essential, and how to get more of it. Listen as Steve takes us into his work of no-nonsense personal development and how our efforts to grow can bring us exactly what we want out of life. About Steve Pavlina, Personal Development for Smart People (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/pavlina1.png)Steve Pavlina is widely recognized as one of the most successful personal development bloggers on the Internet, attracting more than two million monthly readers to his website, StevePavlina.com. He has written more than 700 articles and recorded many audio programs on a broad range of self-help topics, including productivity, relationships, and spirituality. Steve has been quoted as an expert by the New York Times, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, the Los Angeles Daily News, Self Magazine, and The Guardian. Steve's passionate pursuit of personal growth began while sitting in a jail cell. Arrested for felony grand theft at age 19 and expelled from school, the full weight of responsibility for his life came crashing down upon him. In an attempt to overcome his out-of-control kleptomania addiction, he decided the best course of action was to go to work on himself. Since then Steve has become one of the most intensely growth-oriented individuals you'll ever know. After making an extensive study of time management techniques, he earned college degrees in computer science and mathematics in only three semesters. In later years he founded a successful software company, developed award-winning computer games, ran the Los Angeles Marathon, trained in martial arts, and adopted a raw vegan diet. By giving away his best ideas for free, Steve created one of the most popular personal development websites in the world without spending a dime on marketing or promotion. Some of his articles have been translated into more than a dozen different languages, benefitting readers from 150 countries. Steve has a reputation for conducting unusual growth experiments, the most famous being his polyphasic sleep trial, during which he slept only two hours per day for five and a half months, publicly documenting his results each step of the way. Steve currently lives in Las Vegas (Summerlin area) and enjoys an open (polyamorous) marriage with psychic medium Erin Pavlina. Steve's purpose in life is: to live consciously and courageously; to enjoy, increase, and share peace, energy, passion, and abundance; to resonate with love and compassion; to awaken the great spirits within others; and to fully embrace this present moment. Tripp Lanier yes 24:36 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-047-decker-cunov-pt2-choose-everything-in-your-life/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-047-decker-cunov-pt2-choose-everything-in-your-life/#comments Tue, 27 Jan 2009 05:43:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/27051-decker-cunov-pt2-choose-everything http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-047-decker-cunov-pt2-choose-everything-in-your-life/feed/ 0 AMP,Passion,Purpose Are you being true to yourself, or are you just being a selfish prick? - Is there a way to know the difference? - This week we continue our conversation with Decker Cunov about consciously choosing the life you live. Are you being true to yourself, or are you just being a selfish prick? Is there a way to know the difference? This week we continue our conversation with Decker Cunov about consciously choosing the life you live. Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program. (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/amp) In this episode: * Where is the line between being selfish and being right with yourself? * What happens when you actually allow you heart to be open? * Why people don't want to feel how much they love each other. * The truth that underneath the touch veneer, you actually give a shit. * Decker shares with us what is possible when we are really willing to be our true selves. About Decker Cunov, Cofounder, Authentic World (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/g-decker-cunov-SM.jpg)Decker Cunov is the President and Founder of AuthenticWorld. Known internationally for inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, his unique approach to transformation is identical to the way he has created profound intimacy in his own life and in his own communities. His experience ranges from co-founding a counseling center for homeless yosuth, to implementing intrinsic motivation theory to various military trainings, to residence in Buddhist monastaries over the years. If you're new to Decker's work, rest assured he has spent the past 13 years working successfully with everyone from soldiers to teenagers, from the clinically dysfunctional to doctors & lawyers, from a mechanic in Wisconsin to top level executives across the country, helping them reach unprecedented levels of success in an organic and profound way. Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program. Tripp Lanier yes 30:29 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-046-decker-cunov-how-to-learn-to-trust-your-gut/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-046-decker-cunov-how-to-learn-to-trust-your-gut/#comments Tue, 20 Jan 2009 03:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/26609-decker-cunov-how-learn-trust http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-046-decker-cunov-how-to-learn-to-trust-your-gut/feed/ 0 AMP,Passion,Purpose Do you have a feeling something needs to change in your life? - Are you not exactly sure what it is? - This week we're talking with Decker Cunov, men's coach, Authentic Man Program leader and President of Authentic World about taking the first steps to... Do you have a feeling something needs to change in your life? Are you not exactly sure what it is? This week we're talking with Decker Cunov, men's coach, Authentic Man Program leader and President of Authentic World about taking the first steps to getting more connected. Decker points us to a world in which we get in touch with what is really going on in our bodies, with our emotions, and in turn, what is really happening in all of our relationships. Join us as we talk with Decker Cunov about really feeling, and what it means to "trust your gut." Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program. About Decker Cunov, Cofounder, Authentic World (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/g-decker-cunov-SM.jpg)Decker Cunov is the President and Founder of AuthenticWorld. Known internationally for inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, his unique approach to transformation is identical to the way he has created profound intimacy in his own life and in his own communities. His experience ranges from co-founding a counseling center for homeless yosuth, to implementing intrinsic motivation theory to various military trainings, to residence in Buddhist monastaries over the years. If you're new to Decker's work, rest assured he has spent the past 13 years working successfully with everyone from soldiers to teenagers, from the clinically dysfunctional to doctors & lawyers, from a mechanic in Wisconsin to top level executives across the country, helping them reach unprecedented levels of success in an organic and profound way. Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program. Tripp Lanier yes 31:33 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-045-shawn-phillips-getting-your-a-out-of-a-rut-and-into-high-gear/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-045-shawn-phillips-getting-your-a-out-of-a-rut-and-into-high-gear/#comments Tue, 13 Jan 2009 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/26019-shawn-phillips-getting-out-rut-into-high http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-045-shawn-phillips-getting-your-a-out-of-a-rut-and-into-high-gear/feed/ 0 Fitness,Passion,Purpose Are you driving your life, or is it driving you? - In part two of our latest talk with Shawn Phillips we discuss: - How to live your life in "thirds" instead of halves. How to shift to the new "s-curve" for your life. Are you driving your life, or is it driving you? In part two of our latest talk with Shawn Phillips we discuss: * How to live your life in "thirds" instead of halves. * How to shift to the new "s-curve" for your life. * Why there really is no reason for your belly to keep getting bigger. * What is the alternative to the "mid-life crisis?" * How to pick your peak season this year.Are you in touch with the joy in your life? * The keys to reaching mastery * The one thing you can do today to get on the path of strength. Listen as Shawn Phillips helps us get on the path of strength, and get our lives back. About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM.jpg)Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his steady, unwavering message: "health is not enough; it's A Time for Strength." Phillips asks each of us to aim beyond health, to aim for Strength. Shawn, whose uncompromising commitment to strength and fitness, is a best-selling author, entrepreneur, and renowned expert in the area of performance training and nutrition. For over twenty-five years he has helped hundreds of thousands of people including business leaders, professional athletes, numerous celebrities, clients and friends look great, feel great and unleash their full strength. Instrumental in building the industry of performance nutrition, Shawn most recently created the Full Strength Premium Nutrition Shake, pioneering a brand new category known as "fast performance food." Shawn is also the creator of Focus Intensity Training, a system integrating body and mind; blending the depth of Eastern traditions with the Western form and function of strength training. He also has served as a faculty member of the Integral Institute, a leader in the field of human potential. While known by many for his signature "six-pack abs," his brilliant clarity and inspiring vision, Shawn, a Colorado native, is better known by his family, close friends and associates as a focused, hard-working man with a kind heart and an intense passion for helping people live extraordinary lives. He is currently forming the Coalition for Strength, a new non-profit organization dedicated to sharing and celebrating the benefits of living with strength to inspire people of all walks of life to build our collective strength by cultivating our individual strength. Shawn is the author of Strength for Life (available April 29, 2008, Ballantine Books). In Strength for Life Shawn guides women and men beyond health to a new-level of strength with a revolutionary approach to nutrition and training. He is also the author of ABSolution: The Practical Guide To Building Your Best Abs. Shawn currently lives in the foothills of Colorado with his wife Angie and their two children, Nathaniel and Lilly. Tripp Lanier yes 22:12 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-044-shawn-phillips-the-body-focus-and-a-passionate-life/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-044-shawn-phillips-the-body-focus-and-a-passionate-life/#comments Tue, 06 Jan 2009 02:50:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/25614-shawn-phillips-body-focus-passionate http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2009/01/tnm-044-shawn-phillips-the-body-focus-and-a-passionate-life/feed/ 0 Fitness,Passion,Purpose What are you tolerating in your life? - What are you putting your time into? - What are you saying no to? - Make 2009 the year you drop all the bullshit and truly focus on what is really important in your life. What are you tolerating in your life? What are you putting your time into? What are you saying no to? Make 2009 the year you drop all the bullshit and truly focus on what is really important in your life. Shawn Phillips returns to The New Man and this show is all about focus. So, what is focus? "It's not what is on your mind; it's what is not on your mind." says Shawn. Shawn and Tripp get into the details around: * The state of presence that arises when everything else drops away. * How to know what you really want out of your efforts. * If you don't know, you can't have focus. * How increasing your focus by just 20% per day can increase your results exponentially. * What is the difference between intensity and stress?Making life more expansive with focus. Listen as Shawn Phillips coaches us into cultivating our intense focus and opening new doors in our lives. About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM.jpg)Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his steady, unwavering message: "health is not enough; it's A Time for Strength." Phillips asks each of us to aim beyond health, to aim for Strength. Shawn, whose uncompromising commitment to strength and fitness, is a best-selling author, entrepreneur, and renowned expert in the area of performance training and nutrition. For over twenty-five years he has helped hundreds of thousands of people including business leaders, professional athletes, numerous celebrities, clients and friends look great, feel great and unleash their full strength. Instrumental in building the industry of performance nutrition, Shawn most recently created the Full Strength Premium Nutrition Shake, pioneering a brand new category known as "fast performance food." Tripp Lanier yes 23:12 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-043-jun-po-denis-kelly-did-you-see-the-size-of-that-chicken/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-043-jun-po-denis-kelly-did-you-see-the-size-of-that-chicken/#comments Tue, 23 Dec 2008 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/24448-jun-po-denis-kelly-did-see-size http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-043-jun-po-denis-kelly-did-you-see-the-size-of-that-chicken/feed/ 0 Fun,Integral,Meditation,Spirituality Can you imagine not getting angry if someone was trying to steal your money? - What about someone violating your daughter? - Jun Po Denis Kelly insists that there is no place for anger, no matter what happens. - Seriously? Can you imagine not getting angry if someone was trying to steal your money? What about someone violating your daughter? Jun Po Denis Kelly insists that there is no place for anger, no matter what happens. Seriously? The path of the modern-day warrior looks for what is true beneath our reactivity. In the case of anger, there is always something deeper. What does all this have to do with a chicken? Listen as Jun Po tells the story about the chicken and one simple step we can take today, to change the rest of our lives. About Jun Po Denis Kelly, Roshi (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/g-JunPo-Roshi-SM.jpg)Jun Po Denis Kelly began his Buddhist practice at Zen Center San Francisco in the early ’70s, later becoming a student of Eido Shimano Roshi in New York and subsequently a monk. He received his Zen Master recognition in 1992. Interested in bringing his Zen lineage (Rinzai tradition) into American culture without the Japanese cultural bindings, Jun Po left the monastery and founded the lay Buddhist Hollow Bones order, of which he is abbot. A yoga instructor as well, he traces his lineage to BKS Iyengar and Pattabhi Jois. He established the Hollow Bones seven-day Zen retreats for the Mankind Project. Diagnosed with Stage IV throat cancer in April 2006, he underwent four months of extensive treatment at MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, Texas. That treatment was successful and he is currently cancer-free. Tripp Lanier yes 26:34 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-042-jun-po-dennis-kelly-from-heroic-doses-of-lsd-to-the-spiritual-heros-journey/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-042-jun-po-dennis-kelly-from-heroic-doses-of-lsd-to-the-spiritual-heros-journey/#comments Tue, 16 Dec 2008 02:01:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/23686-jun-po-dennis-kelly-heroic-doses-lsd http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-042-jun-po-dennis-kelly-from-heroic-doses-of-lsd-to-the-spiritual-heros-journey/feed/ 0 Fun,Integral,Meditation,Spirituality How can a heroic dose of LSD lead to a dedicated spiritual practice? - According to Jun Po Dennis Kelly, that is the only way to go in order to find true freedom with true integrity. - Jun Po has spent his life committed to the truth, the deepest truth, How can a heroic dose of LSD lead to a dedicated spiritual practice? According to Jun Po Dennis Kelly, that is the only way to go in order to find true freedom with true integrity. Jun Po has spent his life committed to the truth, the deepest truth, and has the scars to prove it. In his psychedelic experimentation, he took extremely high doses of LSD, much more intense than your average day-tripper.  