Should You Stay or Should you Leave?

TweetThere are a lot of men and women who are on the fence about their relationships. I’ve been one of them, and it’s painful for everyone involved. “Should I stay? Should I go? Am I settling?” When it’s good it’s really good. But a lot of the time it’s...

Does This Guy Have a Hand Up Your Ass?

TweetThere is a predator silently stalking you. It approaches from any direction at any time. It wants your money, your future and your peace of mind. It can and will steal the greatest experiences of your life. This predator is sophisticated and it’s sure as shit for...

When ‘Cowboy Up’ Means You’re a Pussy

Tweet“I don’t want to sound like a pussy, but she’s just straight up mean to me sometimes.” My coaching client Daryl* was telling me about his wife. “Mean? Like how?” I asked. “I ask her questions and she just shuts me down. I try to be helpful and she counters with...

Do You Live Like You Fuck?

TweetPLEASE NOTE: This is in service of an adult conversation using adult language. If you’re easily offended, you have the option to stop reading now. Tequila aside, it’s been said that a woman knows if she’d have sex with a guy in a matter of minutes, if not...

How to Take the Scary Next Step

Tweet“Maybe this woman will be ‘the one.’” “Maybe that job will be my calling.” “Maybe this book (or podcast) is going to give me the answer I need.” “Maybe this diet is the one that will keep me skinny.” We really want this next step to be The Last Step. We want to...