How to Win an Argument

Tweet“You know, if she would just listen to me we wouldn’t be having this problem,” Steve said. He was exasperated. “My wife just doesn’t get it. She always has to do things her way and it drives me nuts!” Steve is a coaching client (and that’s not his real name)....

Which Type of Lover Are You?

TweetWhich one of these scenarios best describes you as a lover? We’ll use scratching your partner’s back for pleasure to help us illustrate. Scenario One: The “good boy” asks, “So, uh, where do you want me to scratch your back, babe?” She has an itch and then directs...

How Much Does Freedom Cost?

TweetThere’s a myth going around. A nasty one. Basically it’s some version of “I can’t take a risk until I’ve got a certain amount of money.” And to an extent this is true. From a survival standpoint, absolutely. It’s hard to consider self-actualization when we need a...

Why She’s Not Fragile

TweetShe may be sensitive. She may cry more times in a month than you have in the last ten years. Sometimes she may lose herself in her emotional world with tears or rage or deafening silence. But let’s get something straight — she is not fragile. Whether she chooses...

Macho Man and The Ultimate Warrior Play Golf

TweetThis may seem a little silly. Stick with me. It’s a hot, sunny day. Macho Man Randy Savage and The Ultimate Warrior are playing a round of golf. In full makeup and “ring attire” they are in a heated battle on the links. Their outfits can be seen from outer space....

One Thing You Can Learn from a Stupid Dog

TweetYou’ve heard the story. There’s a yippy little dog who’s obsessed with his ball. He lives with his owner on the 37th floor of a fancy apartment building. While the owner is getting ready in the other room, her date is tossing the ball around with the obnoxious...