Living on the fringes of the law landed him a "government sponsored vacation," in federal penitentiary.  Yoga and Zen mastery helped him to focus his passion constructively. Recently, Stage 4 throat cancer took his body to the very edge of survival and back. Jun Po's life on the edge has given him a serious gift for sharing the truth. Listen as Jun Po Dennis Kelly shares his uncompromising journey to find out what lies beneath all the bullshit. About Jun Po Denis Kelly, Roshi (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/g-JunPo-Roshi-SM.jpg)Jun Po Denis Kelly began his Buddhist practice at Zen Center San Francisco in the early ’70s, later becoming a student of Eido Shimano Roshi in New York and subsequently a monk. He received his Zen Master recognition in 1992. Interested in bringing his Zen lineage (Rinzai tradition) into American culture without the Japanese cultural bindings, Jun Po left the monastery and founded the lay Buddhist Hollow Bones order, of which he is abbot. A yoga instructor as well, he traces his lineage to BKS Iyengar and Pattabhi Jois. He established the Hollow Bones seven-day Zen retreats for the Mankind Project. Diagnosed with Stage IV throat cancer in April 2006, he underwent four months of extensive treatment at MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, Texas. That treatment was successful and he is currently cancer-free. Tripp Lanier yes 24:21 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-041-marcus-buckingham-the-truth-about-you/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-041-marcus-buckingham-the-truth-about-you/#comments Tue, 09 Dec 2008 02:03:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/22488-marcus-buckingham-truth http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-041-marcus-buckingham-the-truth-about-you/feed/ 0 Career,Inner Game,Passion,Positive Psychology,Purpose Marcus Buckingham wants you to be the best you can possibly be. - Not only that, he has a quick, effective program to help you get there. - Marcus has made a career out of studying high performance people from business to sports and reverse engineering... Marcus Buckingham wants you to be the best you can possibly be. Not only that, he has a quick, effective program to help you get there. Marcus has made a career out of studying high performance people from business to sports and reverse engineering their secrets for success. From this research he has learned some secrets to success that are in direct opposition to what we are taught growing up. Click here to learn more about Marcus Buckingham. In this episode: * How do we define strengths? * Who is the best judge of your strength? * What do you call something you are very good at, that you don't like to do? * How do you make your strengths even stronger? * You are born perfect, how are you going to contribute that to the world? * How to create your "strong week" plan? Listen as Marcus shows us how to amplify our strengths and make a real impression with our time here on Earth. "It is your responsibility to offer your greatest, and longest lasting contribution to life." -Marcus Buckingham About Marcus Buckingham (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/Buckingham-Marcus-150x150.jpg)In a world where efficiency and competency rule the workplace, where do personal strengths fit in? It's a complex question, one that intrigued Cambridge-educated Marcus Buckingham so greatly, he set out to answer it by challenging years of social theory and utilizing his nearly two decades of research experience as a Sr. Researcher at Gallup Organization to break through the preconceptions about achievements and get to the core of what drives success. The result of his persistence, and arguably the definitive answer to the strengths question can be found in Buckingham's four best-selling books First, Break All the Rules (coauthored with Curt Coffman, Simon & Schuster, 1999); Now, Discover Your Strengths (coauthored with Donald O. Clifton, The Free Press, 2001); The One Thing You Need to Know (The Free Press, 2005) and Go Put Your Strengths To Work (The Free Press, 2007). The author gives important insights to maximizing strengths, understanding the crucial differences between leadership and management, and fulfilling the quest for long-lasting personal success. In his most recent book, Buckingham offers ways to apply your strengths for maximum success at work. What would happen if men and women spent more than 75% of each day on the job using their strongest skills and engaged in their favorite tasks, basically doing exactly what they wanted to do? According to Marcus Buckingham (who spent years interviewing thousands of employees at every career stage and who is widely considered one of the world's leading authorities on employee productivity and the practices of leading and managing), companies that focus on cultivating employees' strengths rather than simply improving their weaknesses stand to dramatically increase efficiency while allowing for maximum personal growth and success. If such a theory sounds revolutionary, that's because it is. Marcus Buckingham calls it the “strengths revolution.” As he addresses more than 250,000 people around the globe each year, Buckingham touts this strengths revolution as the key to finding the most effective route to personal success and the missing link to the efficiency, competency, and success for which many companies constantly strive. To kick-start the strengths revolution, Buckingham and Gallup developed the StrengthsFinder exam (StrengthsFinder.com), which identifies signature themes that help employees quantify their personal strengths in the workplace and at home. Since the StrengthsFinder debuted in 2001, more than 1 million people have discovered their strengths with this useful and important tool. In his role as author, independent consultant and speaker, Marcus Buckingham has been the subject of in-depth profiles in The New York Times, Fortune, Fast Company, Harvard Business Review, Tripp Lanier yes 29:46 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-040-tripp-and-casey-the-best-of-season-1/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-040-tripp-and-casey-the-best-of-season-1/#comments Tue, 02 Dec 2008 02:54:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/22102-tripp-casey-best-season http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/12/tnm-040-tripp-and-casey-the-best-of-season-1/feed/ 0 Dating,Inner Game,Relationships Will The New Man Podcast solve all your problems and make you rich and famous? - Maybe not, but judging from the feedback we're getting, it can seriously help. - The New Man Podcast just turned one. Over the course of our first year, Will The New Man Podcast solve all your problems and make you rich and famous? Maybe not, but judging from the feedback we're getting, it can seriously help. The New Man Podcast just turned one. Over the course of our first year, we've interviewed dozens of teachers, leaders and successful men and women across all aspects of life about sex, parenting, professional life, and more. Listen as Tripp and Casey look back over the first year of The New Man and reflect on what they personally learned and where the show is headed in the year to come. Click here to purchase The Best of The New Man Podcast Season 1. In our exploration of what a New Man might look like, we have uncovered key insights, patterns, and habits of highly effective men (and women) in the most important areas of our lives from career, to purpose, to sex and relationship and everything in between. We love hearing from you about how the insights shared in these interviews are impacting your life.  That's why we have created a new way to enjoy and share The New Man Podcast. Tripp and Casey handpicked the best of the best from this year and created a 6-disc CD set, a greatest hits of the first season and the perfect gift for the men in your life. Click here to purchase The Best of The New Man Podcast Season 1. Tripp Lanier yes 33:24 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-039-guy-sengstock-pt-2-jesus-was-not-a-family-man/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-039-guy-sengstock-pt-2-jesus-was-not-a-family-man/#comments Tue, 25 Nov 2008 02:27:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/22062-guy-sengstock-pt-2-jesus-family http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-039-guy-sengstock-pt-2-jesus-was-not-a-family-man/feed/ 0 Mission,Parenting,Passion,Purpose,Relationships,Spirituality Why didn't Jesus or the Buddha have a family? - Does becoming a father mean your spiritual life is over? - This week we continue our conversation with Guy Sengstock about integrating spiritual development and a healthy family life. Why didn't Jesus or the Buddha have a family? Does becoming a father mean your spiritual life is over? This week we continue our conversation with Guy Sengstock about integrating spiritual development and a healthy family life.  In this candid and open conversation, Guy gives us an inside look at where he finds the balance point of these two seemingly opposite pursuits in life. Listen to the conclusion of our dialogue with Guy as he shares with us the challenges and benefits of practicing parenting and personal development. About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/g-guy-sengstock-SM.jpg)Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life! Tripp Lanier yes 32:58 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-038-guy-sengstock-how-to-be-a-father-without-losing-your-fg-mind/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-038-guy-sengstock-how-to-be-a-father-without-losing-your-fg-mind/#comments Tue, 18 Nov 2008 02:45:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/21773-guy-sengstock-how-father-without-losing http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-038-guy-sengstock-how-to-be-a-father-without-losing-your-fg-mind/feed/ 0 Mission,Parenting,Passion,Purpose,Relationships,Spirituality Does the true spiritual journey require a life of monastic celibacy? - Does having a family mean we can't pursue the deepest of truths? - When Guy Sengstock fell in love with his wife, he was putting himself through art school by working as a personal ... Does the true spiritual journey require a life of monastic celibacy? Does having a family mean we can't pursue the deepest of truths? When Guy Sengstock fell in love with his wife, he was putting himself through art school by working as a personal trainer and a stripper, while on a spiritual path of meditation and eastern philosophy. Not exactly the picture of the typical family man. He was also developing Arete workshops, dedicated to helping people grow and find deeper, more authentic versions of themselves. So how does a wife and kids fit in with meditation and personal development? Listen as Guy shares with us how he balances family life with spiritual life, and how he has found a way to balance it all. About Guy Sengstock, Coach and creator of AreteCenter.com (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/g-guy-sengstock-SM.jpg)Guy Sengstock is the co-founder of the Arete Center for Excellence, an organization that offers accelerated personal growth courses. Guy is also a personal development coach, writer, poet, sculptor, and painter. The Arete Experience is a 3-day workshop offered in San Francisco that provides a remarkable opportunity to discover the unconscious ways in which you hold yourself back. Experience immense and lasting freedom to be yourself in all areas of your life! Tripp Lanier yes 31:13 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-037-wolfgang-bloch-finding-the-passion-in-life/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-037-wolfgang-bloch-finding-the-passion-in-life/#comments Tue, 11 Nov 2008 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/21410-wolfgang-bloch-finding-passion http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-037-wolfgang-bloch-finding-the-passion-in-life/feed/ 0 Music/Art,Parenting,Passion,Purpose Are you able to let mistakes you make become opportunities for something greater? - Wolfgang Bloch has always taken the unconventional path in life. - Born in Ecuador, he followed his passion to California and into the arts and graphic design. Are you able to let mistakes you make become opportunities for something greater? Wolfgang Bloch has always taken the unconventional path in life. Born in Ecuador, he followed his passion to California and into the arts and graphic design. A surfer from the age of twelve, he was also cultivating a love of the water. After a successful, but ultimately unrewarding career in commercial art, he broke free and eventually found his true passion...and learned to find art in life's imperfection. Wolfgang tells us how "grunt work" can be seen as a "base" for our true expression and how to tell when it is just a dead end. Wolfgang has gone on to become a renown fine artist in the surf world and beyond, creating mesmerizing surf vistas. He has just released a book showcasing his work and chronicling his journey. Listen as Wolfgang describes his uncommon path and the values that helped him rise to the top of the surfing art world. Click here to learn more about Wolfgang Bloch. (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wolfgang) About Wolfgang Bloch (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/g-wolfgang-bloch-SM.jpg)Wolfgang Bloch was born and raised in the vibrant Latin American culture of Guayaquil, Ecuador. At a young age, Bloch discovered the joy of surfing along Ecuador's secluded beaches and, in the process, the coastal scenery that would forever serve as his primary source of inspiration. In 1982, Bloch immigrated to the United States where he soon graduated with a Bachelor in Fine Arts Degree from the University of Florida and later a Bachelor in Design from the renowned Art Center College of Design in Pasadena, California. After enjoying a decade of well-noted commercial success as an art director and illustrator, working for companies like Gotcha Sportswear, Quiksilver, Billabong USA, Jeep, Tower Records, Vans, Hobie and Indian Motorcycles, Bloch dedicated himself to his first love - painting. Wolfgang Bloch's art reveals much about the man who creates it. But the hints are subtle: The subdued palette, the modest and unexpected materials; all utilized to reduce traditional seascapes to their essence and in the process imbue them with compelling intensity. Bolton Colburn, the director of The Laguna Art Museum calls Wolfgang's work "sublime and terribly romantic." Chronicle Books recently published Wolfgang's first book