Avoiding Vulnerability Leads to Feeling Empty — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is our drive for more money, more status, or more stuff really just an attempt to fill a God-sized hole in our lives?

Do you ever feel awkward when expressing love to others?

And how does our need for safety block us from having satisfying relationships?

Today Alyson and I try to understand why love can be so challenging to receive. We discuss the ways we armor ourselves to avoid vulnerability and how we can still feel alone even when we’re with others.

In this conversation:

  • Steve Hardison, The Ultimate Coach
  • Fearing our light and wholeness
  • Being afraid to express love
  • Is the ego really the enemy?
  • Why we push love away

Plus:

  • How do we get emotional needs met without being vulnerable?
  • What is the small self?
  • What is the soul?
  • Armoring ourselves to avoid vulnerability
  • Christ consciousness, love, and forgiveness

About Tripp Lanier

Tripp Lanier is a professional coach, author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous, and host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp which — for over a decade — has been downloaded millions of times.

Since 2005, he has spent thousands of hours coaching people all around the world to get out of the rat race, become an authority in their field, and make a great living doing the work they were put on this earth to do. Over the years he’s designed several businesses to support a simple lifestyle focused on freedom, ease, meaning, and fun.

If you’d like to learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit TrippLanier.com.

About Alyson Lanier

Alyson Lanier is a multifaceted expert at the intersection of psychological and spiritual healing. With a 30 year career in Psychotherapy that includes a BA, MA, and LPC in psychology, Alyson supplemented her education with extensive training and certifications in attachment work, Gestalt therapy, Transpersonal psychology, Shambhala Buddhism, internal family systems, and Psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. Her professional journey encompasses over 50,000 hours of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, families, children, and adolescents across clinical and private settings.

If you’d like to learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit AlysonLanier.com