titled "Wolfgang Bloch: The Colors of Coincidence", designed by David Carson and written by Mike Stice. The book is an intimate and soulful account of the artist's rich and layered life, featuring the most evocative examples from his enthralling body of work. Over the past decade, Bloch's work has been exhibited in the pages of major international publications and on the walls of galleries and museums across the globe. Today, Bloch lives with his wife and two children in Laguna Beach, California. Click here to learn more about Wolfgang Bloch. Tripp Lanier yes 24:59 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-036-ken-wilber-integrating-the-battle-of-the-sexes/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-036-ken-wilber-integrating-the-battle-of-the-sexes/#comments Tue, 04 Nov 2008 02:10:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/21060-ken-wilber-integrating-battle http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/11/tnm-036-ken-wilber-integrating-the-battle-of-the-sexes/feed/ 0 Integral,Relationships,Sex The life of the New Man just got a whole lot more complicated. - This week we're talking with Ken Wilber, world-renown Integral philosopher about the evolution of men's and women's roles in our society. - Ken shows us how our current disagreements over... The life of the New Man just got a whole lot more complicated. This week we're talking with Ken Wilber, world-renown Integral philosopher about the evolution of men's and women's roles in our society. Ken shows us how our current disagreements over equality between the sexes actually stemmed from old school tools and "little things" like pregnancy. Ken also talks about how we're all influenced greatly by not just technology but our personal beliefs and the pressures of society. His work is centered around showing how all of these forces impact us and one another. In other words, Ken shows us how all the pieces in this crazy life fit together and the end result is fascinating. You may never see your life the same way again. About Ken Wilber (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/g-ken-wilber-SM.jpg)Ken Wilber, at age 56, is the first thinker and writer to have his collected works published while still alive. With 25 books translated into some 30 foreign languages, he is the most widely translated academic writer in the United States. Ken is the internationally acknowledged originator of Integral Theory and founder of Integral Institute. Tripp Lanier yes 47:39 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-035-ed-fell-the-mankind-project/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-035-ed-fell-the-mankind-project/#comments Tue, 28 Oct 2008 02:09:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/20576-ed-fell-mankind http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-035-ed-fell-the-mankind-project/feed/ 0 Men's Groups,MKP,Passion,Purpose How much bullshit are you tolerating? - Are there things you wish you could do before you die, but are not getting around to them? - Are you tolerating a life that you never thought you would have, feeling that there is no way to change things? How much bullshit are you tolerating? Are there things you wish you could do before you die, but are not getting around to them? Are you tolerating a life that you never thought you would have, feeling that there is no way to change things? Ed Fell wants to help us out. As a longtime member of The Mankind Project, Ed points to the fact that men have no initiation ceremonies in American culture and often drift through life, unsure of themselves as a result. We have heard several times on the New Man about the importance of initiation ceremony. The Mankind Project is dedicated to giving men a healthy initiation to manhood and giving us an experience of who we truly are and what it feels like to be our authentic selves. From that experience of initiation, The Mankind Project offers a close network of support and challenge, to help men live their lives to the fullest. The last item on that "bucket list" might just be the journey inward, to really get to know ourselves. About Ed Fell (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-ed-fell-SM.jpg)Ed Fell, M.S. is a Master Psychotherapist, relationship and sex coach, Sacred Sexuality educator, workshop facilitator, writer and Certified Leader and Leader trainer with the Mankind Project International. He welcomes both phone and in-person clients. Ed is about evolution, authentic living and loving, transformation, self-inquiry and a disciplined commitment to the truth. He inspires play, laughter and living with purpose with whomever he touches in his work and life. You can email him at edefell@aol.com or call @ 720-352-5333. Tripp Lanier yes 28:16 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-034-authentic-man-program-the-power-of-integrity/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-034-authentic-man-program-the-power-of-integrity/#comments Tue, 21 Oct 2008 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/19472-authentic-man-program-power http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-034-authentic-man-program-the-power-of-integrity/feed/ 0 AMP,Dating,Relationships,Sex What the hell is integrity? - Why would it play an important role in our lives and our interactions with other men...and women? - This week we're talking again with our friends Bryan Bayer and Garrison Cohen of the Authentic Man Program, What the hell is integrity? Why would it play an important role in our lives and our interactions with other men...and women? This week we're talking again with our friends Bryan Bayer and Garrison Cohen of the Authentic Man Program, about their latest tools to help men achieve their true potential. Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program. In this episode: * How our being nice can be the barrier to our own greatness; * How it is really our duty to express how we really feel, regardless of the outcome; * The importance of owning our attraction; * What we have to put on the line to evolve to the next level; * Where to find the arena to play our highest game; * Calling ourselves on our own bullshit; * The latest multimedia products from AMP; * How to put all of this theory in to real action. About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-bryan-bayer-SM.jpg)Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSF™ and the Authentic Man Program™, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship. Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a background in the Destination Method, certified by Robert McDonald, one of the early pioneers and leaders in the science of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). He has written dozens of articles on man/woman dynamics and personal development, and in addition to his coaching practice, Bryan is a course leader for the Arete Center for Excellence, the Authentic Man Program, and supervises the production of other courses. About Garrison Cohen (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-garrison-cohen-SM.jpg)Garrison Cohen, VP of Development for AMP Media has spoken at over 300 colleges as far away as Singapore and has lead live workshops for up to 2,500 at a time. He is an award winning filmmaker, presenter, writer and honorary member of the Society of Leadership and Success, which has hosted other speakers such as Patch Adams and Colin Powell. His current work is based on a fusion of marketing, film production and accelerated learning. In addition to his work in education and entertainment Garrison has been a leading voice in the field of transformational work for men since 1996. Since his involvement with AMP Garrison has overseen the copyrighting, marketing, audio and video production that has gone out to men all over the world. Click here to learn more about The Authentic Man Program. Tripp Lanier yes 46:19 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-033-robert-masters-so-what-do-you-do-with-your-anger/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-033-robert-masters-so-what-do-you-do-with-your-anger/#comments Tue, 14 Oct 2008 02:01:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/17669-robert-masters-so-what-do-do http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-033-robert-masters-so-what-do-you-do-with-your-anger/feed/ 0 Anger,Passion Anger is an emotion, something we feel in our bodies very viscerally. - What we do with our anger is another story entirely. - Anger gets its bad name when it is expressed as aggression or violence. - In this episode, Anger is an emotion, something we feel in our bodies very viscerally. What we do with our anger is another story entirely. Anger gets its bad name when it is expressed as aggression or violence. In this episode, Robert examines this distinction and give us insights on how to work with our anger. We explore: * Taking a relational approach to anger. * How do breathing and eye contact change an argument? * How unspoken emotions can affect relationships despite our holding them in. * Where to start working with anger. * The role of shame, guilt and sadness. * Meditation as a tool. Learn how to honor your anger and maintain healthy engagement with women, and every other relationship in your life. About Robert Masters (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-robert-augustus-masters-SM.jpg)My passion is to fuel, illuminate, and support the living of a deeper life, a life of love, integrity, and fully alive awakening. Providing environments (both inner and outer) in which deep healing and transformation can take place is my vocation and privilege. Having just reached my 60th birthday, I notice that I am finding freedom more through intimacy — intimacy not only with my beloved Diane, but also with all that is — than through transcendence. There is a deeply satisfying joy for me in passing on what I have learned, especially through my integral psychotherapy apprenticeship programs and the couples intensives that I do with Diane. Since 1977 I've worked as a psychotherapist (I have a Ph.D. in Psychology), group leader, bodyworker, and teacher of spiritual deepening practices, integrating the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual in my practice. Most weekends these days I'm leading groups or trainings. Evolving in fitting parallel with this has been my writing, which is as much a passion for me as facilitating deep groupwork. I've authored eight books, including Divine Dynamite, Darkness Shining Wild, and, most recently, Transformation Through Intimacy. My essays have appeared in magazines ranging from Magical Blend to the Journal of Transpersonal Psychology, as well as in several anthologies. And running rampant through all my writing is my poetry, keeping my prose on its toes. Tripp Lanier yes 31:45 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-032-robert-masters-the-world-needs-more-anger/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-032-robert-masters-the-world-needs-more-anger/#comments Tue, 07 Oct 2008 02:05:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/16675-robert-masters-world-needs-more http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/10/tnm-032-robert-masters-the-world-needs-more-anger/feed/ 0 Anger,Passion Why does the macho jerk seem to get the girl while the nice guy gets left behind? - It might just have something to do with their relationship to anger. - Huh? - This week we welcome Robert Augustus Masters back to The New Man to share his uncommon ins... Why does the macho jerk seem to get the girl while the nice guy gets left behind? It might just have something to do with their relationship to anger. Huh? This week we welcome Robert Augustus Masters back to The New Man to share his uncommon insights about the role of healthy anger in our lives. Robert gets into the juicy details about: * How to separate anger from aggression * What is the cost of ignoring your anger? * Why does the world need more anger?(hint: more anger with less aggression) * What is our moral fire? * Soft does not have to mean weak. * What are you really pissed off about? Listen as Robert helps us find that healthy middle way when it comes to our anger. About Robert Masters (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-robert-augustus-masters-SM.jpg)My passion is to fuel, illuminate, and support the living of a deeper life, a life of love, integrity, and fully alive awakening. Providing environments (both inner and outer) in which deep healing and transformation can take place is my vocation and privilege. Having just reached my 60th birthday, I notice that I am finding freedom more through intimacy — intimacy not only with my beloved Diane, but also with all that is — than through transcendence. There is a deeply satisfying joy for me in passing on what I have learned, especially through my integral psychotherapy apprenticeship programs and the couples intensives that I do with Diane. Since 1977 I've worked as a psychotherapist (I have a Ph.D. in Psychology), group leader, bodyworker, and teacher of spiritual deepening practices, integrating the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual in my practice. Most weekends these days I'm leading groups or trainings. Evolving in fitting parallel with this has been my writing, which is as much a passion for me as facilitating deep groupwork. I've authored eight books, including Divine Dynamite, Darkness Shining Wild, and, most recently, Transformation Through Intimacy. My essays have appeared in magazines ranging from Magical Blend to the Journal of Transpersonal Psychology, as well as in several anthologies. And running rampant through all my writing is my poetry, keeping my prose on its toes. Tripp Lanier yes 19:30 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-031-byron-ricks-searching-for-dad/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-031-byron-ricks-searching-for-dad/#comments Tue, 30 Sep 2008 02:18:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/16189-byron-ricks-searching http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-031-byron-ricks-searching-for-dad/feed/ 0 Fathers,Parenting Barack Obama and John McCain have one thing in common... - They both grew up with absent father - Byron Ricks details how important the father-son relationship is to growing boys, and how this may have affected who the candidates, Barack Obama and John McCain have one thing in common... They both grew up with absent father Byron Ricks details how important the father-son relationship is to growing boys, and how this may have affected who the candidates, and other men with absent fathers, have become in adulthood. In this uncommon discussion we learn: * What are the 9 side-effects of growing up fatherless. * When do boys learn start to learn about sex? * What it's like for a young boy who doesn't have a father in his life. * The unique benefits of male-bonding. * Boys innate desire to do 'one-better' than our dads. * How a "surrogate" father can fill the role for absent fathers. * How to rebuild self-respect, self-confidence, and a strong sense of identity. Join us in learning about Byron Ricks mission to help men and boys facing the world when their fathers are not around. About Byron Ricks (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/g-byron-ricks-SM.jpg)Byron Ricks is both a dynamic speaker and entertaining trainer. He has the wonderful ability to inform as well as inspire audiences towards increased levels of achievement and professional performance. He has conducted results-oriented seminars on Customer Service, Interpersonal Communication Skills, How to Handle Difficult People, Team Leadership and others for a variety of prestigious clients. His powerful talks and results-oriented seminars bring about immediate changes and long-term results for managers, supervisors, administrative and front line staff. Byron's professional background includes positions as public affairs manager for the Indianapolis Chamber of Commerce and director of administrative services for National University in San Diego, California. He has managed, supervised and implemented performance management standards, recruited, interviewed and hired staff, and designed and implemented workshops for organizational development Tripp Lanier yes 36:46 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-030-bill-harris-whos-running-the-show/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-030-bill-harris-whos-running-the-show/#comments Tue, 23 Sep 2008 02:21:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/14354-bill-harris-who-s-running http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-030-bill-harris-whos-running-the-show/feed/ 0 Integral,Meditation,Spirituality Frustrated because your life is not going the way you want it to? - Ever consider that it might be your own damn fault? - Bill Harris tells us that it is our own patterns, that we are not aware of, that has us running on auto-pilot making the same mist... Frustrated because your life is not going the way you want it to? Ever consider that it might be your own damn fault? Bill Harris tells us that it is our own patterns, that we are not aware of, that has us running on auto-pilot making the same mistakes over and over again. Listen as Bill Harris gives us the secret behind: * Harmful core beliefs and our "evidence" to support these beliefs. * Attracting the kind of women you really want. * The power of awareness in terms of changing your life. * What are you focusing on? * How to build a business with intention. * Finding opportunity within challenges. * Centerpointe Research * Meditation * Holosync Bill gives us insights on a novel approach to getting the results we want in life. Here's a hint guys, it's not about analysis or figuring things out. About Bill Harris (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/g-bill-harris-SM.jpg)A graduate of Portland State University, Bill also has three years of graduate study in music, studying with world-renowned Czech composer Tomas Svoboda and Spanish composer Salvador Brotons. He is a Certified Trainer of Neuro Linguistic Programming and is trained in Ericksonian Hypnosis. He is a long time student of contemporary psychology, quantum mechanical physics, the evolution of non-linear systems (chaos theory) and the effects of a wide range of neurotechnologies on human change, evolution and healing. He is known for his ability to explain difficult subjects in a way that makes them easy to understand. Bill is frequently invited to speak at scientific and transformational forums and conferences across the U.S., and over the years has taught a wide range of workshops and seminars. In the past he has conducted his own private therapy practice utilizing cognitive psychology and Neuro Linguistic Programming. Bill is currently President and Director of Centerpointe Research Institute. Bill started Centerpointe Research Institute in 1989 with borrowed recording equipment set up on his kitchen table. As of 2007, hundreds of thousands of people in over 172 countries on six continents had used Centerpointe programs to improve their lives. In his role as Director of Centerpointe Research Institute, Bill is the creator of The Holosync Solution™ program and The Life Principles Integration Process™. The Holosync Solution program utilizes Centerpointe's proprietary Holosync sound technology, embedded beneath soothing music and environmental sounds, to induce deep meditative states, causing the brain to reorganize at higher levels of functioning. The Life Principles Integration Process is designed to help people discover how they unconsciously create their internal states and external results, and show them how to take control of these internal processes to create whatever they want in life. Bill is a member of the Advisory Board of Self Enhancement, Inc., an organization helping inner city young people. He is also a founding member of the Transformational Leadership Council started by best-selling Chicken Soup for the Soul author Jack Canfield. Bill is a private pilot and CEO of Mercury Aviation, LLC. He has played saxophone, flute, clarinet, and piano professionally for over 40 years. He lives in Hillsboro, Oregon. Tripp Lanier yes 52:31 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-029-kute-blackson-what-are-you-waiting-for/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-029-kute-blackson-what-are-you-waiting-for/#comments Tue, 16 Sep 2008 02:37:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/13532-kute-blackson-what http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-029-kute-blackson-what-are-you-waiting-for/feed/ 0 Death,Fitness,Inner Game,Meditation,Passion,Purpose,Spirituality Is your life passing you by? - Are you holding back, waiting for your best friends' funeral before you express how you really feel about them? - Are you leaving things off the table...unsaid, undone, unattempted? - Why? - Do it NOW! - This IS the game, Is your life passing you by? Are you holding back, waiting for your best friends' funeral before you express how you really feel about them? Are you leaving things off the table...unsaid, undone, unattempted? Why? Do it NOW! This IS the game, there is no where else to go. This is your life, passing you by one day at a time. Are you living it to the fullest? In Part 2 of our dialogue, Kute Blackson shakes us out of our slumber so we can really begin to live our lives. "We think we are in a prison...but the door is open, walk through it!" exclaims Kute. In this episode: * What game are you buying into right now? * What your resistance to things in your life really is. * Where are you holding back? * Why your girlfriend might be acting bitchy when you seem unsure of yourself. * Where to look to find your deepest wisdom Listen as Kute helps us realize the deepest truth about our lives and how we can truly live it each and every day. About Kute Blackson (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-kute-blackson-SM.jpg)Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of “The American Dream,” Kute amazingly won a green card in the “DV-1 Green Card Lottery” where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, “Our thoughts create our reality – thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.” Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he had no contacts, no college education, very little money, only two suitcases (one for clothes, one for books), and a burning desire to make his dreams real. Kute, is a living embodiment of someone who has overcome adversity, and thrived against all odds, which is what is his signature presentation “Leap and your Wings will appear!” is about. Kute immediately started his own business while living in a tiny apartment, sleeping on the floor. During this challenging period in his life, Kute found solace in some of the 750 plus books he read as inspiration and fuel to keep moving past the quitting point. Although he had to ride the bus along Wilshire Blvd, he was driven by his tenacity and passion, and his business began to soar. Utilizing multi-level marketing as a vehicle to get off the ground, he was soon able to move on to his actual field of interest: speaking and coaching. Known nationally as “The Transformation Coach,” Kute is a certified hypnotherapist and “NLP” practitioner, assisting individuals and corporations in creating authentic change. He is also a radio talk-show personality, having had his own radio show called “Beyond Boundaries” on KYPA in Los Angeles. As founder and president of “The Blackson Group,” Kute is a dynamic life coach, and inspirational speaker, having spoken to audiences internationally. For many years now, his unique message of empowerment, has inspired thousands, at companies such as: Century 21, TCG, Re Max, Prudential Financial Services, Washington Mutual, and many more. Kute is also featured regularly on KTLA channel 5, sharing innovative, and practical ideas about personal growth and success. Nelson Davis, president of Nelson Davis Television Productions says, “Kute Blackson is a favorite contributor to our television program, ‘Making It.’ He brings focus and intensity to inspirational thinking that our viewers respond to. I think that he has the special ability to communicate excellent ideas.” Kute is truly the speaker and coach for the “new generation!” With his company “The Blackson Group,” Kute is dedicated to the transformation of individuals, and corporations, Tripp Lanier yes 28:19 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-028-kute-blackson-are-you-ready-to-die/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-028-kute-blackson-are-you-ready-to-die/#comments Tue, 09 Sep 2008 04:02:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/13163-kute-blackson-ready http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-028-kute-blackson-are-you-ready-to-die/feed/ 0 Death,Fitness,Inner Game,Meditation,Passion,Purpose,Spirituality Does some part of your life suck? - Are you stuck because you don't have any other choice? - Have you tried everything you can and you just can't change it? - Bullshit. - Thats what Kute Blackson is telling us. Bullshit. Does some part of your life suck? Are you stuck because you don't have any other choice? Have you tried everything you can and you just can't change it? Bullshit. Thats what Kute Blackson is telling us. Bullshit. When we find ourselves in that miserable, stuck place, we are invariably wasting energy avoiding our truth and keeping ourselves muted because we are afraid to face the unknown. "If you are feeling pain and dissatisfaction, that's your doorway, go through it and find who you really are," Kute insists. It may be necessary to experience the death of "self" to live your best life. What do you need to give to the world so that you can die complete? Listen as Kute a Tripp take us into the darkness, searching for that light of freedom on the other side. About Kute Blackson (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/g-kute-blackson-SM.jpg)Kute Blackson is an extraordinary man, a man on a mission. He is known for his high energy, his cutting edge ideas, his dynamic and life changing presentations. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute experienced a diversity of cultures very early on, being of Ghanaian/Japanese heritage and having been raised in London. After deciding to move to America in pursuit of “The American Dream,” Kute amazingly won a green card in the “DV-1 Green Card Lottery” where there were only a handful of winners amongst millions of applicants worldwide. Kute says, “Our thoughts create our reality – thoughts are the chisel that sculpt our destiny into tangible form.” Once Kute arrived in Los Angeles, he had no contacts, no college education, very little money, only two suitcases (one for clothes, one for books), and a burning desire to make his dreams real. Kute, is a living embodiment of someone who has overcome adversity, and thrived against all odds, which is what is his signature presentation “Leap and your Wings will appear!” is about. Kute immediately started his own business while living in a tiny apartment, sleeping on the floor. During this challenging period in his life, Kute found solace in some of the 750 plus books he read as inspiration and fuel to keep moving past the quitting point. Although he had to ride the bus along Wilshire Blvd, he was driven by his tenacity and passion, and his business began to soar. Utilizing multi-level marketing as a vehicle to get off the ground, he was soon able to move on to his actual field of interest: speaking and coaching. Known nationally as “The Transformation Coach,” Kute is a certified hypnotherapist and “NLP” practitioner, assisting individuals and corporations in creating authentic change. He is also a radio talk-show personality, having had his own radio show called “Beyond Boundaries” on KYPA in Los Angeles. As founder and president of “The Blackson Group,” Kute is a dynamic life coach, and inspirational speaker, having spoken to audiences internationally. For many years now, his unique message of empowerment, has inspired thousands, at companies such as: Century 21, TCG, Re Max, Prudential Financial Services, Washington Mutual, and many more. Kute is also featured regularly on KTLA channel 5, sharing innovative, and practical ideas about personal growth and success. Nelson Davis, president of Nelson Davis Television Productions says, “Kute Blackson is a favorite contributor to our television program, ‘Making It.’ He brings focus and intensity to inspirational thinking that our viewers respond to. I think that he has the special ability to communicate excellent ideas.” Kute is truly the speaker and coach for the “new generation!” With his company “The Blackson Group,” Kute is dedicated to the transformation of individuals, and corporations, from the “inside-out.” Kute has created what some consider the ultimate coaching system, and presentations for corporations, in the area of peak performance and personal evolution. Tripp Lanier yes 33:07 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-027-sandor-gardos-pt-2-can-sex-become-a-spiritual-practice/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-027-sandor-gardos-pt-2-can-sex-become-a-spiritual-practice/#comments Tue, 02 Sep 2008 02:48:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/11941-sandor-gardos-pt-2-sex-become-spiritual http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/09/tnm-027-sandor-gardos-pt-2-can-sex-become-a-spiritual-practice/feed/ 0 Relationships,Sex,Spirituality In Part two of our discussion with Dr. Sandor Gardos, we take a deeper look into everybody's favorite topic...SEX. - Unfortunately, the sex lives of most men are not where they could b - We're not talking about how to pick up women here, In Part two of our discussion with Dr. Sandor Gardos, we take a deeper look into everybody's favorite topic...SEX. Unfortunately, the sex lives of most men are not where they could b We're not talking about how to pick up women here, we're talking about something deeper. What is behind our sex drive and what is our sexual energy all about besides ejaculation? Men tend to look at sexual energy as frustration, something to be fixed... And as quickly as possible. Men train themselves at a young age to relieve sexual energy as fast as possible, instead of cultivating and using sexual energy to invigorate their lives. Women tend to experience sexual energy differently, even using different words to describe sexual feelings. Where men talk about "sexual frustration" women speak of the same pleasurable feelings as "juicy" or "alive." Sandor encourages us to see this energy not as something to avoid, but something we should honor as our very life essence. He invites us to learn to be with strong energetic sensation and practice cultivating and holding sexual energy. Why is Viagra the best selling drug in the country? Often we can be very dissociated during sex, perhaps fantasizing about someone else or generally checking out altogether. Most of us would rather take a pill than truly look inside ourselves to discover what may be getting in the way of our sexual desire. Dr. Gardos points out that most men don't know what is possible with orgasm because we don't know how to be with intense sexual energy. At the highest levels, sex can become a pathway to deep spiritual states...a very direct route, Dr Gardos says. So where is the average guy to start on this path of sexual self-discovery? Dr. Gardos suggests finding community, locally or online and begin to take in and share information. This can be tough at first but there are resources out there for men willing to take a loo This is not another goal that has to be met or an achievement we need to reach, but an opportunity for us to know ourselves better and live more fully because of it. Click here to visit MyPleasure.com. About Sandor Gardos (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/g-dr-sandor-gardos-2065-SM.jpg)Sandor Gardos, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist and sex therapist. He was formerly a fellow at the College of Physicians & Surgeons of Columbia University in New York and is currently a research scientist at the HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies. He is a member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists as well as the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality. He has written over a hundred articles, chapters, books, and other publications, and has served as the editor of Sexual Science. Gardos is also a regular guest on many nationally syndicated television and radio shows. Click here to visit MyPleasure.com. Tripp Lanier yes 23:43 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-026-sandor-gardos-what-is-killing-passion-in-relationships/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-026-sandor-gardos-what-is-killing-passion-in-relationships/#comments Tue, 26 Aug 2008 02:55:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/11241-sandor-gardos-what-killing-passion http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-026-sandor-gardos-what-is-killing-passion-in-relationships/feed/ 0 Relationships,Sex,Spirituality Is the "conventional relationship" ideal killing the passion in relationships? - This week's guest, Dr. Sandor Gardos lets us in on what he sees as the secrets to creating and maintaining a passionate relationship. - Knowing everything about one another, Is the "conventional relationship" ideal killing the passion in relationships? This week's guest, Dr. Sandor Gardos lets us in on what he sees as the secrets to creating and maintaining a passionate relationship. Knowing everything about one another, always maintaining equality, laying everything on the table...These may be good ways to maintain friendships, or business relationships, but when it comes to hot sex, these are the very things that may be draining passion. The thing is, women want hot sex lives as much as we do. The things we do to try and strengthen our relationships can be the very things that will ultimately weaken our connection. Sandor hears from women all the time with fantasies every bit as raunchy as any man's he hears, and with a lot more detail. It seems men are generally less in touch with their actual desire than women are, despite popular perception to the contrary. Not only does Dr. Gardos help us identify the problem areas, he describes what the path to erotic partnership can look like. Integrity, differentiation, variety — these are keys we have learned from previous guests and seem to apply in all areas of our lives. Listen as Dr. Sandor Gardos shares with us a piece of his vast wisdom on sexuality and relationship. Click here to visit MyPleasure.com. About Sandor Gardos (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/g-dr-sandor-gardos-2065-SM.jpg)Sandor Gardos, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist and sex therapist. He was formerly a fellow at the College of Physicians & Surgeons of Columbia University in New York and is currently a research scientist at the HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies. He is a member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists as well as the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality. He has written over a hundred articles, chapters, books, and other publications, and has served as the editor of Sexual Science. Gardos is also a regular guest on many nationally syndicated television and radio shows. Click here to visit MyPleasure.com. Tripp Lanier yes 26:00 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-025-rob-mcnamera-pt-2-mindbody-nutrition-and-exercise/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-025-rob-mcnamera-pt-2-mindbody-nutrition-and-exercise/#comments Tue, 19 Aug 2008 02:38:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/10002-rob-mcnamera-pt-2-mind-body-nutrition http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-025-rob-mcnamera-pt-2-mindbody-nutrition-and-exercise/feed/ 0 Fitness How much exercise is required to build strength and feel great? - In part two of our conversation, Rob lays out a simple and straightforward plan to build high-performance strength. - The good news: Rob says we can do it in under 3 hours a week. How much exercise is required to build strength and feel great? In part two of our conversation, Rob lays out a simple and straightforward plan to build high-performance strength. The good news: Rob says we can do it in under 3 hours a week. Rob highly recommends Shawn Phillips's new book, "Strength for Life," as a great resource for getting started on a program like this. Rob goes on to talk with us about Full Strength, a meal replacement product developed by Shawn Phillips that has been clinically shown to produce positive results in muscle building and fat and cholesterol reduction. A recent clinical study at the University of Oklahoma confirmed the wisdom that went into the production of Full Strength and documented surprisingly positive health benefits to the participants. Listen as Rob rounds out our discussions on the role of Strength for The New Man. About Rob McNamera (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/robmcnamara.jpg)Presently, Rob Mcnamara is leveraging integrated business strategies and developing leading edge strength training modalities as the Senior Integral Consultant and Human Performance Specialist for Phillips Performance Nutrition. Rob is currently running a small intensive Integral Performance Consulting practice where he's worked with several World Champion and Olympic coaches in assisting their athletes with an integrated approach to solving performance and development issues, along with a few hand picked clients. Over the past 3 years he has been applying his consulting work to business and leadership development. His other work within the business sector includes the Stagen Leadership Institute where he has helped develop and deploy integrally informed executive curriculum over the past few years. Presently he is leveraging integrated business strategies and developing leading edge strength training modalities as the Senior Integral Consultant and Human Performance Specialist for Phillips Performance Nutrition. Tripp Lanier yes 21:57 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-024-shawn-phillips-pt-2-hitting-the-wall-vs-balanced-recovery/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-024-shawn-phillips-pt-2-hitting-the-wall-vs-balanced-recovery/#comments Tue, 12 Aug 2008 02:04:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/6531-shawn-phillips-pt-2-hitting-wall-vs http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-024-shawn-phillips-pt-2-hitting-the-wall-vs-balanced-recovery/feed/ 0 Fitness,Passion,Purpose Are you noticing instability in your life as you push closer to your limits of performance? - Operating at "full-bore" may not be the best way to get where we want to go. - Shawn Phillips advises that for optimum performance, Are you noticing instability in your life as you push closer to your limits of performance? Operating at "full-bore" may not be the best way to get where we want to go. Shawn Phillips advises that for optimum performance, rest can be just as important as exertion. This applies to our physical bodies as well as our profession, our personal relationships and our purpose in life. "Recovery is like the silence between the notes that makes the music," says Shawn. Shawn and Tripp also explore the possibility that there is a difference between commitment and attachment. Attachment is our dependence on an outcome. Commitment is our willingness to "play" regardless of the outcome. When we get too far into attachment we lose focus, lose our power, and lose our ability to remain present in the moment. "I'm committed to the game without attachment to the outcome," Shawn says. Listen as Tripp continues his dialogue with Shawn Phillips, "Strength for Life" author and Human Performance expert. About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM.jpg)Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his steady, unwavering message: "health is not enough; it's A Time for Strength." Phillips asks each of us to aim beyond health, to aim for Strength. Shawn, whose uncompromising commitment to strength and fitness, is a best-selling author, entrepreneur, and renowned expert in the area of performance training and nutrition. For over twenty-five years he has helped hundreds of thousands of people including business leaders, professional athletes, numerous celebrities, clients and friends look great, feel great and unleash their full strength. Instrumental in building the industry of performance nutrition, Shawn most recently created the Full Strength Premium Nutrition Shake, pioneering a brand new category known as "fast performance food." Shawn is also the creator of Focus Intensity Training, a system integrating body and mind; blending the depth of Eastern traditions with the Western form and function of strength training. He also has served as a faculty member of the Integral Institute, a leader in the field of human potential. While known by many for his signature "six-pack abs," his brilliant clarity and inspiring vision, Shawn, a Colorado native, is better known by his family, close friends and associates as a focused, hard-working man with a kind heart and an intense passion for helping people live extraordinary lives. He is currently forming the Coalition for Strength, a new non-profit organization dedicated to sharing and celebrating the benefits of living with strength to inspire people of all walks of life to build our collective strength by cultivating our individual strength. Shawn is the author of Strength for Life (available April 29, 2008, Ballantine Books). In Strength for Life Shawn guides women and men beyond health to a new-level of strength with a revolutionary approach to nutrition and training. He is also the author of ABSolution: The Practical Guide To Building Your Best Abs. Shawn currently lives in the foothills of Colorado with his wife Angie and their two children, Nathaniel and Lilly. Tripp Lanier yes 31:22 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-023-shawn-phillips-health-is-killing-you/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-023-shawn-phillips-health-is-killing-you/#comments Tue, 05 Aug 2008 02:00:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/3972-shawn-phillips-health http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/08/tnm-023-shawn-phillips-health-is-killing-you/feed/ 0 Fitness,Passion,Purpose Is settling for mere "health" actually sending you to an early grave? - We all think health is something we should be happy with when we have it -- or something to return to when our health fails us. - Shawn Phillips will not settle for mere "health. Is settling for mere "health" actually sending you to an early grave? We all think health is something we should be happy with when we have it -- or something to return to when our health fails us. Shawn Phillips will not settle for mere "health." Shawn calls us to enter a life of Strength, a place where our abundant health can serve us in all aspects of our lives and allow us to put ourselves out there in the world. We've all taken up a workout routine, trying to get "back in shape" because we think we should. Shawn invites us to get past the "shoulds" and find our true power, the source of our potential greatness. From this place, the weight room becomes an expression of the abundance of our lives, and our bodies will show the results. Listen to Shawn and Tripp talk about how to stop "doing fitness" and start being fit. About Shawn Phillips, Author and Strength Expert (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/g-shawn-phillips-1780-SM.jpg)Longtime ambassador for personal transformation and fitness, Shawn Phillips is on a mission to spread a new standard of strength throughout America. On his quest, Shawn has focused his considerable passion on transforming our country, with his steady, unwavering message: "health is not enough; it's A Time for Strength." Phillips asks each of us to aim beyond health, to aim for Strength. Shawn, whose uncompromising commitment to strength and fitness, is a best-selling author, entrepreneur, and renowned expert in the area of performance training and nutrition. For over twenty-five years he has helped hundreds of thousands of people including business leaders, professional athletes, numerous celebrities, clients and friends look great, feel great and unleash their full strength. Instrumental in building the industry of performance nutrition, Shawn most recently created the Full Strength Premium Nutrition Shake, pioneering a brand new category known as "fast performance food." Shawn is also the creator of Focus Intensity Training, a system integrating body and mind; blending the depth of Eastern traditions with the Western form and function of strength training. He also has served as a faculty member of the Integral Institute, a leader in the field of human potential. While known by many for his signature "six-pack abs," his brilliant clarity and inspiring vision, Shawn, a Colorado native, is better known by his family, close friends and associates as a focused, hard-working man with a kind heart and an intense passion for helping people live extraordinary lives. He is currently forming the Coalition for Strength, a new non-profit organization dedicated to sharing and celebrating the benefits of living with strength to inspire people of all walks of life to build our collective strength by cultivating our individual strength. Shawn is the author of Strength for Life (available April 29, 2008, Ballantine Books). In Strength for Life Shawn guides women and men beyond health to a new-level of strength with a revolutionary approach to nutrition and training. He is also the author of ABSolution: The Practical Guide To Building Your Best Abs. Shawn currently lives in the foothills of Colorado with his wife Angie and their two children, Nathaniel and Lilly. Tripp Lanier yes 27:36 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/07/tnm-022-rob-mcnamera-what-is-strength/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/07/tnm-022-rob-mcnamera-what-is-strength/#comments Wed, 30 Jul 2008 12:44:00 +0000 admin http://personallifemedia.com/podcasts/238-the-new-man/episodes/3957-rob-mcnamera-what http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/07/tnm-022-rob-mcnamera-what-is-strength/feed/ 0 Fitness Are you feeling at your best physically? - Are you looking for that edge to keep you sharp at the workplace and help you handle the intensity of life's challenges? - If you are like the average man, chances are you have not felt that great since you we... Are you feeling at your best physically? Are you looking for that edge to keep you sharp at the workplace and help you handle the intensity of life's challenges? If you are like the average man, chances are you have not felt that great since you were in your teens. Not only is our poor physical condition slowing down our bodies, but its slowing down our minds as well. This week we are talking with Rob McNamera about strength. Strength is the abundance of power. This abundance is true for our muscles as well as our brains, and it affects our performance across the boar We can increase this abundance with regular strength training. Listen as Rob breaks down the secrets of strength and shares with us the dire importance of taking care of our bodies. About Rob McNamera (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/robmcnamara.jpg)Presently, Rob Mcnamara is leveraging integrated business strategies and developing leading edge strength training modalities as the Senior Integral Consultant and Human Performance Specialist for Phillips Performance Nutrition. Rob is currently running a small intensive Integral Performance Consulting practice where he's worked with several World Champion and Olympic coaches in assisting their athletes with an integrated approach to solving performance and development issues, along with a few hand picked clients. Over the past 3 years he has been applying his consulting work to business and leadership development.His other work within the business sector includes the Stagen Leadership Institute where he has helped develop and deploy integrally informed executive curriculum over the past few years. Presently he is leveraging integrated business strategies and developing leading edge strength training modalities as the Senior Integral Consultant and Human Performance Specialist for Phillips Performance Nutrition. Tripp Lanier yes 25:27 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/05/tnm-021-the-seduction-community-where-to-go-next/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/05/tnm-021-the-seduction-community-where-to-go-next/#comments Thu, 01 May 2008 23:33:00 +0000 admin 563 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/05/tnm-021-the-seduction-community-where-to-go-next/feed/ 0 AMP,Dating,Pickup Artist,PUA What do you do when you master the art of seduction? - After years of practice in the seduction community, Garrison Cohen still felt something was missin - He had become a Pickup Artist (PUA), with no trouble meeting and dating women. What do you do when you master the art of seduction? After years of practice in the seduction community, Garrison Cohen still felt something was missin He had become a Pickup Artist (PUA), with no trouble meeting and dating women. But the truly meaningful relationships still eluded him. In his continuing search he came upon a concept called "inner game" and the Authentic Man Program. Listen as he shares with us what he found to be the ultimate practice to deepen his relationships with women and give him what he was truly looking for all along. In this episode: * Ross Jeffries * NLP - Neuro-Linguistic Programming * Authentic Man Program * The Game Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. About Garrison Cohen (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-garrison-cohen-SM.jpg)Garrison Cohen, VP of Development for AMP Media has spoken at over 300 colleges as far away as Singapore and has lead live workshops for up to 2,500 at a time. He is an award winning filmmaker, presenter, writer and honorary member of the Society of Leadership and Success, which has hosted other speakers such as Patch Adams and Colin Powell. His current work is based on a fusion of marketing, film production and accelerated learning. In addition to his work in education and entertainment Garrison has been a leading voice in the field of transformational work for men since 1996. Since his involvement with AMP Garrison has overseen the copyrighting, marketing, audio and video production that has gone out to men all over the world. Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. Tripp Lanier yes 36:03 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-020-a-reformed-pick-up-artist/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-020-a-reformed-pick-up-artist/#comments Fri, 25 Apr 2008 13:30:00 +0000 admin 559 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-020-a-reformed-pick-up-artist/feed/ 0 AMP,Dating,Pickup Artist Are you wanting to meet more women or have greater choices when it comes to a date? - Ever thought of becoming a Pickup Artist or PUA? - This week we sit down with Garrison Cohen, a "reformed pickup artist" that has tried every technique there is in th... Are you wanting to meet more women or have greater choices when it comes to a date? Ever thought of becoming a Pickup Artist or PUA? This week we sit down with Garrison Cohen, a "reformed pickup artist" that has tried every technique there is in the world of seduction. Garrison walks us through his journey in the seduction community including a time as a Pickup Artist trainer. He shares with us the insights he learned from each of the schools of seduction and where it ultimately led him. In this episode: * Ross Jeffries * NLP - Neuro-Linguistic Programming * Authentic Man Program * The Game Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. About Garrison Cohen (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-garrison-cohen-SM.jpg)Garrison Cohen, VP of Development for AMP Media has spoken at over 300 colleges as far away as Singapore and has lead live workshops for up to 2,500 at a time. He is an award winning filmmaker, presenter, writer and honorary member of the Society of Leadership and Success, which has hosted other speakers such as Patch Adams and Colin Powell. His current work is based on a fusion of marketing, film production and accelerated learning. In addition to his work in education and entertainment Garrison has been a leading voice in the field of transformational work for men since 1996. Since his involvement with AMP Garrison has overseen the copyrighting, marketing, audio and video production that has gone out to men all over the world. Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. Tripp Lanier yes 23:19 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-019-the-icing-on-the-cake-of-an-amazing-life/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-019-the-icing-on-the-cake-of-an-amazing-life/#comments Sat, 19 Apr 2008 11:33:00 +0000 admin 552 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-019-the-icing-on-the-cake-of-an-amazing-life/feed/ 0 AMP,Dating,Pickup Artist,PUA,Relationships What can do once you have found a sense of wholeness? - In Part 2 of our discussion with Bryan Bayer of the Authentic Man Program we discuss how personal development work affects our luck with the ladies. - Bryan describes how presence becomes 'a vortex, What can do once you have found a sense of wholeness? In Part 2 of our discussion with Bryan Bayer of the Authentic Man Program we discuss how personal development work affects our luck with the ladies. Bryan describes how presence becomes 'a vortex,' drawing people (especially women) towards us. He then describes what interactions look like after the 'need to get something" is dropped. We also get into the unique opportunity AMP presents for men. "10 years of therapy didn't get at what we got in 2 days at AMP," said one participant. AMP is a unique mix of challenge, inquiry and compassion that can trigger rapid insights and growth. Listen as we learn how relating with women is just the icing on the cake of an amazing life! Disclaimer: Tripp and Casey have both attended the AMP program and both found it challenging, rewarding, and a profound growing experience. In this episode: * Authentic Man Program * The Game * Dekker * Goenka Vipassana Meditation * Ken Wilber * David Deida Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/amp) About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-bryan-bayer-SM.jpg)Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSF™ and the Authentic Man Program™, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship. Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a background in the Destination Method, certified by Robert McDonald, one of the early pioneers and leaders in the science of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). He has written dozens of articles on man/woman dynamics and personal development, and in addition to his coaching practice, Bryan is a course leader for the Arete Center for Excellence, the Authentic Man Program, and supervises the production of other courses. Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. Tripp Lanier yes 24:53 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-018-bryan-bayer-the-authentic-man-program-part-1/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-018-bryan-bayer-the-authentic-man-program-part-1/#comments Thu, 10 Apr 2008 11:51:00 +0000 admin 548 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-018-bryan-bayer-the-authentic-man-program-part-1/feed/ 0 AMP,Dating,Pickup Artist,PUA,Relationships Ever notice how some guys just seem to be magnets for women? - Ever wish you could be that guy, effortlessly attracting amazing women into your life? - We sure do, and there may be help for us yet. - This week we're in the studio with Bryan Bayer, Ever notice how some guys just seem to be magnets for women? Ever wish you could be that guy, effortlessly attracting amazing women into your life? We sure do, and there may be help for us yet. This week we're in the studio with Bryan Bayer, co-founder of the Authentic Man Program. Bryan gives us the story of how the AMP program came into existence out of his own pain and struggle to find real connection with women. At one point, Bryan spent months asking himself, "What would I do if no woman ever found me attractive again?" From this deep inquiry, he discovered a whole new sense of integration and used it as a tool to fuel his own personal growt He also had help from amazing women in his life that were willing to explore the depths of his being with him and give him feedback on what they were experiencing. AMP was developed with Bryan as his own guinea pig. The AMP facilitators work with all types of men, helping them to integrate more of "themselves" and get rid of that sense of "neediness" that keeps women at a distance. Listen as Bryan gives us a sense of where we can go in our interactions with women and how the AMP program is a great resource to help us get there. Resources: * Authentic Man Program * The Game * Dekker * Goenka Vipassana Meditation * Ken Wilber * David Deida Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. About Bryan Bayer, Personal coach and co-founder of AuthenticSF (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/g-bryan-bayer-SM.jpg)Bryan Bayer, CEO of AuthenticSF™ and the Authentic Man Program™, has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business and relationship. Drawing from an extensive study of integral theory, developmental psychology and man/woman dynamics, Bryan has a background in the Destination Method, certified by Robert McDonald, one of the early pioneers and leaders in the science of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). He has written dozens of articles on man/woman dynamics and personal development, and in addition to his coaching practice, Bryan is a course leader for the Arete Center for Excellence, the Authentic Man Program, and supervises the production of other courses. Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. Tripp Lanier yes 27:21 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-017-alissa-kriteman-dating-relationships-and-sex/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-017-alissa-kriteman-dating-relationships-and-sex/#comments Wed, 02 Apr 2008 11:21:00 +0000 admin 535 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/04/tnm-017-alissa-kriteman-dating-relationships-and-sex/feed/ 0 AMP,Dating,Relationships,Sex,Women What is the deal with all this testing from women? - In part two of our conversation, Alissa Kriteman shares an intense example of how she has tested her man and how his strength and ability to hold that deepened their relationship immensely. What is the deal with all this testing from women? In part two of our conversation, Alissa Kriteman shares an intense example of how she has tested her man and how his strength and ability to hold that deepened their relationship immensely. Alissa shares with us some secrets that single men should know about meeting and attracting women and what role a healthy sense of self can play in finding a partner. She gets into the very thing guys want to know about the most -- What are we missing in the bedroom? No, it's not about any elaborate technique or physical qualifications fellas. It's also not something we can "figure out" exactly. She goes on to speak about the wisdom of desire, and encourages us to cultivate our ability to "be" with desire and allow it to subtly guide us in life. Listen as Alissa lets us in on the world of women. About Alissa Kriteman, Author of "Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams" (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/h-alissa-kriteman-SM1.jpg)Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does.  With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of insight and knowledge to her latest venture as the host of a hot, new podcast show, “Just For Women: Dating, Relationships and Sex” distributed by Personal Life Media, Inc. Alissa appeared as “The Dreamer” on ABC’s reality show “How to Get the Guy” and is the author of “Meet the Dreamer: Alissa’s Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams” available on www.Amazon.com .  A smart and experienced go-getter, Alissa's innate desire for authenticity and "news you can use" allows her to confidently interview today’s most innovative and passionate leaders about attraction, intimacy, sensuality, understanding men, being an empowered woman and alternative approaches to creating loving relationships. A native of Boston, MA, Alissa holds a BS in Business Administration from the University of New Hampshire and a minor in Spanish from the Universidad de Granada, Spain. She began her corporate career in sales and marketing in the wine industry and headed west to the Napa Valley to promote prestigious wineries such as Far Niente and DeLoach Vineyards. Wanting to be more involved in the pulse of what was happening in San Francisco, Alissa took her expertise into the Advertising world as an Account Executive with Winkler Advertising. Living in the Bay Area, a hotbed of personal transformation, Alissa became involved with Landmark Education and subsequently completed their entire curriculum of courses. She spent two years as a successful Introduction Leader as well as powerful coach for many of their programs. During her tenure with transformational work at Landmark, Alissa also began facilitating a dynamic workshop that celebrates the differences between men and women with her friends and course leaders, Kristine and John Catalina (www.manwomanmadeeasy.com ).  Continuing her desire to help awaken larger groups of people to the power that lies within them, Alissa accepted the role of Head Coach for a riveting, year-long personal growth intensive called The Wisdom Course, also offered by Landmark Education. Alissa is presently a licensed, Intuitive Massage Therapist managing a successful private practice with her company, Sacred Spa (www.sacredspa.org ).  She also works part-time at Splash Spa in the five-star fitness center SportsClub/LA (www.mpsportsclubco.com ) in San Francisco.  She is a currently a student with Tinamit Junan Uleu (www.mayanshamanism.com ) a Mayan organization dedicated to bringing the shamanic wisdom of ancient elders to the world of today. Alissa, an active yogini, enjoys meditation and kirtan and meets with a monthly women's circle focused on manifesting dreams into reality.  She loves to read, journal, swim in the ocean, snowboard, make music, see live music, Tripp Lanier yes 33:09 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-016-alissa-kriteman-just-for-women/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-016-alissa-kriteman-just-for-women/#comments Thu, 27 Mar 2008 10:02:00 +0000 admin 515 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-016-alissa-kriteman-just-for-women/feed/ 0 AMP,Dating,Relationships,Sex,Women Do you ever wonder what women talk about when we're not around? - We sure do, that's why we had to get an insider's perspective from relationship consultant Alissa Kriteman. - Alissa hosts the hugely successful podcast "Just for Women: Dating, Do you ever wonder what women talk about when we're not around? We sure do, that's why we had to get an insider's perspective from relationship consultant Alissa Kriteman. Alissa hosts the hugely successful podcast "Just for Women: Dating, Relationships, and Sex." She talks with experts about all the issues facing women and helps her listeners live fuller lives with better relationships. Given her experience talking with women, we thought she might have some insights for The New Man...she definitely did! Alissa gives us the female perspective on how we, as men, show up in the world of women most of the time. She details the differences of worldviews experienced by men and women and how knowing these differences empowers us to have deeper, more authentic relationships. About Alissa Kriteman, Author of "Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams" (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/h-alissa-kriteman-SM.jpg)Show host, author and entrepreneur, Alissa Kriteman brings a sassy and bold approach to all that she does. With a background as a Professional Life Coach and Relationship Expert, Alissa brings a wealth of insight and knowledge to her latest venture as the host of a hot, new podcast show, “Just For Women: Dating, Relationships and Sex” distributed by Personal Life Media, Inc. Alissa appeared as “The Dreamer” on ABC’s reality show “How to Get the Guy” and is the author of “Meet the Dreamer: Alissa’s Four Cornerstones for Living Your Dreams” available on www.Amazon.com . A smart and experienced go-getter, Alissa's innate desire for authenticity and "news you can use" allows her to confidently interview today’s most innovative and passionate leaders about attraction, intimacy, sensuality, understanding men, being an empowered woman and alternative approaches to creating loving relationships. A native of Boston, MA, Alissa holds a BS in Business Administration from the University of New Hampshire and a minor in Spanish from the Universidad de Granada, Spain. She began her corporate career in sales and marketing in the wine industry and headed west to the Napa Valley to promote prestigious wineries such as Far Niente and DeLoach Vineyards. Wanting to be more involved in the pulse of what was happening in San Francisco, Alissa took her expertise into the Advertising world as an Account Executive with Winkler Advertising. Living in the Bay Area, a hotbed of personal transformation, Alissa became involved with Landmark Education and subsequently completed their entire curriculum of courses. She spent two years as a successful Introduction Leader as well as powerful coach for many of their programs. During her tenure with transformational work at Landmark, Alissa also began facilitating a dynamic workshop that celebrates the differences between men and women with her friends and course leaders, Kristine and John Catalina (www.manwomanmadeeasy.com ). Continuing her desire to help awaken larger groups of people to the power that lies within them, Alissa accepted the role of Head Coach for a riveting, year-long personal growth intensive called The Wisdom Course, also offered by Landmark Education. Alissa is presently a licensed, Intuitive Massage Therapist managing a successful private practice with her company, Sacred Spa (www.sacredspa.org ). She also works part-time at Splash Spa in the five-star fitness center SportsClub/LA (www.mpsportsclubco.com ) in San Francisco. She is a currently a student with Tinamit Junan Uleu (www.mayanshamanism.com ) a Mayan organization dedicated to bringing the shamanic wisdom of ancient elders to the world of today. Alissa, an active yogini, enjoys meditation and kirtan and meets with a monthly women's circle focused on manifesting dreams into reality. She loves to read, journal, swim in the ocean, snowboard, make music, see live music, and most of all, dance ~ to the amazing beats of DJ Lorin Ashton (www.bassnectar.net ). Tripp Lanier yes 24:58 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-015-have-you-lost-your-teenage-fire/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-015-have-you-lost-your-teenage-fire/#comments Thu, 20 Mar 2008 11:04:00 +0000 admin 497 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-015-have-you-lost-your-teenage-fire/feed/ 0 Mission,MKP,Parenting,Passion,Purpose When does a boy become a man? - In more tribal times, the transition to adulthood for men was very clear. It was accompanied by support and ceremony and left no question in the minds of the boys or the tribe about status or responsibility. When does a boy become a man? In more tribal times, the transition to adulthood for men was very clear. It was accompanied by support and ceremony and left no question in the minds of the boys or the tribe about status or responsibility. Our modern social structure seems to have abandoned this support structure for transition, something we are learning is so essential for young men. Threshold Passages is one organization that is changing that. Threshold Passages brings together young men on the path to adulthood, with willing mentors dedicated to helping these young men on their way. Together, these men and boys at varying stages of life, share wisdom, energy and support in the form of Adventure weekends and weekly group meetings. This week we talk with Ed Lippolis, a program "mentor" at 39 years old and Patrick Hillman, a program "journeyman" at 16 years old. We get the perspective on both sides of this unique group mentoring program and hear about how important this program is in each of their lives. Click here to learn more about Threshold Passages (http://ThresholdPassages.org) Tripp Lanier yes 30:17 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-014-robert-augustus-masters-fear-is-just-excitement-in-drag/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-014-robert-augustus-masters-fear-is-just-excitement-in-drag/#comments Thu, 13 Mar 2008 11:49:00 +0000 admin 481 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-014-robert-augustus-masters-fear-is-just-excitement-in-drag/feed/ 0 Anger,Fear,Passion "Repressed anger is as harmful as inappropriately expressed anger," Masters says when describing how to allow emotions to arise naturally. He says healthy anger is "the guardian of healthy boundaries." - Robert talks about being present to the emotio... "Repressed anger is as harmful as inappropriately expressed anger," Masters says when describing how to allow emotions to arise naturally. He says healthy anger is "the guardian of healthy boundaries." Robert talks about being present to the emotions that are arising and giving them space to be expressed authentically. When he says, "Fear is excitement in drag," Masters is talking about the similarity of the emotions of fear and excitement as they are felt. When we allow the emotion to arise, without avoiding it, fear can be an exhilarating and useful emotion. In Part 2 of our discussion with Robert Augustus Masters, he breaks it down to the practical level for us. Robert talks about several practices we can do to "get in our bodies" and get in touch with our true power. About Robert Masters (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-robert-augustus-masters-SM.jpg)My passion is to fuel, illuminate, and support the living of a deeper life, a life of love, integrity, and fully alive awakening. Providing environments (both inner and outer) in which deep healing and transformation can take place is my vocation and privilege. Having just reached my 60th birthday, I notice that I am finding freedom more through intimacy — intimacy not only with my beloved Diane, but also with all that is — than through transcendence. There is a deeply satisfying joy for me in passing on what I have learned, especially through my integral psychotherapy apprenticeship programs and the couples intensives that I do with Diane. Since 1977 I've worked as a psychotherapist (I have a Ph.D. in Psychology), group leader, bodyworker, and teacher of spiritual deepening practices, integrating the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual in my practice. Most weekends these days I'm leading groups or trainings. Evolving in fitting parallel with this has been my writing, which is as much a passion for me as facilitating deep groupwork. I've authored eight books, including Divine Dynamite, Darkness Shining Wild, and, most recently, Transformation Through Intimacy. My essays have appeared in magazines ranging from Magical Blend to the Journal of Transpersonal Psychology, as well as in several anthologies. And running rampant through all my writing is my poetry, keeping my prose on its toes. Tripp Lanier yes 11:55 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-013-robert-augustus-masters-are-you-stuck-in-the-friend-zone/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-013-robert-augustus-masters-are-you-stuck-in-the-friend-zone/#comments Thu, 06 Mar 2008 11:30:00 +0000 admin 467 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/03/tnm-013-robert-augustus-masters-are-you-stuck-in-the-friend-zone/feed/ 0 Anger,Fear,Passion Robert Augustus Masters is an Integral Psychotherapist and group leader. Integral means that he is working with mind, body, emotions and conditioning in a flowing and organic way. - Robert works with guys who have the balls to make the changes to make... Robert Augustus Masters is an Integral Psychotherapist and group leader. Integral means that he is working with mind, body, emotions and conditioning in a flowing and organic way. Robert works with guys who have the balls to make the changes to make their lives better. His work focuses primarily on the body, as men tend to get "stuck in their heads" and cut off from their feelings. Some women can feel this and may experience the man to be less trust-able and less desirable because of it. The "Friend Zone" is the place men go when they are not in touch with our true power. Masters clarifies that power does not mean overpowering and that there is a real difference between anger and aggression. When men get in touch with the power from their core, they are more authentic, trust-able and attractive to women. Robert insists that vulnerability is not weakness but, in fact, authenticity. If we can learn to be vulnerable without crumbling, we can be more in touch with our lives and other people. About Robert Masters (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/g-robert-augustus-masters-SM.jpg)My passion is to fuel, illuminate, and support the living of a deeper life, a life of love, integrity, and fully alive awakening. Providing environments (both inner and outer) in which deep healing and transformation can take place is my vocation and privilege. Having just reached my 60th birthday, I notice that I am finding freedom more through intimacy — intimacy not only with my beloved Diane, but also with all that is — than through transcendence. There is a deeply satisfying joy for me in passing on what I have learned, especially through my integral psychotherapy apprenticeship programs and the couples intensives that I do with Diane. Since 1977 I've worked as a psychotherapist (I have a Ph.D. in Psychology), group leader, bodyworker, and teacher of spiritual deepening practices, integrating the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual in my practice. Most weekends these days I'm leading groups or trainings. Evolving in fitting parallel with this has been my writing, which is as much a passion for me as facilitating deep groupwork. I've authored eight books, including Divine Dynamite, Darkness Shining Wild, and, most recently, Transformation Through Intimacy. My essays have appeared in magazines ranging from Magical Blend to the Journal of Transpersonal Psychology, as well as in several anthologies. And running rampant through all my writing is my poetry, keeping my prose on its toes. Tripp Lanier yes 25:34 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-012-the-warriors-journey-returning-from-iraq-part-2/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-012-the-warriors-journey-returning-from-iraq-part-2/#comments Thu, 28 Feb 2008 12:34:00 +0000 admin 458 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-012-the-warriors-journey-returning-from-iraq-part-2/feed/ 0 Fear,Rites of Passage "The willow which bends to the tempest, often escapes better than the oak which resists it; and so in great calamities, it sometimes happens that light and frivolous spirits recover their elasticity and presence of mind sooner than those of a loftier c... "The willow which bends to the tempest, often escapes better than the oak which resists it; and so in great calamities, it sometimes happens that light and frivolous spirits recover their elasticity and presence of mind sooner than those of a loftier character." - Albert Schweitzer In Part 2 of our conversation with Dan Taslitz, we hear about Dan's experience coming home from Iraq and how he transitioned back to civilian life. Dan has developed a system to convert stress into true strength and teaches men the power of vulnerability, learning to bend with resilience and not break in rigidity. Listen as Dan gives us a glimpse of his life as a soldier. He then shows us his new life as a leader and compassionate warrior helping others resource their trauma to find true strength. Visit OneFreedom.org About Dan Taslitz (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/dantaslitz.jpg)Dan Taslitz, USMC, Reconnaissance, Tour in Iraq, served seven years in the United States Marine Corps as a Reconnaissance Team Leader. This included a combat tour in Iraq where his team's missions included reconnaissance and surveillance, counter-IDF, counter-IED, cache search and destroy, direct action assaults and raids, HVT search and detentions, counter-ambush and presence patrols. Among Sgt Taslitz's awards are the Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal with combat 'V' device and the Combat Action Ribbon. As a Reconnaissance Marine he is also qualified in Airborne operations and as a Marine Combatant Diver. Prior to entering military service, Mr. Taslitz spent ten years as a senior faculty member with the National Outdoor Leadership School. In this capacity he was an expedition leader in remote wilderness settings around the globe that included operating in mountains, deserts and oceans throughout North America, in Central America and in Africa. He is an experienced high-altitude mountaineer and wilderness guide. Visit OneFreedom.org (http://www.onefreedom.org) Tripp Lanier yes 20:27 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-011-the-warriors-journey-from-trauma-to-strength-part-1/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-011-the-warriors-journey-from-trauma-to-strength-part-1/#comments Fri, 22 Feb 2008 00:01:00 +0000 admin 452 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-011-the-warriors-journey-from-trauma-to-strength-part-1/feed/ 0 Fear,Rites of Passage Dan Taslitz is a war veteran. He served on the front lines in the Iraq war in a Marine reconnaissance unit withstanding some of the most high stress, high pressure situation - When someone goes through an experience like this, Dan Taslitz is a war veteran. He served on the front lines in the Iraq war in a Marine reconnaissance unit withstanding some of the most high stress, high pressure situation When someone goes through an experience like this, their brain and body adapt in order to survive. How does that adaptation translate into normal life when a soldier, like Dan, returns from the battlefield? It's not always easy. Dan paid close attention to his experience and the changes that were occurring for him. He made a successful transition back into society, translating his stress into strength. He has developed an intimate understanding of the traumatic experience. He brings this wisdom to his work with OneFreedom.org to help integrate soldiers into society after their service in battle. Dan helps soldiers resource their strength and learn to adapt in the face of challenges. Listen as Dan shares his warrior's journey through intensity towards integration. Visit OneFreedom.org (http://www.onefreedom.org) About Dan Taslitz (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/dantaslitz.jpg)Dan Taslitz, USMC, Reconnaissance, Tour in Iraq, served seven years in the United States Marine Corps as a Reconnaissance Team Leader. This included a combat tour in Iraq where his team's missions included reconnaissance and surveillance, counter-IDF, counter-IED, cache search and destroy, direct action assaults and raids, HVT search and detentions, counter-ambush and presence patrols. Among Sgt Taslitz's awards are the Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal with combat 'V' device and the Combat Action Ribbon. As a Reconnaissance Marine he is also qualified in Airborne operations and as a Marine Combatant Diver. Prior to entering military service, Mr. Taslitz spent ten years as a senior faculty member with the National Outdoor Leadership School. In this capacity he was an expedition leader in remote wilderness settings around the globe that included operating in mountains, deserts and oceans throughout North America, in Central America and in Africa. He is an experienced high-altitude mountaineer and wilderness guide. Visit OneFreedom.org (http://www.onefreedom.org) Tripp Lanier yes 30:00 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-010-status-is-the-enemy-of-contentment/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-010-status-is-the-enemy-of-contentment/#comments Fri, 15 Feb 2008 09:20:00 +0000 admin 434 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-010-status-is-the-enemy-of-contentment/feed/ 2 Career,Mission,Money,Passion,Purpose,Women Is your career really aligned with your life's purpose? - How important is a man's purpose in life when choosing a career? - This week we sit down with Marty Nemko, Career Editor for U.S. News and World Report and Kiplingers. Is your career really aligned with your life's purpose? How important is a man's purpose in life when choosing a career? This week we sit down with Marty Nemko, Career Editor for U.S. News and World Report and Kiplingers.com to get his unique perspective on careers and the popular stereotype of men. Marty brings a no-nonsense approach to his career advice, but there is wisdom in his perspective. He tells us what the most rewarding careers have in common and what to look for when seeking that perfect job. He flips conventional wisdom on its head and looks at the truth behind the flashy careers like doctors and lawyers and why these may not be the best paths to a rewarding life. Marty is also passionate about how men are seen in today's western society. He argues that the portrayal of men as incompetent, aggressive, and powerless is not only inaccurate, but is having a harmful effect on the psyche of men and boys. About Marty Nemko (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/Dianne-Woods-pictures-March-2005-015_edited.jpg)Marty's mother claims that he could read the New York Times at age 3 and that his reading comprehension in the 1st grade was at the 12th grade level. That's either the exaggerations of a Jewish mother or the first sign of what was to come. Today, Dr. Marty Nemko is among the nation's most sought-after experts on both career and education issues. Marty has been interviewed by hundreds of major media--including multiple times on everything from The Today Show to NPR's Talk of the Nation, from the New York Times to the Los Angeles Times. Tripp Lanier yes 28:55 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-009-women-are-not-just-a-pain-in-the-ass/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-009-women-are-not-just-a-pain-in-the-ass/#comments Thu, 07 Feb 2008 12:26:00 +0000 admin 422 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/02/tnm-009-women-are-not-just-a-pain-in-the-ass/feed/ 0 AMP,Dating,Relationships,Sex,Women We're dodging flying coffee mugs right now for even suggesting that, but that's how it can feel to a guy now and the - What is going on with the women of our lives in these moments of apparent torture? - This week we sit down with the amazing women of ... We're dodging flying coffee mugs right now for even suggesting that, but that's how it can feel to a guy now and the What is going on with the women of our lives in these moments of apparent torture? This week we sit down with the amazing women of the Authentic Man Program as they share with us a little bit about how women wor We learn how women perceive men and how we can "show up" more fully to experience new depths in meeting, dating, and serious relationships with women. The Authentic Man Program is a San Francisco-based workshop that helps men learn to look deep inside themselves and connect with their deepest truth. It also shows them how to take that awareness out into the world to meet and relate to other people—especially women. Kendra, Shana, and Alexis give us a glimpse inside what they bring to the Authentic Man Program and share with us some practices we can use to deepen our relations with the opposite sex. Far from being a pain in the ass, these women (and all women really) are our trusted allies in finding our deeper selves and finding intense connection with a partner. Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. About Kendra Cunov (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/g-kendra-cunov-2359-SM.jpg)Kendra Cunov is a co-founder of AuthenticSF, a personal development company committed to fostering authentic, flourishing relationship in the world.  As a coach & seminar leader, she is a unique blend -- Years of practice (and upbringing) in a Buddhist monastery with cutting edge community-building and relationship dynamics, inspiring a profoundly clear and open approach to working with people. (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/ShanaAlexisPhotoNew_sm-150x150.jpg)About Shana James, M.A. and Alexis Shepperd, Ph. D. Committed to inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, they lead profoundly intimate and personal coursework for men, women & couples. AuthenticWorld is known for delivering practical and…well, authentic results minus the traditional formalities and pomp of ‘transformational work’. The Authentic Man Program (AMP) and the Authentic Woman Experience (AWE) have supported thousands internationally. (www.AuthenticManProgram.com (http://www.authenticmanprogram.com/) & www.AuthenticWomanExperience.com (http://www.authenticwomanexperience.com/)) Click here for more information on The Authentic Man Program. Tripp Lanier yes 43:38 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-008-is-pornography-great-for-a-relationship/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-008-is-pornography-great-for-a-relationship/#comments Wed, 30 Jan 2008 18:41:00 +0000 admin 411 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-008-is-pornography-great-for-a-relationship/feed/ 0 Dating,polyamory,Relationships,Sex Porn is a part of nearly every man's sexual life. - LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food -- polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our... Porn is a part of nearly every man's sexual life. LiYana Silver points out that a little porn is good for spice here and there, but too much porn can be like junk-food -- polluting our healthy relationships and distracting us from connection with our partne She urges us to practice in the bedroom, giving our full energy to our partners. LiYana then shares with us the key differences in how men and women open emotionally in relationship. Bringing a little consciousness to these differences is often enough to get through the hang-ups and into the true depths of connection. If you are experiencing resistance to commitment, get in touch with what are you going to lose by entering into a committed relationship? "Get in touch with that, then we can work with it," she says. You can have something EXACTLY the way you want it. There's plenty of love to go around. Learn about the different styles of intimacy men and women bring to the table. Find out what absolutely has to be there if you want to take your relationship beyond monogamy. Relationship lived in this way will call us to be our highest expression of a man. About LiYana Silver (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-liyana-silver-SM.jpg)LiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera Ballet.  She is a Vinyasa yoga teacher and her oil paintings have been displayed upon the gallery walls the likes of Lincoln Center and an East Village tattoo store. Since 2001, she has had a private coaching practice, in which she works with those seeking a holistic and down to earth approach to relationships, nutrition and lifestyle. She has taught and lectured at numerous universities, corporations and institutions, including NASDAQ, the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, the School of Visual Arts, St. John's College, Marymount Manhattan, Baruch College, the Atlantic Theatre Company and The Juilliard School.  She writes a regular column for New York Spirit Magazine, "Enlightened Sex in the City." She has been in an exquisite relationship – “a co-created work of art” - with her boyfriend of five years. Her vast and varied experiences have served to clarify for her that intimate relationships are a powerful vehicle for extraordinary personal growth, and a sacred opportunity to dance with the biggest flirt of all, the divine. Tripp Lanier yes 27:27 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-007-looking-to-redefine-your-monogamous-relationship/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-007-looking-to-redefine-your-monogamous-relationship/#comments Thu, 24 Jan 2008 18:51:00 +0000 admin 399 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-007-looking-to-redefine-your-monogamous-relationship/feed/ 0 Dating,polyamory,Relationships,Sex Every man has had wandering thoughts or wandering eyes at some point during his committed relationship. Most likely it happens every day! - Should we be avoiding these thoughts—repressing them so we don't hurt our partners? - Absolutely not, Every man has had wandering thoughts or wandering eyes at some point during his committed relationship. Most likely it happens every day! Should we be avoiding these thoughts—repressing them so we don't hurt our partners? Absolutely not, according to LiYana Silver, it's part of what makes you a ma So why do our special ladies seem to get so pissed off about it? It likely has to do with our ability to stay connected to them. If we can develop strong, healthy, constant connection to our partners, there is no limit to our freedom. We might even go so far as to take our relationship outside of the normal rules of monogamous commitment if that's what we want to do, according to LiYana. Listen as LiYana lets us in on the secret "Kryptonite" that melts the resistance and defensiveness of any woman in relationship to establish true, deep connection. This connection is liberating for men in relationship, as we will feel the reigns loosen through trust. About LiYana Silver (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-liyana-silver-SM.jpg)LiYana has been a professional modern dancer for over 10 years in Europe, Israel and New York City, most notably with the Kibbutz Contemporary Dance Company and the Metropolitan Opera Ballet. She is a Vinyasa yoga teacher and her oil paintings have been displayed upon the gallery walls the likes of Lincoln Center and an East Village tattoo store. Since 2001, she has had a private coaching practice, in which she works with those seeking a holistic and down to earth approach to relationships, nutrition and lifestyle. She has taught and lectured at numerous universities, corporations and institutions, including NASDAQ, the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, the School of Visual Arts, St. John's College, Marymount Manhattan, Baruch College, the Atlantic Theatre Company and The Juilliard School. She writes a regular column for New York Spirit Magazine, "Enlightened Sex in the City." She has been in an exquisite relationship – “a co-created work of art” - with her boyfriend of five years. Her vast and varied experiences have served to clarify for her that intimate relationships are a powerful vehicle for extraordinary personal growth, and a sacred opportunity to dance with the biggest flirt of all, the divine. Tripp Lanier yes 13:14 http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-006-is-it-necessary-to-get-close-to-death-to-live-life/ http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-006-is-it-necessary-to-get-close-to-death-to-live-life/#comments Thu, 17 Jan 2008 11:46:00 +0000 admin 386 at http://www.fallingfruit.tv http://thenewmanpodcast.com/2008/01/tnm-006-is-it-necessary-to-get-close-to-death-to-live-life/feed/ 0 Fear,Passion,Purpose,Rites of Passage In the final episode of our three-part in-depth conversation with Jayson Gaddis we explore the deepest truths of men's Rite of Passage work and how we can bring this truth to our everyday lives. - What happens when we step out of our "safe zone" and wh... In the final episode of our three-part in-depth conversation with Jayson Gaddis we explore the deepest truths of men's Rite of Passage work and how we can bring this truth to our everyday lives. What happens when we step out of our "safe zone" and why are some constantly chasing the adrenaline rush of danger? Jayson talks with us about the power of stepping out of this "safe zone" and how embracing our "edge" can become a practice in our lives. About Jayson Gaddis, Creator of Revolutionary Man (http://thenewmanpodcast.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/g-jayson-gaddis-2569-SM.jpg)Jayson Gaddis, LPC, is an expert in male psychology. He’s a life and relationship coach and CEO of Revolutionary Man, a company devoted to men in their 20’s and 30’s (and often men in their 40’s) who are committed to going beyond mainstream, status quo Manhood and men who are committed to reaching fulfillment in ALL areas of their life. Jayson believes that when guys can master their own inner psychology, anything is possible. He began this work as a leadership consultant traveling the country helping young men lead more effectively. Jayson has led over 25 wilderness rites-of-passage trips with men of all ages. He spent over ten years working with at-risk youth in a variety of settings. He’s an adventurer at heart and has climbed some of the country’s tallest peaks and used to spend over 200 days per year sleeping on the earth, working in the Wilderness. Tripp Lanier yes 16:53